Talk about family style

Today, I am here to tell you about our family style. Although I am a left-behind child, my grandparents never spoil me because my parents are not around. Grandpa often says to me, "Be diligent and thrifty, be good at asking questions, be honest, start from small things and start from me"; Grandma often tells me: "Eat your own food, sweep the floor, go your own way and do your own thing"; My grandparents taught me how to be a man since I was a child. Gradually, I also developed a good habit of being hardworking, frugal, curious, honest and doing my own thing. I have always believed that family style is a family atmosphere that is passed from father to children, from children to grandchildren, and between children and grandchildren; Family style is a kind of silent teaching, silent entrustment and seamless inheritance, and it is the most basic, frequent and influential positive energy education. Whenever I encounter difficulties, my grandfather teaches me to say, "Go your own way, and learn to get up when you fall." You can't blame yourself for the uneven road ahead, you can only blame yourself for walking carelessly "; Grandma said: "Only with self-confidence, self-esteem and self-improvement can we be our own masters on the stage of life forever". Educated by my grandparents, I learned to sweep the floor when I was in kindergarten. I learned to take care of myself, wash my face and bathe myself. Sometimes I help my grandparents choose vegetables and sweep the floor. Our family has a good habit of washing dishes by ourselves. Speaking of washing dishes, there is a little story. I heard my mother say, "On my first day of marriage with my father, I used to put my bowl in the sink after dinner. At this moment, your father came over and said,' This is a custom in our family. From now on, whoever washes the dishes will do it himself.' I haven't put the bowl in the sink since then. "Up to now, people in our family are washing dishes by themselves, including me. I think: family style is always a good habit formed by the influence of family members and their own consciousness; The family style of our family also requires me to respect the old and love the young, not just to call people with high qualifications by their first names; The family style in our family requires me to be polite to others. As the saying goes, it's not surprising to be more polite to people, give people roses and leave lingering fragrance in my hands. The family style of our family can be summed up in twelve words: "Honest and kind, diligent in housekeeping, diligent and studious. "My grandparents told me to be honest and kind, and not to tell lies. Honesty and kindness are the first element of being a man. "My grandparents often teach me:" Diligence is a cash cow and frugality is a cornucopia "; My grandparents never pay attention to food and clothing. Grandma often said, "To be a man, you should be self-reliant and thrifty." "As the saying goes, you will be poor if you don't have enough to eat and wear.". Now that my grandparents have retired, our life is getting richer and richer, but my grandparents seldom buy new clothes. Menstruation usually buys a good dress for his grandparents, who always say, "Why do you buy such expensive clothes? "Grandparents often say," Even with the improvement of living standards, we should tighten our belts. Needless to say, such ostentation and extravagance. "Grandparents are a mirror of our family. They told me to save water and electricity every day. They said, "Saving should start with a drop of water and electricity. "Our family's power-saving method: the bedside lamp and chandelier in the living room are incandescent lamps, and a dimming power-saving device is installed. Grandparents often say: "Turn off the lights when you leave the room"; The temperature setting of our air conditioner is suitable. When the household air conditioner is used for cooling, grandparents said, "If the temperature is set at 2 degrees Celsius, it can save electricity by 20%"; In terms of saving water: when brushing your teeth, my grandparents often tell me: "Turn off the tap and brush your teeth after receiving water with a cup"; Our family also washes vegetables or dishes with Taomi water. After washing vegetables, rice washing water can be used to water flowers and clean furniture. The washing water of the washing machine is used to mop the floor and flush the toilet; Grandparents often enjoin me to say: "When taking a bath, master the adjustment of the ratio of cold and hot water, don't always turn on the shower nozzle, let alone turn on the water, and take the time to take a bath." When wet, turn off the shower head, wipe it with soap or bath, and rinse it off immediately "; Grandparents often say: "frugality means self-reliance and self-respect, not asking for others;" "If you manage your family frugally, your family business will flourish and you will never fail." Yes! What kind of family style, often have what kind of attitude towards life. Grandparents taught me a truth: no matter how good life is, we should live frugally, because frugality is a virtue! I think: family style is the embodiment of the main spirit, style and quality of a family or family. Good family style is the most precious spiritual wealth of a family or family; At the same time, it is also a magic weapon for a family or family to be happy, harmonious, happy and prosperous. As a member of the family, I should be the inheritor and promoter of good family style, and let it be passed down from generation to generation!