Who was the first person to leave you at the bottom of your life? Relatives, wives or friends?

As the old saying goes, "No one asks if you are poor in downtown, but if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives." When you have nothing or are in poor health, everyone will leave you except your parents and children.

unless you have fixed assets or use value, fixed assets will not leave you when one person is ill. The value of use is that you have a reputation, like official business, and have a choice for him.

No matter whether you are poor or rich, you should grasp your own heart, and don't have a heart that depends on others. Friends and relatives are not your flesh at any time.

In 1999, the bus I operated had a tragic accident. After the insurance payment, I was burdened with debts equivalent to three houses at that time. My father, sisters, relatives and friends who thought I was the closest before all said that I would never stand up again in my life, and I was finished, and all of them were cut off. My son was only three years old at that time, and my young and beautiful wife only said: Nothing, as long as you are fine, everything can be started again. This sentence gave me endless motivation. Five years later, when I paid off my debts and bought a house, a facade, a car, etc., my blood relatives who had left before came back, especially affectionate, and only my wife still lived quietly around. This is my personal experience, my friend. What do you think of it?

I've experienced it personally. I'm some relatives and friends. Strictly speaking, it's my discrimination, because it's not that they've changed, but that they're lurking. When I entered the bottom of my life, they felt that there was no need to pretend, and their true colors were just revealed.

So, I am grateful that life has given me a trough, taught me to turn over a new leaf and reflect on myself, and gave pretenders a chance to resist disguise.

A man cannot be a real man until he has failed twice. The first time he failed because of ignorance. If you can make a comeback, it is easy to enter the next circle, self-expansion, revenge mentality release, leading to the second failure. Then make a comeback again, which is the real success and maturity.

people who leave you because of the trough, be thankful and send them off warmly. If you hate them, you are planting a poisonous tree (negative energy) for yourself, which is harmful to yourself, and they have no influence at all.

Complaints, hatred, anger and other negative energy emotions are not only unconstructive, but also poisonous arrows shot at themselves, hurting themselves.

I only remember those people who never leave me when I am in the trough. These people are noble people, so I should care with my heart, be grateful and repay.

In a person's life, there are not many people who can meet. If everyone wants to socialize, they will be busy to death. The trough is to help you filter out some invalid contacts and cut off people with negative energy. Isn't that a good thing?

My old friends are few and refined now, and a lot of unnecessary entertainment (burdensome) has disappeared. It's very simple and cool!

My wife accompanied me through the trough of my life, never giving up, never giving up, successfully passing the test that I didn't set, and became a confidante in trouble. The wife who has never experienced the trough, I don't know if it is true love. Thank God for giving me a good marriage, and thank my wife for seeing the rainbow through thick and thin!

good question. What I want to say is that relatives, wives and friends will not leave you at the lowest point of life.

tell me the truth about myself. My wife and I started working in Hangzhou in 16 years, and bought a house after G2 in Hangzhou in November of 16 years. At that time, P2P and various investments were booming, and I earned 2, yuan in more than 21, years, totaling 4, yuan. At the end of 17 years, something happened two days before it was due to be taken out, so it could not be taken out and was shut down. At that time, I felt suddenly collapsed. I couldn't believe that I didn't sleep for a few hours in those days. Thinking that there are still mortgages, families, and houses that have not been renovated, I dare not tell my wife that 8, of them are credit card loans.

But after a few days, I told my wife that the storm would come, and my wife and I had a big fight. But he didn't leave me, just saying why he didn't let her know before. Let's be completely honest and face each other.

Be prepared to scrimp and save money.

in March of 18, I was out on business in the company, and I had an accident on the expressway. I was unconscious, my car was scrapped, and my fracture was shattered. At that time, my body was injured and I didn't know what the future would be. I was very pessimistic. My wife stayed with me for more than a month, helped me find a way to give advice, and finally transferred to another hospital. The operation in the big hospital was very successful. Parents, brothers and sisters at home also came to visit and help.

after half a year's treatment and rehabilitation, I can go to work after all kinds of conditions, and finally I can achieve my basic functions. In this year, my family was demolished, and my parents also gave me some money, which made the pressure much looser.

in 19 years, I am going to take out the steel plate for a good recovery.

I am grateful to my family around me, my wife never leaves me, and my friends care about me.

