Talk about the different emotions of three foxes facing the tall grape trellis.

There is an old story at the beginning: in a farmer's orchard, purple grapes are covered with branches, which makes people drool. Of course, this delicious food can't escape the fox camping nearby. They have long wanted to enjoy it.

The first fox came under the grape trellis. It found that the grape trellis was much higher than its height. It stood below and thought about it, unwilling to give up. What a rare opportunity! After thinking for a while, he found a ladder next to the grape trellis and remembered that the farmer had used it. Therefore, it climbed up like a farmer and successfully picked grapes.

The fox adopted a solution to the problem. It faced the problem directly, did not escape, and finally solved the problem. )

The second fox came under the grape trellis, and he also found that he could not eat grapes in his life. Therefore, it thought, this grape must be sour and uncomfortable to eat. Might as well not eat. So it left happily.

(This fox uses the "sour grape effect" which is often said in psychology. It can also be called decorative effect or rational explanation, that is, it explains the phenomenon that a person cannot achieve his own goals with reasons that can meet his personal needs. )

The third fox came under the grape trellis. He has just read How Steel was Tempered and was deeply moved by the heroic spirit. When it saw the tall grape trellis, it was not discouraged. It thinks: I can jump. As long as I work hard, I will get it. The belief that "where there is a will, there is a way" supports it, but contrary to expectations, it jumps lower and lower, and finally runs out under the grape trellis and devotes itself to making fertilizer.

This fox's behavior is called "stubbornness" in psychology, that is, repeating some ineffective behaviors repeatedly, and sometimes we also call it obsessive-compulsive disorder. Explain that not the best solution to everything is to solve the problem, depending on your ability, the environment at that time and other factors. )

The fourth fox came under the grape trellis. As soon as he saw that the grape trellis was higher than himself and his wish failed, he swore and bit down the grapevine he could get. It happened that the farmer found it and killed it with a shovel.

We call this fox's behavior "attack", which is an undesirable way to deal with it, and it is harmful to people and themselves. )

The fifth fox came under the grape trellis. When he saw that his height looked so short under the grape trellis, he cried sadly. Why is it so sad to be so short? If it is like an elephant, doesn't it eat whatever it wants? Why the grape trellis is so high, it's really sad to wait for a year. I thought I could eat it, but I didn't expect this result.

The performance of this fox is called "retrogression" in psychology, that is, when an individual encounters setbacks, he retrogrades from a higher stage of personality development to a lower stage of personality development. )

The sixth fox came under the grape trellis. He looked up at the grape trellis and thought, since I can't eat grapes, neither can other foxes. If so, I have nothing to regret. Anyway, everyone is the same.

(This fox's behavior is called "projection" in psychology, that is, attributing one's wishes and motives to others, and asserting that others also have such motives and desires. These things are often beyond his power. )

The seventh fox came under the grape trellis. He stood under the tall grape trellis and was in a very bad mood. He wants to know why I can't eat it. My fate is so tragic. I can't satisfy my desire to eat a grape. Why is my luck so bad? The more I think about it, the more depressed I get, and finally I end up depressed.

The fox's condition is a manifestation of "depression", that is, a neurological disorder characterized by persistent depression. )

The eighth fox came under the grape trellis. He tried to jump up and pick grapes, but failed. He tried not to think about grapes, but he couldn't resist. He also tried some other methods, but without success. He heard that other foxes had eaten grapes, and he felt even worse. Finally, it bumped into the grape trellis.

The fate of this fox is caused by its psychological imbalance. In real life, we often encounter a similar phenomenon of "no pain, no joy". Many people choose inappropriate coping styles because they are psychologically unbalanced when compared with others. )

The ninth fox came under the grape trellis, but he couldn't reach the grapes. It thought, listen to other foxes, lemon tastes like grapes. Since I can't eat grapes, why not try lemons? I can't hang myself in a tree! Therefore, it left contentedly to look for lemons.

