White things in the country

I went to Xiaoshan Hezhuang with three friends this morning. A friend of ours, General Yu's mother, died at the age of 74. She will come back with a white bag. It is customary for General Yu to have dinner when he comes. She comes for lunch in the morning and dinner in the afternoon, so we have to ask her daughter-in-law for leave immediately, and she can't go back for lunch, so she can only make trouble with her grandmother every year.

In the countryside, you can usually buy white bags. Let's go to reunification together, everyone packs 100 1 yuan, and someone is collecting the gift money. Please register the name and amount of the person who sent the white bag, and then refund us 1000 yuan, only 1 yuan. Everyone is frugal now, and then the gift is a towel. You're welcome. In return, we got far more than we needed. We got a meal. It was a very rich reception, and the chef cooked delicious food. We ate almost 20-30 dishes per table! The delicious food didn't affect our mourning mood at all. Just now, we were sitting at the same table, all familiar and close friends. Talking and laughing is not serious. This is my first time. Maybe they don't know his mother as well as I do, and they are a little numb. Actually, it's rude, just because they are close to Mrs. Yu!

There is also a saying in rural white things that you should leave immediately after eating a good meal, which means that the dead are unlucky, and the sooner you leave, the better. This is the first time I have heard of it. We did eat very well. One person stood up to leave, and everyone got up and left in a hurry. This is a strange thing.

I heard from a friend in the car that Mr. Yu's mother had been suffering from cancer for several years, and spent a lot of money and exhausted all kinds of good medicines. I'm sure Mr. Yu Can has found a way to get medicines that others can't get, which shows that life can't be bought back with money. The friend also said that what is even more surprising is that Mr. Yu's father is still in the hospital and has a serious stroke. It never rains but it pours! I don't know what it's been like these days!

My friend whispered to me that his house used to be a temple. It is said that his mother is very devout, and Mr. Yu's business is very good, which has made him prosperous for many years. At that time, they said that his mother had made great contributions, but a few years ago, the whole village was demolished by the government, and my friend said that it might really have an impact, so problems began to arise. Maybe the bodhisattva is not kind. It's really creepy to hear that! There's nothing to say. What's the basis? Don't ask until I adjust my mood. Looking forward to the next decomposition!