Examples of hurtful words and warm words.

A penny wise and pound foolish candidate

The high-paying recruitment of a large company in Beijing has attracted a large number of high-quality talents to compete. After a series of selection, the remaining five people accepted the final interview. These people go through five hurdles and cut six generals, thinking that the final interview is just a formality and nothing important. So they all went into the manager's office with confidence. At this moment, the manager said, excuse me, young man, I have something to do for twenty minutes. could you wait for me ？ Five people said in unison, of course. The manager went out, and when they were waiting bored in the office, they saw a lot of papers on the desk, so they all leaned over and leafed through them in piles, enjoying it. Twenty minutes later, the manager came back on time and said that the interview was over. A few young people are puzzled and can't help asking, we are still waiting for you, how did it end? The manager said that the 20 minutes I went out was your interview time. Our company doesn't need people who go through other people's things without permission. Although you are all excellent, you don't even know the most basic manners. We don't want them. The five men were speechless and deeply regretted their recklessness. A little indiscretion is a big mistake!

Ford's story

There is a Ford company in America. Ford is a man. After graduating from college, he applied for a job in a car company. Three or four people who applied with him have higher academic qualifications than him. After the previous interviews, he felt hopeless. But when it comes, it is safe. He knocked on the door and walked into the chairman's office. As soon as he entered the office, he found a piece of paper on the floor at the door. He bent down to pick it up and found it was a piece of colored paper, so he threw it into the wastebasket. Then he went to the chairman's desk and said, "I'm here to apply for Ford." The purser said, "Very good, very good! Mr. Ford, you have been employed by us. " Ford said in surprise, "Madam President, I think the first few are better than me. How did you hire me? " The chairman said: "Mr. Ford, the top three are indeed more educated and more handsome than you, but their eyes can only' see' the big things, but they can't see the small things." Your eyes can see small things. I think people who can see small things will naturally see big things in the future. A person who can only "see" big things will ignore many small things. He won't succeed. That's why I hired you. " In this way, Ford entered this company, which soon became famous all over the world. Ford changed this company to "Ford Company", which correspondingly changed the national economic situation of the whole United States and made the American automobile industry walk in the forefront of the world. This is Ford, the founder of today's "American Ford Company". Everybody says, is this piece of waste paper important? People who see small things can see big things, but those who only "see" big things may not see small things. This is a very important lesson.

Allusions of Chengmen Sydney

Cheng Menxue Pear tells the story of Shi Yang and You Zuo, scholars in Song Dynasty, asking Cheng Yi and Cheng Hao for advice.

Cheng, a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, was a famous Neo-Confucianism in the Song Dynasty. Cheng's theory was inherited and developed by Zhu, which is called "Cheng-Zhu School". Shi Yang and Zuo You, who are studying Chengcheng, have great respect. You Yang, two people, originally studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first visited Cheng Yi in Songyang Academy.

According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, and met an old gentleman who closed his eyes and took a nap. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to keep silent and ignored them. Yang Heyou dared not disturb Mr. Wang's rest, but stood in awe and said nothing until he opened his eyes. After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yicai woke up like Luo, met Yang Heyou, and pretended to be surprised and said, "Ah! Ah! Sages have been calling here for a long time! " It means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and I don't know when it began to snow. There is more than a foot of snow outside the door.

This story is called "Cheng Men Sydney". It was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, when people describe respecting teachers and earnestly seeking advice, they often quote this allusion and idiom.

Chinese etiquette has been passed down from generation to generation.

Kong Rong asked Pear to respect her parents.

Huangxiangnuan cultural person

Chinese etiquette cannot be forgotten.

Strive to be a small model of etiquette

1. Etiquette is the cheapest substance in the world, and it can get the greatest benefit. napoleon hill

If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it. -Confucius

In interpersonal communication, the more thoughtful the etiquette, the safer it is. -Carlisle

4, sincere temperature, angry words, will be moving. -[Ming] Xue Xuan "Talking about Book Records"

5. Knowledge makes people gentle, and communication makes people perfect. -[America] Joe fuller

6, courtesy, welcome. Thomas ford

A short story of civilized etiquette

Ceng Zi is not in his seat "Ceng Zi is not in his seat" comes from The Book of Filial Piety, which is a very famous story. Ceng Zi is a disciple of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, and Confucius asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme virtue, and he needs mysterious theories to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister." Do you know what they are? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to point out the deepest truth in his heart, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough. How can I know?" Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. " Here, "avoiding seats" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.

Strive to be civilized students and build a civilized campus.

Dear leaders, teachers and students:

Good morning!

Under the correct leadership of the school leaders, our Gangtun Primary School has overcome all kinds of difficulties. Through the unremitting efforts of all teachers and students, we have a quiet and warm learning environment, created a good cultural atmosphere and created a healthy growth space. In the morning light, in the breeze and in the small auditorium, the students are thriving.

