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Guide: A woman can protect and pamper her husband relatively, but she can't get used to it, and she can't get used to it without a bottom line. Otherwise, "habit" will become a habit, and people who are used to it will take it for granted and get out of hand.

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When I got divorced, I was scared to death.

In my impression, Youyou loves her husband very much, and always puts her husband's mood first in everything, just as the ancients said, "Husband is heaven".

From love to marriage to divorce, they have been together for seven years. In these seven years, Youyou is not a "model wife", but at least what she has done will make many men envy her husband very much. Even before, other friends of the opposite sex joked with me and said, "If you get this wife, what else can you ask for?"

However, I still got a call from Youyou at half past ten in the middle of the night. She's coming to stay with me for a few days and asked me why. I just learned that she was divorced, and the divorce was actually proposed by the man.

Youyou didn't want a divorce. She also made trouble at home for a few days, and even alarmed her in-laws, but her in-laws never liked Youyou very much, so their arrival didn't play any role. Husband insists on divorce, and it is useless to make trouble. In the end, this marriage came to an end completely.

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Yo-yo took a taxi to my house, it was close to midnight. She was carrying a heavy suitcase and her eyes were red and swollen. I don't know how long she cried, but I've never seen her so haggard.

After putting her in the guest room, she couldn't sleep either. I was influenced by her mood and went to the guest room to chat with her.

There's nothing to be sad about and say, "I'm so good to him, so good, and he wants to go out fooling around or divorce me!" " "

Speaking of leisurely husband "fooling around", I also know. Youyou's husband is not a senior in the company or a rich second generation, but his face value is quite high, so he is very popular with young girls. Of course, I know you like him, partly because of his face value.

I thought about it, but I still couldn't help saying to her, "Youyou, have you ever thought that maybe he will be so carefree to you because you are too kind to him?"

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Youyou's kindness to her husband has really reached the point of "superb". Although many male compatriots envy Youyou's husband, many female compatriots hate steel.

How good is a laid-back husband?

Since Yo-Yo married her husband, he's just like an old man. He won't help if the vinegar bottle at home falls down. When he saw Yo-Yo cleaning, he even got up and made trouble, including helping Yo-Yo clean the table after dinner.

At that time, I told Youyou not to spoil him too much. Youyou said, "It doesn't matter, he is a man and works hard during the day. I just want to do housework. " But you-you didn't even think about it yourself. She has to work during the day!

After more than a year of marriage, Yo-Yo was pregnant, but her husband was not ready to be a father, so Yo-Yo aborted the child and said that she would have a child in a few years. Now both of them are too young, have no economic foundation and can't have children. Although reluctant to yo-yo, but still listen to her husband, obediently aborted the child.

To this end, the carefree mother hates iron and scolds it for a long time. As a result, she said, "He is the father of the child, and he has the right to decide."

Later, the two have been married for several years. Every holiday, Youyou wants to go back to her parents' house. Her husband doesn't want to go. Youyou is used to him. If she doesn't go, she won't. If she doesn't go, she will go back by herself.

Her husband likes playing games and wants to buy a better computer. The home configuration is too low. As a result, she spoiled her husband and bought him more than 8 thousand Apple computers.

Her husband likes singing and drinking with a group of friends and always comes home at midnight. Youyou is also used to her husband. There is basically no requirement except to ask my husband to drink less and go home early.

In short, as long as her husband wants to do something, she never stops him. She is always used to it, follow it, follow it.

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Many people think that a woman who treats her husband so well like Youyou should be liked by her in-laws, but it turns out that Youyou not only has no position in her in-laws' hearts, but sometimes even gives her a bad face.

At first, my parents-in-law just felt that Yo-Yo didn't have any ideas at all, and they all listened to their husbands, so there was no promise. Later, slowly, I think Yo Yo spoiled their son. Then I felt more and more bullied.

After a long time, Youyou is good to her husband, neither pleasing her husband nor her in-laws. Even an outsider like me can see that Yo-Yo's relationship with her husband and even her in-laws is not as good as when she was in love.

When Youyou falls in love with her husband, although Youyou is used to her husband's various ways, at least at that time she will be a little headstrong and grumpy, and her husband will at least respect her. But after marriage, after a long time, even the minimum respect is gone.

No matter whether he goes out at night or has an affair with other girls, he will scold him as long as he asks a few more questions.

Until a while ago, Youyou found out that he was cheating. Even so, Yo-Yo didn't want a divorce, and even begged her husband not to leave her. However, he filed for divorce.

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As a woman, as a wife, there is nothing wrong with loving her husband, protecting her husband, or pampering her husband, and it can even be said that it should be. But caution is really important.

A woman can protect and spoil her husband relatively, but she can't get used to it, and she can't get used to it without a bottom line. Otherwise, "habit" will become a habit, and people who are used to it will take it for granted and get out of hand.

In marriage, husband and wife should get along equally and respect each other. If one spouse always spoils the other, the balance between husband and wife will gradually lose balance, and eventually it will only get worse.