Parent-child reading five comments from parents

# Parenting Education # Introduction Reading can't change the length of life, but it can change the width of life. Parent-child reading can lead children into the temple of knowledge, open the door of wisdom for children and escort their lifelong learning. The following are five comments on parent-child reading carefully compiled by parents. Welcome to reading.

1. Parent-child reading parental comments

When I had children, I didn't know what parent-child reading was. I just think the sooner children get in touch with things, the better. So, just a few days after my daughter was born, I thought, I must let my child get in touch with books as soon as possible and make her fall in love with reading. For this reason, I consulted a lot of books and materials. First, cultivate children's interest in reading. The cultivation of interest does not happen overnight. Parents need patience and set an example, and the influence is subtle. Of course, the earlier this influence, the better. Don't think children don't know anything. When a child's brain is born, it is a blank sheet of paper and a sponge. The sooner things appear in the child's mind, the better. A baby is reading when it is a card. When he grows up, one word is reading. Over time, children will like reading. I remember the first book I bought for my children. That's a red apple and a lovely kitten. The daughter cocked her head and looked at it. In addition, it is necessary to create a reading atmosphere for children. I specially bought a bookcase for my child, so that she can sort out the picture books she has read every day and take out any picture books she wants at any time.

I insist on reading at least two picture books every night, so that children can read them carefully together. The most important thing is to read carefully, so that our children can feel our concern.

Secondly, parent-child reading should not be one-sided. The times are progressing, and knowledge can be obtained not only from books. I never object to children watching TV and playing computer. The key is to be moderate, and more importantly, to cultivate children's habit of watching TV and playing computer correctly. Instead of "blocking", it is better to use the strategy of "sparse" and not watch TV or play computer. Even if it is blocked, the children will fall behind. I think watching TV and playing computer with children is also a kind of parent-child reading. Of course, the content is not adult series or violent games. The TV that my daughter often watches is cartoons, so the time should be controlled well. Let my daughter talk about the content of cartoons.

Finally, parent-child reading should be combined with life, chatting with children, talking about what happened in class, talking about what happened at work, so that children can keep abreast of adults' work, and we can also keep abreast of children's inner emotions. It is very beneficial to let children talk more and parents listen more.

A book is a small seed. When parents plant it in their children's hearts and irrigate it patiently, the small seed will flourish in generate, grow into a towering tree, enlighten the mind and nourish wisdom. My level is limited, and my opinion is correct or not. Please give me valuable advice.

2. Parent-child reading parental comments

I remember from an early age: "Reading makes people wise." But unfortunately, I didn't develop good reading habits when I was a child. I only like reading short articles before I graduate from college. After work, reading has always been addictive. I will read at least 15 books every year. Reading habits have really brought me a lot of benefits. In addition to the improvement of knowledge, it has also brought some thinking and even changes in the way of thinking. In today's rapid development, the importance of learning ability greatly exceeds my education, and learning. When Yang Yang was still in his belly, he insisted on reading stories to him every day, hoping that his children would get into the habit of reading in the future. I believe that a good book can enrich a child's mind, broaden his horizons, and form the habit of reading, which will certainly become his life's wealth. Today, when I want to write an article, I feel a little ashamed, because in the past reading, I don't seem to be so persistent. I often give up because Yang Yang doesn't like drinking and doesn't cooperate. So today's experience is more about bringing some hair to yourself. Yang Yang was not interested in reading since he was a child. After giving him many books, he pushed them aside. I remember giving him some small cards or books for children of that age when he was 1 years old. After reading for a while, he will put down his books and look for cars or other toys. For a long time, I didn't know what to do. He did so after buying many books. Later, he accidentally bought two cave books. After returning to China, he was very interested. He can read a book and let me finish it, while pointing at himself and asking questions. Later, I found that he was very interested in the loopholes in the book, so I later found the whole set of books. This is Yang Yang's favorite book, and he still likes it very much. He went back to his hometown in Qinghai this year. I asked him to choose some books with him, but he still chose two. Another time, I complained to a friend that Yang Yang was not interested in reading, so he liked to play with cars and discuss all kinds of delicious food. But my friend said calmly, let's start here. A few days later, she found some books to introduce to me, all about these topics. I tried to tell Yang Yang that Yang Yang really liked it. From these two things, I found that the first thing parents and children need to read is that children are interested.

Another problem I encountered in parent-child reading was that Yang Yang didn't pay attention. Every night he reads a story. If he doesn't finish it, he does what he wants to do. Several times, I couldn't help losing my temper. Although I know that emotions can't help, I'm still worried that I can't support him to read a book or a story completely at a time. Later, I gradually found that the book I chose might not be his favorite. At the same time, let him participate to better arouse his enthusiasm, so now we go to the bookstore together about every month, and then he will choose his favorite books, and when he gets home, he will read more forms. When he reads Jared's Quiet Space again, we will perform at home, and Yang Yang is very involved. Then after the performance, I will ask him what he has learned and learn emotional management. At present, Yang Yang's concentration needs to be improved, but the habit of reading is gradually established, so reading to children by himself is the main body.

