Jin Yong's novels talk about life

When people come into this world, they need to do something valuable.

Value, that is the embodiment of a person's life. In this regard, I believe many people will say, is it necessary to make great things and become a noble person, so that life is valuable?

In fact, not everyone in this world can be a big shot. There are many people who can only live on the ground floor all their lives and can only run for three meals a day.

However, even ordinary people like you and me need to realize the value of life. And this so-called "value" has no standard. In other words, do what you think is right and don't leave any regrets in your life.

The biggest helplessness of people in this life is that they don't know what they are pursuing when they are young, and they don't know what kind of life they are yearning for, thus wasting time and losing the opportunity to do something. In this way, we will naturally regret and regret when we are old.

Many times, people will have an epiphany only when they reach a certain age or at the end of their lives. It turns out that in this life, they need to live for themselves, create the value they want in their hearts, let them have no regrets and let future generations admire them.

The famous writer Mr. Jin Yong once wrote such an epitaph for himself: "There is a man lying here. In the twentieth and twenty-first centuries, he wrote more than a dozen martial arts novels, which were loved by hundreds of millions of people. "

This is the self-worth in the eyes of Mr. Jin Yong. At the same time, this lifelong value makes him feel satisfied, and he has a feeling of letting go.

Perhaps, people's life is to struggle for "value". What is this value? It is worth thinking about.

02

When anyone is young, he hopes that he can make a difference and realize his dream. However, everything may become a regret.

A young man, he wants to be a painter. However, for practical reasons, in the end, he didn't enroll in the art department, but listened to his parents' advice and learned his least favorite finance.

After graduating from college, the young man felt that his four years were nothing. Although he studied hard, he got good grades in every subject. However, he still has no interest in this major.

Then, he told his parents that he wanted to study art and live for his ideal. Because of these words, he was scolded by his parents, saying that he was not sensible and could not understand his parents' pains at all.

That's it. Under the arrangement of his parents, he went to work in a company, doing a job he didn't like, and living a life a bit like a walking corpse.

After a while, he got married. With a family, he completely gave up his dreams and pursuits and just wanted to live this helpless life step by step.

When people reached middle age, one night they suddenly remembered their pursuit. However, at that time, he knew that he could no longer pursue his ideals. Because in front of life, he has lost the courage to resist.

Today, he accepted the established reality. Although he was full of regrets, he didn't have the courage to start over.

03

The young man mentioned above is a portrayal of many people in reality.

Originally, they wanted to live for their own wishes and dreams, but they were influenced by different people and things, which not only changed the direction of life, but also lacked the belief in pursuing the meaning of life.

Some people may say that people have lived all their lives, and they have to accept what they should accept.

However, there is one truth that we have to understand. People can only come to this world once. If he can't even realize his own value pursuit and even try, what's the point of this life?

Some people will say, live for family, children, cars and houses, parents and the older generation.

We have heard a lot about living for someone. However, we forget that we have never lived for ourselves.

We might as well ask ourselves, do we live for ourselves? It should be said that most people have long forgotten themselves.

The greatest tragedy in this world is that the living forget themselves, become puppets on the stage, are led by the nose, and even have no opinion of themselves.

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From the epitaph written by Mr. Jin Yong himself, it can be seen that he believes that the meaning of this life is to do what he thinks is worth doing and stick to it. Even if you can't succeed, live for yourself.

There is a saying that a life that you have not lived for yourself is just a wasted trip.

For example, if you go to a tourist attraction, you will want to visit it. However, people around you tell you to visit this scenic spot next time. In this way, you will pass by the scenic spots in your heart.

What you didn't expect is that there are few such realities as "next time" in this world. You missed this scenic spot this time. Come again next time, maybe decades later, or never.

There is only a little time in life, but people have traveled so far. It's still a little difficult to turn back. Even if you can look back again, everything you see has changed.

The greatest significance of a person's life lies not in how much money he has earned, but in what he has achieved and whether he has lived for himself. You know, it is the value of ordinary people to leave less regrets in life and more satisfaction in their hearts.

Text/There are deer in Shushan