How to tease your little brother

1. Take the initiative, but don’t harass

Actually, I don’t take the initiative, because I think it’s not interesting for a girl to take the initiative. If the other person likes you, they will definitely come. Looking for you, girls need to reduce their movements.

My cousin is the kind of person who can control herself. If you don’t come to me, don’t expect me to come to you. If you take the initiative to come to me, I will have to wait a little longer before replying to you. No matter how much you like her, it will be the same. To be honest, I think my cousin is so cool and chic. But I forgot that the good boys she has missed in the past two years can be linked together to circle around her unit building.

Xiaojuan said, don’t be particularly aloof, because being aloof and reserved are two different things. If the girls around him are fair-skinned, beautiful, with thin waists and long legs, and you are not only ordinary but also arrogant, is he looking for abuse? If you don’t take the initiative, you are very cute, but he only sees two things, so what? Do you think it's fun to be with you?

But you have to pay attention to the scale. Don't send messages to others every day when you think of them. If you send several messages in a row and the other party doesn't reply, then divert your attention to do it. Other things, otherwise there are many messages and phone calls in a row. This is not initiative, it is harassment.

But once he develops the habit of chatting with you every day, when you ignore him one day, he will talk to you.

2. Always deliberately being a big failure

Many girls are a joker in front of their friends. Everyone thinks you have a good personality, but when you meet the person you like, He turned into a little idiot and couldn't say anything. He said that if you think about it for half an hour, you should always think about how to suit the other person's preferences and how to follow the other person's words to make the other person happy. This is just too tiring.

You can talk about topics he likes, but there is no need to restrain your emotions. If you like to say hahahaha, don’t say hehehe. If you like to call 6666, don’t send 2333. If you like to laugh heartily, , don’t hold it back until you pout.

You can feel whether a person is pretending or not. You should be yourself openly and openly, be confident in yourself, give full play to your advantages, and show your excellence, but this A kind of generosity and arrogance, which is different from the fact that I am the best and you are not as good as me...

3. Find out what makes you different from others

Everyone knows Why does Jia Baoyu like Lin Daiyu but not Xue Baochai? It's because Xue Baochai is so annoying sometimes. She always stares at Jia Baoyu to study like everyone else. But Lin Daiyu is not like that. She is a breath of fresh air for people around Jia Baoyu. He is more relaxed when he is with her.

Xiaojuan said that she was getting along with the boy she liked. The boy liked to play games occasionally, but many people said that playing games was not interesting and it was better to go out to play together. But Xiaojuan was different. Not only did she not He ignores her anger when playing games, and she wishes the boy good grades.

There is also a boy that a friend likes who he met in a nightclub. He is a person who likes to have fun. The girls around him go crazy and make trouble with him, but every time she hears that he goes out to play again, she wants to He went home and sent him a message before going to bed. In the end, the other party felt that she really cared about him and had a strong sense of belonging. After two people got together, the frequency of hanging out was reduced by half.

Of course, this kind of amplification of your differences is where you are truly different from others. If you can't find it, don't force it.

4. Praise him adoringly

To be honest, boys are quite silly, just like children, they like the feeling of being admired by others.

Xiaojuan said that when she was in contact with her male idol, she would always find his strengths and praise him openly or quietly. For example, if he says that he ranks first in a game, you have to praise him for being awesome. If he says that his fitness lines are more obvious, you have to praise him for being good-looking. Even if he says that he was hit on while walking on the street today, You can say that he is handsome to begin with.

Praise his watch, praise his backpack, praise his shoes...

When he is used to being admired by you, he will feel that you can see him A lot of good things, and I will feel very happy when I am with you. Even though you are as good as him, you also need to be a loyal little fangirl.

This is not only useful when flirting with a male idol, but also a secret to maintaining a happy relationship. You must have a sincere heart for liking him and be good at discovering the other person's strengths.