Psychologically, this fox's behavior is called "substitution", that is, replacing his unfulfilled wishes in a way that he can achieve. )

The tenth fox came under the grape trellis. Seeing the gap between his ability and the tall grape trellis, he realized that it was impossible to eat grapes with his current level and ability, so he decided to use his time to save his strength and enroll in a postgraduate class to learn the techniques of picking grapes. In the end, he certainly got what he wanted.

This fox adopts a problem-oriented coping strategy. It can correctly analyze the relationship and nature between itself and the problem and find the best solution, which is a better way to deal with it. )

The eleventh fox came under the grape trellis, and it faced the same problem. It rolled its eyes and cheated several companions, then knocked them unconscious with a shovel while they were not paying attention, piled up their companions and stepped on them, and sure enough, it got the grapes.

Although the fox finally solved the problem, it was at the expense of others, which is not desirable. )

The twelfth fox came under the grape trellis. This is a beautiful miss fox. It thinks that a weak woman can't reach the grapes anyway, so why don't I use the strength of others? So he found a boyfriend, and Mr. Fox gave Miss Fox the best gift with the help of a ladder.

This is called "compensation principle" in psychology, that is, using one's own advantages on the other hand or the advantages of others to make up for one's own shortcomings. This method is also a good method in some cases. )

The thirteenth fox came under the grape trellis. He was very dissatisfied with the height of the grape trellis, which made him unable to taste the sweet grapes, so he blamed the vines. It is said that because the grapevine is too ambitious and climbs so high, the heart of the grape is not as beautiful as it looks. After venting, I quietly left.

The fox's behavior can be called "reaction" in psychology, that is, engaging in some symbolic activities to offset and resist a person's true feelings. )

The fourteenth fox came under the grape trellis and found that he could not eat the grapes he had longed for for for a long time. When he saw rotten grapes falling from the ground and other foxes eating the remaining grape skins, he looked at them contemptuously and vomited and said, "It's disgusting. Who can eat these things? " .

The fox's behavior is called "reverse action" in psychology, that is, a psychological defense mechanism with completely opposite behavior and motivation. )

The fifteenth fox came under the grape trellis. He didn't curse or insist on jumping up, but sighed. Good things are always so far away from us, so there is a distance. What's wrong with letting yourself have a little fantasy? So it became poetic, and a book of poems was born.

This behavior of the fox is called "replacement" in psychology, that is, one kind of spiritual catharsis replaces another. )

The sixteenth fox came under the grape trellis. After he found that his desire to eat grapes could not be realized, he soon developed stomach pain and indigestion. This fox has never understood how it has always attached great importance to diet, and how it can have digestive system problems.

The fox's experience can be called "transformation" in psychology, that is, the individual transforms psychological pain into physical illness. )

The seventeenth fox came under the grape trellis and found the same problem. It curled its lips and said, "What's the big deal? Some of our foxes have already eaten. Who says only monkeys can eat fruit, and so can foxes! " "

Fox's words and deeds are a kind of emotional coping style, which can be called "peer-to-peer interaction" in psychology, that is, when self-worth is lower than others, looking for people who have relations with themselves to realize self-worth. )

The eighteenth fox came under the grape trellis and thought, I can't eat grapes myself, and other foxes can't eat grapes when they come. Why don't we learn the cooperative spirit of monkeys fishing for the moon? There used to be monkeys fishing for the moon, but now foxes pick grapes, which may also be a story that has been passed down through the ages! So it mobilized all the foxes who wanted to eat grapes to cooperate and set up a fox ladder to let everyone eat sweet grapes.

This fox takes a problem-oriented approach. It knows the truth of cooperation, and the final result is beneficial to itself and everyone. ); You can't tell the mentality. It's up to you. If you put him right, tell everyone a simple truth through fables, it depends on how you do it yourself ~ ~

Correct consciousness can guide people to carry out practical activities effectively and promote the development of objective things; Wrong consciousness will lead people's activities astray and hinder the development of objective things. Therefore, we must attach importance to the role of consciousness, the strength of spirit, consciously establish a correct ideology and overcome the wrong ideology.