What should I do if my mother gets old?

In this case, you can only communicate with your mother more. It's normal to have ideological conflicts with parents, and so am I. Our generation has gone to college and broadened their horizons. There will inevitably be ideological conflicts with parents' generation. When I was a child, my parents preached to myself. When they are old, they can easily preach to their parents. If they preach, there will be disputes, which will affect their emotions and destroy their family ties.

But what parents say must be right? What parents say is not necessarily right. If it is wrong, of course, they can not follow, or even persuade them to change their views. However, it should be noted that even if there are ideological contradictions, you can't give your parents a look. Just keep a good attitude, and parents will feel at ease. Because if you show your contempt and impatience, your parents will be very upset.

In fact, sometimes you can't blame your parents for their outdated ideas, which is also the trend when they were young. For example, my grandmother still thinks that state-owned enterprises are good, but when she was young, she was really powerful. They are old ideas now because their ideas have not followed suit. We can only blame them.

Their thoughts were formed in the past few decades, and people in that era generally had a low level of education. Accepting modern new trends requires a certain cultural foundation, so it is difficult for the previous generation or even the previous generation to learn by themselves and accept it independently. And we are the mainstream of this generation, young people with high cultural quality, so we should help our parents to follow up and change old ideas.

People are historical people, and all their past forms their way of thinking and learns to understand and communicate. Believe me, after you have lived without food and money like them, your mind will not be any better than theirs. Watching TV from God's perspective is hooliganism.

So be more tolerant, understand and communicate with your mother. You can change her mind slowly. I'm sure your mother will agree as long as it makes sense.