However, in this beautiful campus, there will also be some discordant notes, and occasionally there will be some unsatisfactory phenomena. For example, just after cleaning the campus, some of our classmates left the unfinished milk bags, beverage cans and sorbet paper; In the clean campus, there are scraps of paper and plastic bags thrown by our classmates; In the classroom with loud books, some students are depressed; During the break, there are always several students shouting loudly and chasing each other. A few students are influenced by some bad habits, such as swearing, swearing, quarreling, fighting and disunity.

Although all these phenomena only happen to a few individual students, they destroy the beautiful and harmonious educational environment provided by our school and are inconsistent with the mainstream civilization advocated by our society today. The degree of civilization of a society depends on the quality of people, a city depends on the quality of citizens, and a school depends on each of our classmates. Students, have you ever thought that our civilization represents not only our personal image, but also the image of our school? Therefore, from now on, we must resolutely abandon all kinds of uncivilized behaviors in us, develop good behavior habits, and be a self-respecting, self-loving, neat, simple and generous student; Be a sincere, friendly, polite and noble student; Be a diligent and active student; Be a civilized, healthy and progressive "four haves" newcomer in 2 1 century.

Students, let's work together to build a civilized and beautiful campus, let each of our little students become civilized people, and let the flowers of civilization bloom in every corner of the campus. At the same time, let us use our own civilized behavior to influence our families, our communities and the streets around us, and do our bit to create a civilized city in Zichuan. Thank you!

Speech under the national flag (2)

Let's build a civilized campus.

Dear leaders, teachers and dear students: Hello everyone!

Children's Day is coming. First of all, I wish the students a happy holiday! The content of my speech today is "Let's build a civilized campus together". Civilization is everywhere. It can show a person's moral cultivation and enhance the friendship between people. It has too many functions. So how can we let the civilization of primary school students penetrate into a beautiful campus?

We primary school students should dress neatly, conform to students' identity, and reflect the lofty demeanor of students in the new century. The flag-raising ceremony is the most solemn. This embodies the national flag of civilization and blood, which is more distinct under the encirclement of etiquette. At this moment, under the national flag, we should be serious and full of energy and sing the national anthem. Campus civilization is more important. Take a break between classes, don't chase and fight, don't spit and throw confetti everywhere, go up and down the stairs and walk to the right, and take the initiative to say hello to teachers and guests. We should also take good care of flowers, trees and all facilities, do not cross the green belt, obey the management of teachers, and accept criticism and dissuasion from students on duty.

For a long time, the leading teachers of Gangtun Primary School have been unknown and selfless, striving to create a beautiful campus environment and good learning conditions for students. Similarly, everyone has the responsibility to create a good class group and create a good campus atmosphere. Have you thought about it? The school should develop and its image should be tall. It is not enough to rely solely on the efforts of teachers. It needs the joint efforts of you, me, him and everyone. Whatever you say, what I do, we have created a small, tall and beautiful image of Zichuan. Every young pioneer's words and deeds reveal the taste of the school and are related to the honor and disgrace of the school. Don't think that a person's words and deeds are insignificant. A drop of water can't change the drought, but countless drops can form an ocean. I hope that every student will consciously assume his own responsibility. We are real pupils, we want to be civilized students, and we want to be spiritual students.

Let's all act, supervise each other and promote each other. Let our campus be more civilized and beautiful!

Speech under the national flag (3)

Cherish time

Two thousand years ago, a philosopher stood by the river, facing the flowing river, thinking about the lost time and things, and issued an eternal sigh: the deceased is like a husband.

Time is the most common and precious. Money can't be bought, and status can't be kept. "Time is the material that constitutes a person's life." Everyone's life is limited. Similarly, the time for a lively event is limited and fleeting.

However, time is precious. Although it limits people's lives, people can make full use of it in their limited lives. Mr. Lu Xun said that time is 24 hours a day, but one day brings wisdom and strength to hardworking people, leaving only regrets to lazy people. I think this sentence vividly describes that successful people cherish every minute and achieve brilliant results, while unsuccessful people just muddle along and kill time because of the idea of "being a monk for a day". In their eyes, time is long and meaningless, but when they look back, they find that time is like running water, gone forever, and they find that time is precious. It can be said that "young people don't work hard, but the boss is sad."

Throughout the ages, many people regret that time flies, so they sigh: "Time flies and makes people old, and the sun and the moon fly like teenagers." Indeed, the speed of time is really difficult to estimate and describe. The tree is dead, and there is still a chance to be green again; Flowers fade and bloom; Swallows have gone and come back; However, if a person's life is over and his limited time is used up, there is no chance of resurrection and salvation. Just as "flowers bloom again, people are no longer young." Time is like this step by step, never to return. And this is telling us not to throw away precious light and shade, to cherish time, to cherish life, to make good use of every minute and not to waste it. As Zhu Ziqing said: When washing your hands, the days pass from the basin; When eating, the days pass from the rice bowl; When I am silent, I look through my eyes. I feel that time has passed in a hurry. When I reached out and took my hand, it passed by my hand. It was dark and I was lying in bed. It passed by me and flew away from my feet. When I opened my eyes to say goodbye to the sun, another day slipped away quietly. I hid my face and sighed, but the shadow of a new day began to flash in my sigh. This sentence says that time is passing all the time, so we should make good use of the passing moment. "Future", "present" and "past" are the steps of time: "Future" approaches gloomily; "Now" disappeared like an arrow; The past will stop forever. In the great universe, life just flashes like a meteor; In an infinite river, life is just a small wave. Teachers and students, let's cherish the most precious thing in life-time!

