Your in-laws ask you to lend money to your relatives as a bride price. How will you reply to them?

Don't move the bride price money, but politely refuse the in-laws' request. Under normal circumstances, in-laws will not take the initiative to ask you to lend money to relatives. If your in-laws lend your bride price money to relatives, does it belong to them? Meat buns beat dogs. Did they go back? It means that your in-laws are eyeing your bride price money and want it back. In general, you can reply in at least three ways. First, directly and explicitly reject your in-laws, to avoid the bride price money always being remembered; Second, politely refuse in-laws, which can be said to use bride price money to do business, invest in buying a house and so on; Third, refuse the in-laws' request through her husband. Don't worry about offending in-laws. Those who can make such a request are not qualified in-laws. Afraid of offending what?

First, explicitly reject in-laws. Unless a relative is seriously ill or has other necessary expenses, he is in urgent need of money. Why else would you give your bride price money to your relatives? Even if your in-laws lend money to your relatives as a bride price, this bride price is your money. In this case, it is even more wrong to agree with the in-laws' demands. Obviously, my in-laws are thinking about your bride price money and want to take it out.

If you don't want to be bothered by this all the time, or if your in-laws are testing your bottom line, then refuse your in-laws' request. There is nothing impolite or embarrassing. As far as the problem itself is concerned, the in-laws should not make such a request. Since in-laws are not afraid to offend you and trouble you, why can't they go back? If the in-laws succeed in borrowing money this time, they will borrow money next time. One day, you and your in-laws will have problems. It's better to make it clear to your in-laws, and make a clear attitude when you borrow money for the first time.

Second, politely refuse in-laws. You can say that you are going to use the bride price money to do business or invest in buying a house. In short, find a reason to get it. If your in-laws are still pressing, you might as well say that your money has a fixed term in the bank and you can't get it out. At this point, the in-laws are pressing for money, which is really too much. In the interesting hometown, bride price money is the capital for the young couple to settle down and start a business in the future. In-laws will be laughed to death by their neighbors if they care about their daughter-in-law's bride price. Is your in-laws really enough? Wonderful? I can remember your bride price money.

Third, let the husband come forward to refuse. If you are embarrassed to directly refuse your in-laws' request, let your husband come forward and refuse. What is a husband used for? Isn't it used to shelter from the wind and rain? Why can't married men marry Bao Ma? It is because a man has no opinion and can't solve the problem for his wife. Your bride price money will be the foundation of your husband, wife and children in the future, and your husband will also have the right to benefit. Why can't he refuse? Your husband's refusal at least avoids the possibility of direct conflict between you and your in-laws. Once there is a conflict with in-laws, the husband is the most uncomfortable.

Welcome to discuss. Do you think your in-laws care too much about your daughter-in-law's bride price?