I hate my first love

People are selfish, and there is a transaction between people. So you paid for her, but got nothing in return. What's more serious is that your future has changed because of this first love. You have sacrificed too much for this relationship. Anyone else would hate it, because this It's not a fair deal, you get nothing in return, right? Just like when you pay for something but don’t get the goods, can you not hate the seller? Hate is the selfish side of human nature. It's the same for everyone, so you don't have to think you're a pervert or anything.

College is a place that everyone yearns for, but it does not mean that you will have a good future after getting into college. Many college students do not work hard and still go out to work after graduation. Many college students even find good jobs after graduation, but do not work hard. , was fired, and then forced to do hard work due to life pressure. Therefore, the glory and success or failure of a person's life is not at one point, but throughout the entire life. You must keep moving forward to reach the pinnacle of glory. Let me ask you, are you working hard every day, are you moving closer to your goals every day, and are you constantly jumping? No, I'm afraid you don't even have your own goals. A person's success often depends not on IQ but on EQ. After being hit by emotions like this, you give up on yourself and are willing to degenerate. When will you stop? What's the use of hating, except wasting time and killing life?

One more thing, do you really think that your current situation was caused by her? If you think it was, then you are wrong. Maybe you think, if she didn't appear in my life, I could go to college and find a good job. Let me tell you, even without her, you will still be like this. Without her, wouldn't you like other girls? Without her there would be a second day of her, a third of her. . . Your grades have declined because you don’t know how to grasp relationships and life, because your emotional intelligence is too low, and because you haven’t worked hard enough. Of course, she will have some influence on you, but the main reason lies with you. If you had a good job now, had no worries about food and clothing, lived in a luxury house, and drove a fancy car, would you still hate him? I don't think so. Maybe you would have forgotten her long ago. Now you hate that you have imposed all the hardships and hardships on her, that you are making excuses for your current situation, that you are not living up to expectations.

Hate is useless. If you still have hatred in your heart, let me give you a trick: Find a remote or open place, give yourself ten minutes, and use the most vicious and vile words in the world. Scold her verbally, scold her as hard as you can. Use this to eliminate the anger and injustice in your heart. But remember, after you finish scolding, you have to start a new life, readjust your mentality, and start a completely different life from the past!

You don’t have a girlfriend, do you? Live a bold life and venture boldly. The golden time of life is the few years you are young now. Go and fight for it. When you have money and can pay for love, find a girl who is willing to be with you for the rest of your life. , love boldly, love hard. When there is love in your heart, you will be full of passion. Hate will only make you more incompetent!

You are not the only one who has experienced this. Others can live a better life, can’t you? You have two hands just like others. You can also do what others can do. . I believe in you, and the most important thing is that you have to believe in yourself!

Come on!