Dad wants to hand over family responsibilities to his working son; The son is working hard outside; I have to ask for leave to go home and do farm work! What about such a father?

There is a saying that people who can do more work. Look on the bright side. Although you work hard outside, family responsibilities will be given to you sooner or later. Initiating family responsibilities early will also help you grow up and mature early, which is not a bad thing for you, so don't think too much, don't blame your father, maybe your father is also painstaking.