"Those who can't get it are always in commotion, and those who are favored have nothing to fear"

I understand this sentence very well. The reality is like this: "Those who cannot get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear."

What you can’t get is always in turmoil: I am always pursuing what I want. If I get it, I will naturally be happy, but after I get it, I will find that it is actually just that. The thing is, it's not as good as expected. Then what we have been pursuing so hard is not obtained in the end, and my heart will always be in turmoil, wanting to get it, wanting to own it. Anyway, the things I don't have are all good.

Those who are favored are confident: we are never afraid that the person who loves us will leave. Anyway, he loves me, and whatever I do is right in his eyes. There is nothing to be afraid of or scruple about, just like you have a protective umbrella, you can do whatever you want. Just like in love, if there is a man who loves me very much, but I don't love him that much, then I will not be afraid of him leaving me, or I will not be afraid of doing something to hurt him, because I am favored by him.

In the past, when I was with the man I loved, he favored me very much in the beginning. I truly felt what it felt like to "be favored and have nothing to fear", no matter what I did No matter what I want, he will support me; no matter what I want, he will satisfy me; no matter how I hurt him and make unreasonable troubles, he will never leave me.

And the people around me who have been pursuing me are always looking for me, hoping that I can be with them. In their eyes, I am the best, even if they have a boyfriend Also thinking about poaching corners. Of course I didn't leave my boyfriend to be with them.

Until later, my love for him became deeper and deeper, and slowly exceeded his love for me. However, we are in a long-distance relationship, and he seems to be getting colder and colder towards me. Until one day, he wanted to break up with me, and I cried and begged him not to leave me. However, his heart seems to be very hard and he chose to leave me regardless. He is not afraid of hurting me or how sad his leaving will bring me, because he knows that I prefer him, so naturally he is not afraid. . Later I found out that he fell in love with another woman and had been pursuing it with no success. I could only watch him keep commotion, just to get his new love. Maybe after getting his new love, he would not be commotion anymore. . Then, his new love was favored by him, so he would unscrupulously embarrass him and prevent him from getting it.

As for me, I may be the one who is always in turmoil when he cannot get it. I will contact him from time to time to try to restore the love between us; I will keep visiting him and letting him Be able to change your mind. "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are confident." This sentence is a portrayal of human nature. Yes, people are so mean. What you can't get is the best. If you are favored, you will feel No worries anymore.