I experienced it personally, my wife, and finally my friend. Ha ha. My wife and mother-in-law saw that I was unable to turn over and chose to divorce. In the end, my friends were optimistic about me, and my family conditions were ok. They thought that it was nothing difficult, but they finally alienated me when they saw my divorce. Until the end, my parents didn't abandon me, that is, they disliked me and I didn't have the ability, but they also knew that this was not my problem. They still helped me invest 1, yuan to open another store. Now I want to remain friends with those friends who abandoned me at the beginning. The latter was in the early stage, but she couldn't find an excuse to remarry. She only said that she had gone too far. So all my friends have lost their drinks or meals, so you go on. Sorry, I'm poor and have no money to pay the bill, so I don't go. I knew my business was good in the early stage, but I wanted to come back, but I was always forced to ask me to remarry. But I was afraid that if my business failed once, she could abandon me. I was afraid that if I failed the second time, she would abandon me, so my friends didn't contact me, so it was impossible to remarry. It was not that I had changed, but that I had died. When I reached the bottom, I told my situation that my brother, who had helped me many times without hesitation, was refused help, and I saw ridicule in his eyes. Then I buried my situation in my heart and contacted my friends in a normal way. My friends would help me, because they didn't know my failure, and they thought I still had gold in me. Until I made a comeback, I never told them my situation when I failed. What kind of affection, friendship and love are just an equivalent exchange with your value, depending on how you interpret the success and failure of life. One of my words of advice is for those who are at a low ebb at this moment. Remember to be alone when you are at a low ebb and communicate with yourself more. Hugging yourself is more powerful than hugging others. Only when you learn to love yourself, the world is yours.

when my business failed, it was my wife who left me first. Remember that was seven years ago! I paid all the money for the project, and I was still in debt. I sold everything that I could sell at home. My ex-wife didn't go home until every few days, and finally she didn't go home. I went to her house to make trouble, but her parents didn't care, and then she divorced. At that time, the court sentenced the child to 3 yuan a month, but she didn't give a penny for all these years. If she didn't give it, she didn't give it! I have never asked her for it, but for so many years, she hasn't even come to see her children. I really think it's the right choice to leave her when I have time, don't you think? Tell me what you think.

I've been there before, so I can talk about my experience!

At the end of 214, it was the lowest period in my life. My career failed, I was in debt, and the bank came to my door! I didn't even have a place to hide. At that time, I really had suicidal thoughts! The first to leave, of course, is the pig friend and dog friend next to me, but there are very close friends, and suddenly I can't contact them, or I am blacked out! Of course, I don't really blame them for this, and I didn't do anything wrong! I never asked them for help. It's just the fact that we have to rely on ourselves. The person closest to you at ordinary times may step on your feet when you fall, because you have lost that value, and of course you are abandoned, which is understandable!

after that experience, did your family stay away from you because of it? At least my parents won't, and they will always leave me a bite to eat. My children are young and don't understand. These are people who won't leave you. As for the wife, it's hard to judge. When life is hard or unbearable, people are tired and worry about their children at home. Maintaining your home, as a man, if you can't even guarantee your life, how can you let your family maintain you? Don't say what the external factors are, it's always necessary for your wife and children to have enough food and clothing! Based on the maintenance of life, once it is unsustainable, you can't blame others for leaving you.

The conclusion is that no matter what happens on the road, we must rely on ourselves and a strong heart to support ourselves to start over, get back what we lost and give our family a warm and happy life. Don't complain, don't blame anyone, your own strength is the only way to prove you are awesome! Come on! !

First of all, let me tell a story about my classmate.

My classmate, Zhou, is good-looking, and he is engaged in the wholesale business of non-staple food in Huangzhou. After two years, he has tens of thousands of deposits. At that time, it was in the countryside in 1991, and tens of thousands of yuan was an incredible person. Supposedly, a man with money and good looks should be a happy man, but unexpected things happen. A businessman who speaks Mandarin and calls himself Yingshan often buys goods from him. At the end of 1993, the businessman said that he needed to pre-store a large number of goods for the Spring Festival. Because his funds were misappropriated by his cousin and he was in urgent need of goods, he promised to let his wife be a hostage in the store and pay off the payment one day later. Because he was an acquaintance and had hostages and was not alert enough to fraud at that time, I didn't know that the beautiful woman disappeared after dinner in the evening. In this way, Zhou was defrauded of 15, yuan, which was an astronomical figure at that time.

