The longer the time, the more you can find each other's shortcomings. What should I do?

A man knows his companion in a long journey and an inn. Not long after we met, in order to win the favor of others, everyone will deliberately hide their shortcomings and only show their own advantages and good side. Get along for a long time, and the shortcomings will be exposed inadvertently. Everyone has shortcomings and advantages. Some people say that if you like a person, his shortcomings will become advantages; Hate a person, his advantages are also disadvantages.

Be lenient with others, be strict with yourself, be tolerant of each other and understand each other. This is a long and tireless principle. As the saying goes, "people meet each other late", which is not unreasonable. Only when we get along for a long time can we know each other's advantages and disadvantages. People can't get along with each other in a day or two to understand each other's nature and thoughts, whether they are good people or bad people. Only in the long-term company can we understand that once the shortcomings are exposed, they can't be hidden, and the fox's tail will be exposed sooner or later, just like doing something bad, and having a guilty conscience will eventually get the punishment it deserves.

People get along with each other because they don't understand, and get along because they understand. Adults spend most of their time socializing like this. Friendship can't be forced, can't be forced on each other, and can't be forced on yourself. Everyone has his shortcomings. You played well at first, which proved that you still have a lot in common. When you bother her, think more about her goodness. In fact, whether friends or family members, we will have this burnout period. Sometimes, after spending a long time with my husband, seeing him will make relatives angry, not to mention outsiders.

A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and sex changes at any time. If you understood these two sentences thoroughly, you wouldn't have so much trouble. A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and a friendship between villains is as light as water. When dealing with people, we should keep a best condition, not far from it. Sex changes at any time, that is, people's personality will change greatly over time. Then there are the problems of personal learning, life accomplishment, maturity and socialization, that is, birds of a feather flock together, and circle culture begins to form, so different circles don't have to force it.

Having said that, let's talk about your situation. You got along well at first, but now you find many shortcomings in getting along. I don't know whether you have changed or your boyfriend has changed. In short, both of you have changed. Maybe you don't know what your friend went through. What will lead to the present situation may be that he has become more sophisticated and rhetoric, while you still maintain that innocent heart.

Interpersonal communication is skillful. If you walk too close every day, you will feel uncomfortable, so keep a certain distance, which is the most comfortable state, neither near nor far, which can make both people more comfortable.