What a vicious person. Tell me about it.

People who lie down and fall asleep, and whose study and work are not affected by noise are cruel people!

Such people are strong in heart, calm and calm, rarely influenced by the external environment, more focused in life and more efficient in doing things, so they can accomplish more.

Life is short, people's energy is limited, and the time that can be effectively used every day is numbered. If you are still in high spirits and can't concentrate and concentrate, it will be difficult to achieve anything.

As Zeng Guofan wrote in his letter:

When a mortal does something, he must concentrate on it. Never stop, never change your mind, do this, think that, sit on this mountain and watch that mountain. A man without perseverance will accomplish nothing in his life.

Life seems to be a struggle between us and the outside world, but it is actually a contest between us and our own hearts: when you are self-disciplined, life is king; There are all kinds of ills, and lazy students.

If a person's mood fluctuates easily, it is difficult to calm down and is always influenced by the external environment, then his heart must have serious "internal friction", which is inefficient, suspicious, half-hearted, impetuous and shallow.

Real "vicious people" often have these three characteristics and are rarely influenced by the outside world.

All animals, including humans, have an instinct, that is, strength and competition.

However, winning is only a kind of cleverness, and not arguing is great wisdom and great harvest.

A man went to ask Confucius a question and saw Confucius' disciple Zi Gong at the gate of the compound.

Zi Gong asked each other, "What do you need to ask our teacher?"

The man replied, "I want to ask how many seasons are there in a year?"

Zi Gong said, "I know this problem. There are four seasons in a year. "

The man said, "No, there are only three seasons in a year!" " "

Then the two men argued, and Confucius heard the sound coming out of the courtyard.

Zi Gong took the initiative to explain the whole story and let Confucius judge it.

Confucius first laughed but didn't answer, and then said to them, "There are only three seasons in a year."

After listening to it, people thought they won and left with a smile.

After people left, Zigong quickly asked the teacher, "This is different from what you taught. There are indeed four seasons in a year!

"How many seasons should this year be?" Confucius said, "Four seasons!"

Zi Gong is puzzled.

Confucius explained: "This is a strange era. The man just now was dressed in green and his face was very old. He is obviously a grasshopper in the field. Grasshoppers live in spring and die in autumn. They have only experienced spring, summer and autumn in their lives. Where have they seen winter?

So in his mind, there is no such concept as' winter'. Fighting with such a person for three days and nights, you won't get any results. If you don't listen to him, can he leave so readily? Although you were fooled, you learned a great lesson and got a big bargain. "

Really cruel people will always strive for it and will not argue with low-level people, because it is a waste of time and energy.

As Zhuangzi said: Don't talk about ice with insects in summer, because its vision is limited by seasons; Don't talk about the sea with the frog in the well, because its vision is limited by its narrow residence; Don't talk to ordinary people about the profound knowledge of Tao, because his vision is bound by his education.

Malicious people don't argue with others, make less enemies for themselves, create less unhappiness in their hearts, hide their strength, wait for their time and energy, and then do more meaningful things.

A young man was interviewed in the street and asked: How do you reduce the troubles in your life?

The young man replied calmly, just don't argue with stupid people.

The girl interviewed asked: I think what you said is wrong! Because. . .

The young man immediately replied: Oh, you are right! Then turn around and leave.

In this way, the young man ended a low-level dialogue with high emotional intelligence and skillfully resolved an unnecessary dispute. People like him belong to the vicious people in life!

What is a person's words and what is his fate; A person's mood is good or bad, which just corresponds to a blessing or a curse.

I ching said: change is good for words, and good or bad luck is moved by feelings. It also tells people that if you control your emotions, you will master the door of good or bad.

People with shallow blessings are often impetuous, easily furious and emotional, so they tend to have tense interpersonal relationships and are more likely to offend people.

After the conflict with others, they feel regret and guilt, and even blame themselves. So, knowing that it is a mistake, continuing to make mistakes is not a serious waste of life and internal friction?

But really cruel people are different. They try not to have conflicts with others. Being a man and doing things does not hurt the gas, and their mood is relatively stable. They are not without emotions, but know how to control bad emotions in time and always make things better.

Du once said that "the quietest person in the crowd is often the most powerful", which is quite reasonable.

Because the more intelligent a person is, the more he knows how to hide the true qi, so that his emotions can remain stable for a long time and he can do anything in his life. As the saying goes, the husband is only talented, and the world can't compete with him.

Just as Mr. Jin Yong wrote in "Eternal Dragon Slayer": He forced him, and the breeze blew the hills; He crossed the river by himself, and the moon shone on the river; He is self-defeating, he hates himself, and I am full of anger.

Some people are always anxious, depressed and sentimental, which is actually very inappropriate, because this kind of behavior is serious self-consumption.

In this world, it is not easy to deal with all kinds of complicated things.

We still have to live in the secular world, in the eyes and expectations of others, and there is already pressure.

If you don't know how to adjust yourself and feel sorry for yourself at this time, it is not worth it.

When I was a child, I watched the Monkey King in Journey to the West just for fun.

But when I look at it when I grow up, I find that everyone is wearing a "golden hoop" like the Monkey King, but I just can't see it.

If we are always sad because of a bad word from others, it is to let others put a "tight spell" on us;

If we feel inferior and negative, we are casting a spell on ourselves.

It is often said that "character determines fate". If a person is always as depressed and sentimental as Lin Daiyu, he is constantly consuming his vitality and energy, restricting his progress and progress, and his fate will be very poor in the end.

Really cruel people are different. They are open-minded, optimistic, do not hold grudges, do not hide worries, and always show people with a positive and optimistic spirit, so they can laugh at the end.

Some people, criticized by leaders, are depressed in blx; And some people, careless and open to the outside world, have just been scolded by the leaders, and they take the initiative to curry favor with the leaders and laugh as if nothing had happened.

This kind of person, with strong self-healing ability, is always positive and optimistic, and also belongs to the vicious strong in life!

In the second half of life, our greatest enemy is ourselves.

If we can adjust our mentality and be more positive, optimistic and positive, we will be strategically superior.

Therefore, being a man must not be "external consumption" or "internal consumption": on the one hand, don't argue with others, on the other hand, keep your mood stable and don't let yourself be anxious and depressed.

Really vicious people can always do these two things. They are strong and calm inside, with clear goals and correct views. They are never easily influenced by the outside world, and then concentrate their precious time and energy on bigger and more meaningful things.

Finally, I send you a poem to encourage you:

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