If you quarrel with your husband, you say you don't want to stay here, and he says he will leave you and leave my children with me. Will you get angry or use something?

If he cares about children, he will definitely care about you. It's just that he was angry at the time. I don't think it's necessary to say "go" in future quarrels, because if you want a man to compromise, those who are willing to compromise will compromise before you start quarreling, and those who are unwilling to compromise will quarrel. There is no need to put yourself at a disadvantage. After you find that he won't compromise next time, you can simply say, it's up to you, and you can consider it for him.