Of course, besides worrying, parent-child reading has also brought a lot of fun to Yang Yang and me. We will exchange roles after reading. Yang Yang always likes to be an adult and let me play a child or a small animal. Every time, he is very happy. He often asks some questions in the process of reading, from which he learns a lot. Sometimes the problem is really unexpected, which I didn't imagine at all. Children are really teachers of creativity and imagination. Books are an ocean of knowledge and a parent-child relationship.

In the future, I will concentrate more on reading in person, and strive to make Yang Yang develop good reading habits from childhood, and grow up happily with his mother in this process.

3. Parent-child reading parental comments

Speaking of parent-child reading, in fact, I don't have any successful experience to share with you, just want to talk about some feelings of our parent-child reading. Bao Er is not particularly fond of active reading among his peers. This was discovered at a parents' open day when he was in kindergarten last year. During free activities, children will choose their favorite areas, and children who like reading will take the initiative to read carefully. Between books and toys, Bao Er chose more attractive toys. I asked Bao Er if he wanted to read a book. Bao Er said: No, I want to play with toys. In fact, I bought a lot of picture books at home, because they have been in the bookcase before, and we only take them out when we need to read them. Bao Er doesn't take the initiative to take them out to read books at ordinary times.

As the saying goes, "Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road". Reading makes people understand their own thoughts, and it is really important for children to develop good reading habits. In order to make Bao Er like reading, I take out all the picture books in the bookcase and put them in the place where Bao Er can easily see and get them. In order to enrich her reading, I set up a picture book library reading card and read it with Bao Er every night before going to bed. This method still has a certain effect. Now when I cook after school, she will put them in the most conspicuous picture books and let them read by themselves before going to bed every day.

Because Bao Er's father is busy at work, most of the parent-child reading is with Bao Er. At their age, because they can't read, every time they talk about picture books, children will pay attention to the picture and never let go of every little detail. If I look at the pictures, I really can't find those details. So, Bao Er will make a choice on the picture and choose the book she is interested in. Amazingly, she will ask for them three or four times when she likes them very much.

Secondly, Bao Er would tell her mother that a particularly beautiful picture book would require repeated reading. If I speak with emotion and play every role in the book with my voice, Bao Er will like it very much. When he hears interesting sounds, he will learn and repeat, and sometimes he will giggle.

Because of parent-child reading time, we can no longer play mobile phones in front of children, which makes them disgusted. When writing this article, I feel that sometimes we don't do well enough. When we are in a bad mood, we don't tell her so seriously and emotionally. Sometimes we will finish it in a perfunctory way, thinking that we should finish it quickly. There are still many things to do. At this time, Bao Er will say, "Mom, can you speak slowly?" In fact, parents and children really spend only a few years with reading. When children are old enough to study by themselves, they will be more willing to study by themselves. Therefore, we should treat every parent-child reading time well and enjoy the wonderful time that belongs to her and me.

4. Parent-child reading parental comments

Reading is the starting point of cultivating children's learning ability. Reading is also a way to acquire knowledge, which can bring endless fun to children and is of great help to cultivate children's reading ability, memory, language and knowledge. Du Fu, a great poet in China, said: Reading is like breaking thousands of books, and writing is like God's help. I cultivate children's reading in three stages: the first stage, reading most colorful comic books and some children's books. I told my children stories from comic books and some children's books, and the children listened with relish and gradually became interested. In the second stage, after literacy, especially after learning Chinese Pinyin, the interest in reading is getting stronger and stronger, and more and more books are read. I asked my children to finish reading independently. If they don't know the words or places, they can look them up in the dictionary or ask their parents. In the third stage, let the children carefully taste the good words and sentences between the lines. After reading a book or a good article, you should extract the wonderful sentences or paragraphs in the book or article, master them skillfully, understand them deeply and use them flexibly in practice. Apart from the need to control books that are really harmful to children, I don't artificially limit and control the content and scope of books. I want to create as many reading opportunities as possible. So going to the bookstore is what our mother and daughter often do on weekends. After reading books in the bookstore for a period of time, everyone chooses some books they need to make children feel that reading is a necessity in life.

5. Parent-child reading parental comments

Reading with children should conform to children's psychological characteristics, choose books that children like to read, let children have a good impression on books, and don't restrict children's reading too much in the process of reading. Because children can't read, our practice is to always encourage children to say what they see or what is in the book. If the children don't say it or miss it, we can remind them what else there is and so on. In addition to telling children what they see, we also encourage children to tell their thoughts and then communicate with their parents. This has persisted for more than a year, and children's reading interest has improved and their reading level has also improved. I think this is a good way for children to learn to observe and imagine. In addition to letting children talk about what they see and think about the peace talks, we can also share what we see and think with our children and guide them to learn to see and think for themselves in the future. In this reading process, we unconsciously revel in the world of books with our children and enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by reading together. Over time, children fell in love with reading and became close to us. We also realize that while reading with children, we also enrich ourselves. Persistence is the key to reading. Take time to read with your children every day. Usually, as long as we take some time to accompany our children to read and tell stories before going to bed. After a period of time, children can already tell many short stories. Parent-child reading should not only be an activity, but also a persistent routine. Reading every day can not only create a harmonious parent-child relationship, but also let children enjoy reading. Children read simply and happily. Reading with children every day is the happiest time in our life!