Ode to Joy: The five men in the play have different views on mate selection. If a woman can see through it, she can get happiness. what do you think?

Ode to Joy 3 is about to start shooting. This classic urban love drama is expected by many audiences. The five girls on the 23rd floor have different personalities, different family environments and different lifestyles, but the only thing in common is their attitude towards love, and they all put "love" first.

But in contrast, the other half of the five girls, these five men's mate selection norms are much simpler than girls', but they never put love first. No matter what their family conditions, educational background and personality are, there is only one standard for them to choose a spouse, and that is to be worthy of themselves.

First, let's look at Bao Yifan. Although I fell in love with Andy at first sight after seeing her, I still launched a rampant offensive. But behind his efforts to pursue Andy, it is not love at first sight, but because Andy is very suitable for him.

His father is in business and runs a family business. But the family is not harmonious, and parents just maintain the relationship of appearance. As an independent woman, Andy doesn't need the financial support of the other half, which is completely different from Bao Yifan's mother. He doesn't have to worry about the problems between Andy and his parents.

Although people don't think highly of their relationship, Bao Yifan knows that he didn't walk with Andy for her youth and beauty. Because of this, Bao Yifan's eyes have never seen Fan Xiaomei who is more charming and affectionate than Andy.

The second doctor, Zhao, can go with Qu Xiaoyu. That's because Qu Xiaoyu can put down her face and continue to chase Dr. Zhao. So, why did Zhao Qiping choose to get together with Qu Xiaoyu, a rich second generation with no education? In fact, the relationship between the two people has not been stiff. Zhao Qiping broke up twice because Xiao Qu Kong touched his "bottom line".

The reason for breaking up twice is, in the final analysis, Zhao Qiping's arrogance as an intellectual. As a doctor, he is used to seeing life and death, but he seldom sees such a handsome person as Qu Xiaoyu. After breaking up with Kong, I couldn't meet a more suitable girl, so they finally walked together. Because Zhao Qiping wants to find a clever and vivid person in his heart, it is basically beyond his thinking to shut such a lovely girl out.

Let's talk about Qin Ying again. Qin Ying's conditions are the favorite of all mother-in-law. Having a house and a car makes a lot of money. However, this most traditional family needs to endure traditional concepts and complicated mother-in-law relationship. He chose Qiu Yingying because Yingying was single-minded to him, and he was the only one in his eyes. But when he learned that Qiu Yingying had lost her first time, he decided to abandon her.

Wang Baichuan has done a lot for Mei Sheng, but Bian Xiao doesn't think he loves Fan Xiao. What he admires is the class flower that was sought after by the audience in college and achieved good results. He was with Fan Xiaomei just to satisfy my vanity, but he was never sincere to Fan Xiaomei.

Xie Bin himself is wild and rebellious, with a boy's unique cynicism, love to fight and smoke, and many bad habits. Because of family of origin's absence, Xie Bin longed for maternal love, so when he saw Guan Guan, he felt that he had filled the gap in his heart, but it was not because of love.

Therefore, girls must pay special attention when choosing a partner. This man will live with you for the rest of his life. After marriage, there is no longer the sweetness of falling in love, and I have to face daily necessities. If two people are not together because of love, then they will fight for trifles every day.

Therefore, don't be a man's subordinate after marriage, or be independent of yourself, and have the courage and determination to face life alone.