A good friend earns millions a year. Tell me about it.

As the saying goes, a dragon gives birth to nine children, each with his own merits. Even a biological brother has a different temper and personality. Some are down-to-earth and work hard. Others are insatiable and lazy. This is not only a problem of family education, but also inseparable from the growth environment. Therefore, even biological brothers have no obligation to help. After all, helping you is an obligation, and not helping you is also an obligation. When we face the efforts of our brothers and sisters, we should not only know how to be grateful, but also know how to cherish it, otherwise it will only make us lose more than we gain.

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When Gao Xiao was a teenager, he followed his relatives to the construction site to manage the project. He is tired and bitter, so he can't make money. However, Gao Xiao did not give up. He always believes that he will succeed one day. Fortunately, God did not fail Gao Xiao. He was promoted by a leader and became the site director with an annual salary of one million. Although many people envy Gao Xiao, it is the result of his real efforts.

Gao Xiao's younger brother is a lazy man. After graduating from high school, he mixed in the society for several years, got tired of it and began to work. There are several jobs arranged at home, either too tired or too little money. Finally, Xiao Gaotuo arranged a job with an annual salary of about 40 thousand for him, which was very easy. Gao Xiao's younger brother looked at his younger brother's annual salary of one million, so he offered to let him buy a house for himself. This is also convenient for parents to support the elderly, and they will pay him back if they have money. Gao Xiao thinks this is his brother, and now he has the ability, so he gives his brother some money to buy a villa.

Since Gao Xiao's younger brother bought a villa, the whole people don't know how small they are. He is lazy at work every day, only having fun everywhere. In addition, people are handsome and generous, so they are deeply loved by little girls.

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Six months ago, Gao Xiao's younger brother met a rich girl. Home is a hotel. Gao Xiao thinks that if she marries herself, she will succeed in her career and she won't have to feel inferior. So he begged the woman eagerly, hoping to get married early. When the rich girl saw that he had a villa, she thought she was also a rich boy. Gao Xiao's younger brother is good at pleasing girls, so he promised to take him to meet his parents. Xiao happily came to the rich girl's house and put forward the idea of getting married. I thought everything was going well, but they asked for 300 thousand bride price. This made Gao Xiao's younger brother panic. He only earned 40 thousand a year. When will he earn 300 thousand bride price?

So Gao Xiao's younger brother, who just bought a house, asked his eldest brother for a bride price of 300,000 yuan and insisted on marrying this rich girl. Gao Xiao heard the whole story and said, "It's not appropriate for you to be together." The younger brother felt that Gao Xiao didn't want to give him money, and said anxiously: Whether it is appropriate to be together is our business. For our brother's sake, you get an extra two or three months' salary. Is it okay?

Seeing his brother's insatiable greed, Gao Xiao began to regret buying a villa for his brother. If he hadn't bought such a nice house, the woman wouldn't have taken a fancy to him. In fact, Gao Xiao is not worried about money. The problem is that they are not suitable at all. However, Gao Xiao didn't want to worry his parents, so he gave a bride price of 300,000 yuan. Originally, he thought it would all be over. Then his brother told Gao Xiao that he must have a lively wedding. Budget180,000 yuan, borrow money from Gao Xiao. Gao Xiao's heart cooled down after hearing this. He just came out to work for five years, and bought two suites with the money he earned, and his own one is still mortgaged. But this is his own brother. What can I do?

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So Gao Xiao said, I can lend it to you, but I have to write an IOU. When Gao Xiao's younger brother heard about the IOU, he said that he would forget his old love affair when he became rich in laughter. It's blasphemy to borrow money and write IOUs ... Gao Xiao feels that water under the bridge, his eldest brother's responsibility has been fulfilled. Brother doesn't know how to cherish, and there is nothing he can do. So, the two brothers fell out, and Gao Xiao planned to go back to the house. My brother's girlfriend heard about it and ran away in a rage. The wedding was not finished and the marriage was not formed. In this way, Gao Xiao's younger brother is drawing water with a sieve, with nothing. He went to his parents and complained that Gao Xiao had hurt him, and it was Gao Xiao who made him single all his life.

At this moment, Gao Xiao's mother said a word: Second child, your eldest brother is your eldest brother after all, and he gives you mutual affection. It is also his responsibility not to give it to you. As a younger brother, you can't push your luck. Although your eldest brother earns a lot and works hard, he has several white hairs at a young age. Say that finish, Gao Xiao's mother left with a sigh, she is very helpless for her second son. He doesn't know how to be grateful, but only knows how to bear it. She doesn't know how to give, but she just takes what others give for granted. What can she do? ...

Conclusion: As the saying goes, the same person has different lives. The two brothers, with different behaviors, have completely different fates. My brother works hard and earns millions of dollars a year. My brother is lazy and lazy, with an annual salary of 40 thousand. The elder brother buys a house for his younger brother and marries him with a bride price. My brother's dedication and concern have become a matter of course in his eyes, and it has also become a reason to squeeze blindly. Although brother and younger brother are blood brothers, they should help each other. But this can't be the reason why the younger brother relies on his brother and blindly asks for it. After all, helping you is an obligation, and not helping you is also an obligation. My brother has no obligation and responsibility to help him buy a house. Therefore, my brother was ungrateful and took his brother's contribution as an obligation. Finally, he drew water with a sieve. Who can blame this?