How to treat parents who prefer sons to daughters?

From an early age, I could vaguely feel that my mother liked my brother better, but I never thought it was son preference. I just think she and I have the same temper, and they are both women. Compared with her brother, her preference for him is due to the attraction of the opposite sex. Because eating and dressing at school are used to make up lessons, and they have never been bad. Even I sleep in the best room at home. My brother slept with his parents when he was young. When he grows up, he sleeps in the guest room Later, I worked, and my brother used my room, but every time I came home, my mother would let my brother sleep in the guest room and help me clean the room. Every time I go home, my mother will buy my favorite food and cook my favorite food.

When did I begin to realize that my parents preferred sons to daughters? My father has a sister, that is, my aunt, and the family is also a combination of a sister and a brother. My cousin's personality is stronger than mine. She once had a conflict with her family, saying that she needed a floor to build her own house. My aunt said that there was no reason to give the property to her daughter. My mother immediately agreed with this view. The father only said that if the conditions are similar in the future, she can give it to any child. I know my mother still thinks I'm a daughter and my brother is a son. But it doesn't affect my feelings for my parents.

A few years later, my parents also wanted to support the elderly and built a house in their hometown. Father said to give me a floor, anyway, I also have a place to live in the future. Because of my cousin, I want to see what my parents think. I said, then transfer it to my name. My dad says it's not good. You can live in it, but you can't write your name. After you get married, writing your name is equivalent to giving it to someone else's home. After listening to this, I found an excuse to go to the toilet and ran to the toilet to shed tears. How does it feel? You think we are a family from childhood to this life, but our parents say we will not be a family anymore, and your mother and your brother are a family.

From then on, I began to feel different about my parents.

Later, I wanted to marry my boyfriend at that time and called home to discuss it. Then when it comes to having children, I said I don't want to have children in the future. My dad said I don't care if you have children or not. Anyway, it's not for our family, nor for my family name.

At this time, when I heard him say these words, I could hold back my tears and continue to talk to him until I hung up the phone.

In fact, from this time on, I want to buy my own house. I also understand that it is impossible to expect my parents to love me or help me if I am born in such a family without thinking for myself. Born in such a family, there is actually no home. So I can only give myself a home.

But two things really made me completely let go of my parents. First, soon after my brother went to high school, his parents said they would buy a suite for his brother in the provincial capital city. I said, who will pay the bill? My mother said that when your father works, he and I will pay for it ourselves. I said that's fine, then you can buy it. Later, I didn't buy it either. Later, I said that I wanted my brother to volunteer to come to the city where I work for the college entrance examination and ask them to buy a suite for both of us. But I have to wait until my brother wishes.

The second thing is that I want to pay a down payment to buy a house with my current boyfriend recently, but I still need a little money. My dad called me earlier and told me to hurry up. I said to buy a house first, and then my dad said to go and have a look first. Listen, my family will support us. I really feel a little revived after listening to it. Even if it means something, at least they still have me in their hearts. I'm afraid I'm not paying lip service to suffering.

Then I naively went to see the house the next day and told my family. As a result, my father saw my news and didn't reply to me. One day later, my mother sent me a message saying that girls should make a living first and then seek love. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

It's really you who say that your parents are eccentric, and they tell you that ten fingers are connected to one. When they paid for their son's house, they said that ten fingers were not the same length.

My son is going to buy a house to help him in high school, and my daughter will make a living before falling in love when she reaches marriageable age.

Actually, I don't want my parents' money either. I really hope they keep it for themselves. After working hard for most of my life, I will be free and keep it for myself. It's always uncomfortable to ask others for money. If only our brother and sister had struggled on their own, we wouldn't want to be rich or expensive, and ordinary food, clothing, housing and transportation would have passed.

But I want to put in a good word in front of my daughter, and I don't want to pay. It's really boring They simply told me that all our money, whether it is a house or a house, will be given to your brother. In the future, you will have to rely on your own pension, and the main task will still be on your brother. I dare not say death, but I will do it.