In this way, Zhou fell into the abyss of despair and couldn't extricate himself. At this time, Zhou's happy life was completely destroyed and entered the lowest valley of his life. At that time, Zhou's wife was proud of her husband's previous success. Instead of leaving him, she knew that she would tide over the difficulties with Zhou and solve their problems together. This is a kind of trust for her husband and a special feeling for her husband. When her husband fell to the lowest valley of his life, she looked at it with her heart. Afterwards, his wife said to him, "I know you have a way to make a comeback, and you are talented." In this way, with the constant encouragement of his wife, Zhou returned to the fierce wholesale competition of non-staple food. Luck is not always with us in life. Sometimes disasters will frustrate each of us, and the blow at the lowest ebb of life will make us unable to stand up. If so, we should be as indifferent as Zhou's wife, accept being down and out at the lowest ebb of her husband's life, enjoy happiness at the peak of her spring, and support her husband tightly at any time, instead of leaving him at the lowest ebb of her life and pitying Bashadi to come back when her husband makes a comeback.

As for friends, in the real society, most of your friends in the social circle are not your intimate friends, so at the lowest point of your life, they will leave you mercilessly. You should remember that nowadays, most of them are evil friends and fair-weather friends, and they will be the first to leave you.

at the lowest point of your life, you should not feel anything. Your way out is only on yourself, don't think that the way out lies in others. You have to actively and actively strive for opportunities to show your talents, create your own achievements again, and finally re-enter the hall of success. You know, there are countless people who make a comeback.

Finally, as for your loved ones at the bottom of your life, I don't think your parents will leave you. They will think that you will make great achievements.

As for brothers and sisters, at the lowest point of your life, you should not regret your past. You should know the choice. Everyone has his own interests. They can't live without you, so let nature take its course. But you should never complain. You should only keep your eyes open and see the people around you. Hold your head high and March forward bravely!

The lowest point in my life was the time when my father was seriously ill and died three years ago. The first people who left me were my brothers and sisters!

when I was working in a foreign country, one day, my family informed me that my father was seriously ill and had been sent to the ICU ward. I quickly asked for leave and flew back to my hometown. When I met my brother and sister, I learned that my father's illness was caused by a small cold. Because my father's body has always been strong, he has hardly ever been ill, and occasionally he gets a small cold for a few days. So the whole family didn't care too much about getting sick this time. I just went to the clinic and had a few infusion bottles, and the result became heavier and heavier. When I arrived at the big hospital, it was so serious that I had to go to the ICU ward for rescue! Although I did all the tests, I didn't find out what disease I had! The doctor suggested that if the rescue was successful, he would take his father to Beijing Grand Hospital. Heaven has eyes, and it has finally been saved!

Then we drove for two days to see my father in Beijing Grand Hospital. The final diagnosis is an immune system disease. You have to be hospitalized for several months. If it works, you can rely on drugs to maintain your life. The cost is expected to be 5 thousand to 1 million. Because the father is a rural hukou, the reimbursement rate of the new rural cooperative medical system is very small, and many medical insurance in hospitals are not reimbursed. Neither brother nor sister expressed their opinions about continuing treatment or going home. Although I am also a working class, my family income is not higher than their two families. But I can't bear to give up my father. I said I would continue to treat him, and the money would be pooled among the three families. The two of them long face, also don't say.

Then I stayed in the hospital for three days. They said they would go back to work, and I never came to the hospital again. I took care of my father in the hospital alone. Due to my long absence from work, I was terminated by my unit! My father was hospitalized in Beijing for more than half a year and spent all my savings. My wife and children have to borrow money from their parents. I called them to live for their father, and if they could pay some money, they wouldn't pay. I have no choice but to take my father back to my parents' house.

when I came back to my parents' house, I was always taking care of my father. They came to see me once in a while and found fault with me and made irresponsible remarks! Although the mother wanted her father to live, she said that she didn't have much money, only a monthly pension as living expenses. I can only borrow money from my friends to continue treating my father like this. More than four months later, my father passed away! I opened the drawer where my parents saved money and found that my parents still had 2, savings deposits! Mother gave the money to her brother to keep for her. My mother is the third person to leave me!