What about my aunt who doesn't like gossiping behind her back?

There are a group of people in the world who always like to speak ill of others behind their backs. Oriental parents and western parents gossip. Most of these people are older aunts and don't need to go to work. Every day they just get up early to buy food and cook, and the rest is to get together and chat, that is, start chatting.

In fact, many people don't like their behavior. What should I do if I meet such an aunt Little d gives you some attention.

The first is how far you can hide. Sometimes I don't avoid them. They will also take the initiative to say hello to themselves and indirectly ask themselves some personal questions, so that they can continue to have topics to talk about. Therefore, when you meet this kind of aunt, you'd better try to avoid being gossiped by them and feel uncomfortable.

Second, try to maintain a sense of closeness, so that the other party is embarrassed to say their own right and wrong. Many times, if you respect others, others can give you a kick back. The key is to be polite and keep normal. At least in their eyes, it is normal, and there is nothing to talk about, which can reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles for themselves.

Third, turn a blind eye. In fact, people say it's normal. Just how you treat it. Sometimes the more you care about others, the more you talk. It is best not to care. Sometimes it makes them feel bored and they won't talk about themselves in the future.

Finally, when we can't stand it, we should learn to do it when we should, and let them know how boring and wrong their behavior is. Let these old ladies do what they should. They might as well go to the square dance. Why are you gossiping so much here? What are the benefits of gossip? !