High pu’s spoken words

I feel that people with a high level of speech have two characteristics when speaking.

1. They like to use rhetorical questions to express the meaning of declarative sentences. Look, tell me, can’t you see it? ! You don't have it. That being said, don't you have it? ! You can give it a try and say yes, don’t you know how to do it yourself? !

2. I like to kill everyone with one stick and erase all your past achievements. Representative words include, you have never done anything, you have never known how to move in your life, you have never seen what you do, etc.

My own inadvertent Gao Pu mantra

# weekend discussion# Gao Pu’s words are: 1. Why do you always... 2. I can’t rely on you... 3. Morning If you know it, I won’t choose you... Every time there is a conflict, these words are tumbling in my mind, and I can’t bear to say them

# Weekend Discussion# I never like to hear "I know my temper" Too straight, but I just can’t change it and don’t want to change it.” Similar words include “I have such a temper,” “I am just such a person.” They all feel like you have a high pu and a bad temper. There is a kind of bad temper in the world. Everyone still has to accept it unconditionally. If you really want to change something, you can't change it. Obviously you feel that there is nothing you don't want to change, so you will have fewer and fewer friends.

#weekend discussion# "Oh! Okay, okay! ""Go, go, go..." are the two most hurtful and highest PU mantras, as well as full of disdain.

# Weekend Discussion# "Qiu Hide, I am a model of low MV and high PU, because I strive for good looks, so after four years of marriage, I have swallowed enough needles for several lifetimes. I have a bad temper, and in the past two years, I don’t want to tolerate it anymore, so I have all kinds of outbursts. I couldn’t curse people before, but now I feel that I can’t speak out well. First of all, my mentality First, I feel that I am the most wronged in the world. Secondly, I feel that I am the only one who pays. Thirdly, I feel that everything others do is wrong and I cannot keep it in my heart. Everything I do is right... Of course, I am a bad example. I know it. , but I don’t plan to change it within the marriage, because I have already planned to divorce, and it has reached the point where I have nothing to say and it is irreversible. In the past year or so, the most common thing I have said is "Don't give me nonsense", "I don't want to "I'm so angry with you", "Get away as far as you can", "I will do whatever you want for you, you will do whatever you want", "Are you a man?", "You are not a man and have no sense of responsibility at all." ", "Who do you think you are?", "It's none of your business, do you care?", "Your business has nothing to do with me," "It doesn't matter, you can do whatever you want," and countless times of "divorce" "... Yeah, there are too many to count. After writing it down, I realized why I have been so vicious in the past two years. He is also talking to me like this now. I am just short of the last step to tell him that I am not good at that. In the past two days I have been impulsively wanting to say it but I decided not to say it. In fact, the above is enough to make PU explode into the sky. It is a vicious circle. I don’t know if it is a statement in my heart or if this phenomenon really exists. If this state lasts for a long time, I will become more and more accustomed to talking like this. Only in this way will I not feel depressed and my inner depression will be vented. After a long time, I won’t be able to talk properly, and I don’t care if saying so will hurt him

# weekend discussion#I said Let me give you a few examples. I used to like the commanding way of speaking the most, "What must you do today?" Keep in sync, and get angry if you don't. My boyfriend's ex is a girl with a score of 7.5. She is 175cm long, has big breasts, and looks like Liu Yifei. Because of her high pu, she was chosen by her boyfriend who was a score of 6. "You have to listen to me, unless you are better than me", "Why do so?"

High PU mantra for relatives

# weekend discussion # A relative's cousin has super PU Gao, I feel suffocated every minute I spend time with her. She is very self-centered. If she doesn’t do something well and gives her advice, she will say, “You are stupid, you know what?” ", and is super impatient. He throws things at every turn to make others look at him. He also talks to his boyfriend in a disgusting tone: "You don't understand, how long have you been out?" "Do you understand me? "Can you..." When we got married, the man bargained for the price and refused to give us any gift.

#weekenddiscussion#My mother and my best friend are both very popular people. My mother never praises people. If you do anything, she will dislike you. For example, if I take the initiative to help her clean, she will say, "Why can't you do it cleaner? Look at it, it's all dust." She especially likes to ask for emotional value, if I praise her in front of her. She felt secretly happy when I belittled my mother-in-law, and would even take the initiative to ask if my mother-in-law's cooking was not as delicious as hers.

My best friend often belittles her husband in front of all her friends. She often says to her husband: "You don't even understand?" "Are you good at sex? Don't show off", which makes everyone very embarrassed...

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#weekenddiscussion#1. Say something you may not like to hear. 2. I am different from you. I will do this the same way you should do it. 3. I think it depends on my opinion (this depends on the context). 4. After confirming something, always add "but". If you like to be picky, please become a quality inspector, okay? Just don’t let others feel upset in your life.

