A sad story about loving someone deeply but not being able to be together

I think most people have experienced "not being able to love", but the reasons and reasons for "not being able to" are somewhat different. For example, in middle school, a classmate who had a crush on oneself did not confess because of cowardice; My girlfriend of 20 years fell out of love on the day of graduation and went their separate ways; my girlfriend who had been in love for 8 years finally broke up when faced with buying a car, a house, and a bride price. I can tell dozens of stories like this in one breath.

In fact, there are many kinds of love without scoring. When you have a crush on the other person, you have been slow to express your love, which eventually leads to miss, and you regret it because of this, and even fall into deep self-blame. This kind of love may be slowly forgotten over time, but it may also gradually deepen over time, and even become an inner demon. If we can see each other again in the future, then this regret is not a regret. But if it is the regret of being separated forever, it will probably be engraved in our hearts for the rest of our lives. During the Republic of China, due to the turmoil in the country, This kind of love is very common.

The other kind is similar to Quasimodo's love. I like you, but you don't like me. I like you to the core of my being, but you never even gave me a smile. It's unrequited love at best, wishful thinking and asking for trouble at worst. But in reality, this kind of love also exists, and it also belongs to the category of love that cannot be achieved. To use a modern Internet buzzword to describe it: "This is loving the wrong person." In fact, many people fall in love with the wrong person, but they can't forget the days they were together and the emotions they put in, which eventually leads to their death in depression. This kind of love is the most uncomfortable and tormenting. of.

Compared with the first two types, the "unable to love" separation due to some force majeure factors is not so painful. Breaking up because of college graduation, breaking up because of not being able to come up with the bride price, in short, there is a close relationship. Reasons and reasons for choosing to break up in reality and life, although it also belongs to the category of not being able to love, this cannot be called pain, it should be regarded as a kind of happiness. Because before love is over, loving and being loved happen at the same time. We may not be able to be together in this life, but after all, we love each other, and this is more important than anything else.