Children will want to buy toys when they see them, but what about not buying them?

First of all, parents should understand what causes their children to cry.

1. Children who are emotionally hungry are relatively weak in communicating with others. Therefore, children can't express their thoughts in words, but can only express them by crying.

2. Parents who overindulge their children are also likely to cause their children to cry. When children grow up, parents give them whatever they want. When parents can't meet their children's needs again, they will make you compromise by crying.

What should our parents do in the face of children crying?

Parents should control their emotions. Children learn to observe reactions from an early age. When you are very responsive and grumpy, do children cry more and more? I remember when I was a child, my brother and I had problems. I pretended to cry when my brother bullied me. When my mother picked me up and began to scold my brother, I almost cried. Finally, my mother's temper became more violent.

2. Accept your child's emotions. Because when children like it and parents are dissatisfied, children will inevitably have some small emotions, so children should be allowed to have their own emotions. At this time, give them a hug and say, "Are you sad that Mom won't buy you toys?" Mom can understand how you feel. "

When the child calms down, you can tell him why not buy him this toy. "There's already one at home that's almost done", "There's one at home that's almost done" and so on. Really not, you can go out to the supermarket with your child in your arms, and then talk to your child after the child has vented his emotions.