Speech under the national flag (4)

Beautiful language, spring rain moistens the heart.

Teachers and students: Good morning!

The topic of my speech today is "beautiful language, spring breeze and quiet things".

Civilized speech and elegant manners are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. If a person can be eloquent, gushing, earnest and inspiring, it not only shows his profound cultural heritage, but also reflects his noble moral quality. A warm word, a thoughtful look, seemingly insignificant, actually has far-reaching significance. During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang vividly expressed his sincere heart of serving Shu and his general plan of governing the country by the way of heaven and earth with the article "A Model". However, who is not moved by the beautiful language in his article? Thus becoming one of the many beautiful essays left in the history of China literature. Twenty years ago, I said, "Hello, Xiaoping!" The reason why it has spread all over the country and penetrated into thousands of households lies in its simple and true language, which not only embodies the affirmation and support of the people of the whole country for Grandpa Deng Xiaoping's reform and opening up, but also expresses the infinite reverence and love of the people of the SAR for Grandpa Deng Xiaoping.

Confucius once said, you can't stand without learning etiquette. China is an ancient civilization with a long history and has a good reputation as a country of etiquette. Politeness is not a trivial matter in personal life, but a true reflection of a country's social fashion and a symbol of a nation's moral quality and spiritual civilization. From the moment he came to this world, everyone needed the caress, comfort, consideration, care and mutual help of others, and they all longed for sincere friendship and mutual help. When we are happy, we need to share with others. When we have pain and troubles, we need to talk to others. When you are in trouble, you need others' help. In dealing with people, we also need tolerance, openness, tolerance of different opinions, friendliness, understanding, no complaining, no jealousy and no doubt. Be reasonable, apologize for being unreasonable, get along with others sincerely, be kind to others, respect each other and trust each other. Sometimes a "hello" will bring good mood to others, a "thank you" will bring people closer, a "sorry" can resolve tense conflicts, and a "never mind" is equivalent to blowing away the warm spring breeze. Students, let's all act. Let "please, hello, thank you, sorry, never mind, goodbye" become our daily language. Let each of us treat others with a friendly and sincere attitude, act with a warm and generous attitude, bring happiness and harmony to others, make the campus full of love and warmth, and let the flowers of civilization and courtesy bloom in our campus!

Speech under the national flag (5)

Success lies in persistence.

Teachers and students: Good morning!

The topic of my speech today is "Success lies in persistence".

First of all, I want to share an interesting story with you: this story happened in ancient Greece. On the first day of school, the great philosopher Socrates said to his students, "Today we only learn the simplest and easiest things to do. Everyone stretches out their arms as far as possible. " Socrates said and demonstrated it again. "Starting today, do it 300 times a day. Can everyone do it? " The students all laughed. What can't be done with such a simple thing! After a month, Socrates asked the students, "Who insists on throwing 300 times a day?" 90% of the students raised their hands proudly. After another month, Socrates asked again, this time, only 80% of the students persisted. A year later, Socrates asked everyone again, "Please tell me, who else insisted on doing the simplest cutting exercise?" At this time, only one person in the whole classroom raised his hand. This student is Plato who later became another great philosopher in ancient Greece. The profound meaning contained in this short story is obvious.

Buffon, a great French enlightenment thinker, once said, "Genius is long-term perseverance." Hua, a famous mathematician in China, once said: "To learn and do research, we must persevere." In fact, perseverance and perseverance are the key to our success. How many such examples need not be enumerated, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign? Let's say Liu Xiang, a wind-chasing teenager and hurdler hero that students are very familiar with and admire. At the age of eight, Liu Xiang began his excellent education career, began to practice high jump, and later turned to hurdles. In more than ten years of hard training, I face running, jumping and jumping every day; Jump, run and take off. Day after day, year after year, how boring and boring it is for Liu Xiang, a teenager who loves music and computers! However, Liu Xiang persisted. After more than ten years of hard training, Liu Xiang finally succeeded. At the Athens Olympic Games, an oriental myth that surprised the western world was born. What glory and pride has Liu Xiang brought to the people of China? I think he also injected a strong spiritual power into each of us, that is, clear goals, perseverance, and ultimately success! The easiest thing in the world is persistence, and the most difficult thing is persistence. This is easy, because everyone can do it as long as they are willing to do it; This is difficult, because only a few people can really do it.

It is no secret that success lies in persistence.

Students, when difficulties stop your success; When failure dampens your enterprise; When the burden weighs you out of breath, don't back down, don't give up, you must persist, because only persistence can lead to success!