What are the customs of setting up a monument in my hometown?

Setting up a monument emphasizes that after three years of parents' death, it is not appropriate to set up a monument when one parent is alive, and it is best to choose Tomb-Sweeping Day. It is not only a matter of custom to erect a monument for ancestors, but also because some family members have lived in other places for a long time and don't often go home to sweep graves, for fear that more and more graves will be found inconvenient in the future. Setting up a monument is tantamount to marking the graves of loved ones. This matter should be borne by the children. It used to be fashionable to erect a monument, but due to the influence of the Great Leap Forward and the Cultural Revolution in the 1950s, it was naturally impossible to erect a monument. Later, with the reform and opening up, social and economic development and the improvement of people's living standards, it has gradually become fashionable to erect monuments since the 1980s. However, the original monuments were all pasted with cement, which was very simple. As long as a name is engraved, the function of "mark" is obvious. However, in recent years, monuments are made of stone, and people pay more and more attention to them. When erecting a monument, the children first choose the materials for carving the monument and determine the date. After the memorial tablet is carved, it should be wrapped in red cloth and transported to the nearest place to the cemetery for storage. There is a saying that it may be for good luck to put the carved stone tablet on the roadside and let passers-by step on it. When Tomb-Sweeping Day arrived, people erected monuments on selected days. There is no specific time to set up a monument, mainly depending on the actual situation of the person who set up the monument. When the monument was erected, the direction of the monument was different from place to place. Generally, the sunny side faces southeast. In addition, the cost of erecting a monument can only be paid by children, because it is filial piety and cannot be replaced by others. After the monument is erected, family members should kowtow, burn paper and set off firecrackers in front of the monument to show their respect.

Monuments should be erected according to local customs, but the date should be chosen. This date must first meet the criteria for selecting a date. At least you can't fight the dead or the monument builder Fan Chong.

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Monuments should be erected in strict accordance with the theory of geomantic omen and made a fortune in the East. The eldest daughter is in poor health. Standing in the south, the second child is in poor health, eyes, heart and other diseases, and there is no money left at home. Women are in poor health. wait for

Therefore, the monument determines the rise and fall of future generations, and more importantly. It is best to ask local feng shui master to choose Hitachi.