The wife is still the old one,

I think so too. Why are husband and wife a couple?

First, meet in the most beautiful years, and each other has a lot of beautiful things worth nostalgia.

It turns out that when lovers meet in the most beautiful years, they all give each other the best years. The first acquaintance, the first meal, the first trip, the first kiss, the first love, the first wedding ... many firsts have long been engraved in the rings of life and become a rare beauty in life. Some couples will choose to look back at the past when their feelings are in crisis, that is, to call back each other's treasure with the beauty of the past. Compared with half-way couples, native couples have much more good memories.

Second, it is easier to cherish each other if they have the same struggle experience.

The accumulation of wealth takes time, and many primitive couples have experienced the process of becoming rich from poverty. From the naked marriage of the first marriage to the completion of wealth accumulation, husband and wife have made a lot of efforts.

Cherish because of giving, and cherish because of cherishing. The feelings of the original couple were established in the history of hard work, which is easier to cherish than those couples who became monks halfway. For better or worse, watch it when it's dangerous. I met many lovers on the way, and both of them were in good health. Once the other person has a serious illness, they will go their separate ways to the children, and the "parting in the face of disaster" is vividly staged. If you don't believe me, go to the hospital. Most people who are willing to be around the bed when they are sick are original couples.

Third, there are * * * children, and children will not be divided because of closeness.

It turns out that husband and wife have the same child. In the education of children, husband and wife are United, thinking for the same child and working hard for the same child. Parenting will not happen, it will only make the relationship between husband and wife closer.

Couples are different halfway. If both parties remarry with their children, there will be more trouble. If it's one of our own, you can pass it on as you want. If it's not your own, it's not right for a pet. Anyway, it's neither heavy nor heavy. If you can't let your child say, "You're not my real father (or mother), why do you care about me?" The popularity is half dead. It's even worse to meet someone who only accepts his own fate and doesn't accept it. When he is old, he will have to condescend to ask for the life he once abandoned, and then his intestines will regret it.

There is an old saying among the people: "Domestic chickens beat around, and pheasants beat all over the sky." It means you are your own. No matter how you fight, it's all about you. It's not your own. It is not necessarily reliable to dig out your heart and lungs, and it is even more unreliable to fight.

Four, there are * * * and the heir's property, not for the property fortification.

It turns out that the husband and wife worked together in Qi Xin to accumulate wealth for their children in Qixin. Everything is for children, everything is for children, and we will not defend each other's property. Couples are different on the road. Whoever has a child in pain will think of his own child. It is really a problem to make the other party feel fair in property.

Your children pay more, my children pay less, you care about your children, and you don't care about my children. How to inherit property is a problem. It is really "husband and wife are thieves on the way", and many couples on the way have collapsed because of mutual defense.

Five, experienced * * * and running-in period, get to know each other.

The formation of marriage habits has a lot to do with the running-in of the first marriage. It turns out that couples who have gone through the running-in period are basically good at cooking and good at hygiene. One likes to talk and the other likes to listen. One likes to be a commander and the other is willing to be a political commissar. Getting to know each other is easy to form a match.

Those couples who become monks halfway either don't want to cook, or both like to be "commanders" rather than "political commissars", or both are stuck in the dust, or both are old magpies, so it is difficult to do it any more.

6. Without the shadow of your predecessor, nothing is easier to accept.

In the remarried family, both parties live with the original life in their hearts to varying degrees. No matter how bad the predecessor is, there is always a good one. It is easy to compare the predecessor with the present in life, take the predecessor for granted and ignore it, making the other party embarrassed.

Seven, compared with remarried families, social relations are relatively simple.

Remarried couples have more predecessors, more in-laws and more in-laws than the original couple ... "People are the sum of social relations." These extra relationships are not just broken. Life is complicated when the relationship is complicated, so how to grasp the scale of communication is a problem that remarried couples must face.