Missing after the death of a loved one

For the deceased relatives, as long as they are filial and have a clear conscience when they are alive. As for memory, there was no sacrifice or burning paper in the last festival. Usually I may be moved by the scene. You should adjust your emotions in time, go home safely, auspicious, happy and responsible, live for love, and don't let them miss you on the other side.

There are many ways in the world, and there is a causal cycle. Let yourself finish the end of life! There are always regrets in life, and imperfection is a complete life.

Yesterday, I went back to my parents' house to sweep the grave for my elders, and then I went to sweep the grave for my father, pull up weeds and pile up dirt. I didn't cry. I think I'm going to visit my father, worship my ancestors and give them paper money. I told them that my family was fine and I didn't have to worry about anyone. I lived frugally when I was alive. Don't be so frugal when I go to the other side of heaven. I will send you money in the first quarter of last year. I can't spend it without money. Enjoy it. Do what you like!

People's life is really not easy. To survive, we must strive for a better life. Life just got better, and then my parents died one after another, missing Didi's adoptive parents, and my tears have not been completely wiped away. The pain of missing has not disappeared, and my husband who has been with me for forty years suddenly died [tears], which is even more painful. I feel that life is like this. Relatives left me one after another, and each one was heartbroken! I can't sleep for a long time, and I can't walk around every day. Finally depressed, took antidepressants and slept in the bathroom in the middle of the night. I can't bear the pain of losing my loved ones anymore. His smile, his figure, his appearance, when he is happy, he sings under my name, he likes my favorite Yue Opera, he can repair all kinds of small household appliances, he can do all kinds of locksmith work, he has taught himself a wealth of computer knowledge, he likes to study the international situation, he knows the geographical knowledge of the world, he likes to watch American movies, he will cook well, he silently protects me, and he is the pillar of my family. Now that he's gone, everything I live on has collapsed, and I can't handle everything at home well. I have no problem with that. We have no other relatives except that he has a brother in his seventies. I can't completely rely on my friends' company in my future life! Reality is too cruel and life is too hard. Especially in old age, it is difficult to change the habit of living alone for decades and can't adapt to the cold and lonely life of losing loved ones. So I don't know the best way to miss my loved ones. I only know that I can't extricate myself from missing my loved ones every day. It seems that only walking with him is the best way for me to miss him. He left me for 97 days, saying that time is the best medicine, but I don't know if I can make the medicine work!

I feel the same way. No medicine can cure the pain of losing my mother. I said we should live a good life. In fact, my inner feelings are inseparable from the pain and miss of losing my mother.

People are dead, what can you do? As long as we are happy together when our relatives are around, we will not regret or be sad after death.

Many people say: the best memory is to live well.

However, only those who have experienced it personally can understand the pain.

No matter how many years have passed, no matter when and where, as long as I mention it, I burst into tears.

Mom has been gone for more than ten years, and I have never mentioned her in front of others. I always deliberately avoid this word because I can't forget her.

I hope my father is alive, and I hope he will be happy and live a long life.

Loving the person she loves is the best memory I think.