#weekenddiscussion#My mother should be considered a typical high-PU person. He always likes to say: You waited for me, and you lied to me, right? Who asked you to buy me whatever I want? I don’t want your junk. Or when I repeatedly stressed that I didn't do anything, as long as she called me and I didn't receive the call, she would insist on what I did again. Also, use an exclamation point at the end when chatting. Alas, in short, every time I talk to her, I just feel deeply sad

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# weekend discussion # When it comes to Gao Pu, I feel that I feel deeply, and my family has The mother whose PU is so high that it explodes on the spot is always worried, for example: "If you weren't my daughter, I wouldn't care about you", "Do you want to hear it or not", "You can do whatever you want". She still cares too much... and likes to tell me how other people's children are doing well. I would say that mine is also very good. My mother would say, "Isn't this just to make you better?", or I would say that my mother is working too hard. Well, my mother would say "You can just talk" and so on. She talks too much and can't hear any compliments at all. She is always finding faults and faults

#weekenddiscussion# I saw this weekend discussion and couldn’t help but come to participate. The person with a sky-high PU in the family is none other than my grandma. Grandma’s PU is extremely high and she has never praised anyone in the family. She has also complained about grandpa all her life, which directly resulted in very little investment from grandpa for future generations. Everyone in the family thinks grandpa is a tough guy. I have been reading Wawa’s micro-questions and answers for more than a year. (I am very grateful to Wawa and his assistant for their hard work and leading everyone to run a better life together. I understand that it is actually grandma’s high PU that affects the family investment of future generations. Grandma is a typical Bu, the most common words 1 "When you were sick, I was looking for someone to help you treat your illness. Now I need your help to pour a glass of water, and it depends on your face." 2 "What contribution do you make to this family?" "3" Don't you feel guilty that your child is like this? "And so on. Or maybe the family bought something for grandma, but grandma never expressed that she particularly liked it. She always said, "What are you spending this money for?" "Don't buy it again. "How much? You don't know how to buy things, you were cheated" are the same, which is very heartbreaking. I didn't think it was anything before, but since I read Wawa's book and WeChat Q&A, whenever such a situation occurs, I I will tell grandma privately, you have to say thank you for thinking of me and express your gratitude. What I have learned is only superficial, I must work harder to learn the theory of dolls and manage a good life!

# Weekend Discussion# It is said that mothers with high PU will definitely have high PU daughters. Last time I talked about mother-in-law, this time I talked about sister-in-law. 1. I can’t control my emotions, like a dynamite barrel exploding at any time. Once I was at her house and suddenly heard something. She scolded her husband in the kitchen, "You are scumbag. The milk bottles are not clean. I have never enjoyed the blessings of marrying you. What else can you do? You can't do anything. I didn't want anything from you when I married you." , just because you can make money and be nice to me... The more you scolded me, the more excited you became. Later, you even scolded your mother-in-law. She couldn't help but trembled with anger. I persuaded her to let it go, and he understood. I'll clean it up next time. She told me that you are like this, no wonder my mother always scolds you, you don't take your child's health seriously, every time. When we quarrel, we always say, I didn’t scold you last time (it was a very small thing a few months ago), but you don’t know how to be grateful! 3. Once I complained that my mother-in-law was not nice to her (I It’s weird if you have a good heart), I wanted her to quantify her anger, so I suggested that I treat you to something delicious and forget about your worries. She likes spicy food. When I asked her what she wanted to eat, she said anything. She said she used to eat it often and didn't like it. I said the newly opened American Frog Fish Hotpot was pretty good. She said the bullfrog was disgusting. I said go to Sichuan Hotpot. She said it smelled like food. The reviewer asked her to choose, but she said forget it, it’s not fun to go out with you, and you can’t recommend it. You can go by yourself if you like. 4. Come to my house for dinner (uninvited). I quickly took it out from the refrigerator. Meat and fish, my husband and I cook two big dishes.

She always inspected the work in the kitchen with her hands behind her back, and told her husband that at first glance, these two people did not look like my mother and were unreliable. Let's make do with it today, as long as one of these four dishes is edible, we won't have to go hungry. As a result, I ate more than anyone else. After finishing my meal, I put down my chopsticks and lay down on the sofa, saying the taste was average. Thinking of the treatment of high-pull little fairies in WeChat, hahaha. . .

# weekend discussion # Anonymous Oh, when it comes to high PU, I think of my mother. I went home during the holidays, and then my mother said: "Why are you so lazy! I thought you would be better when you came back. Help! I didn’t expect it to be even more tiring! I have to serve you all day long! "In fact, I have younger brothers and sisters, and my mother only has to cook for one more person. That’s it, I do everything else myself. My mother's high PU also caused her to swallow needles very much. She married a relatively poor man (that is, my father), and she was the main source of the family's income. She was also occasionally subjected to domestic violence, and the husband's parents did not like her. . She said she would not say hello to her elders when she saw them, but would only quarrel.

#weekenddiscussion# My mother said something at my wedding, I don’t know if it’s considered high PU. The host asked my mother-in-law if she was satisfied with her daughter-in-law. My mother-in-law said she was 100% satisfied. Let me ask my mother: How would you rate this son-in-law? My mother said seriously: Eighty percent. Although I was going crazy in my heart, I still tried my best to control my emotions on the surface. The host also tried to smooth things over after hearing this. My mother is usually very strong and has a strong Holy Mother heart. They poured cold water on me from time to time, often denied other people's efforts, and never encouraged my efforts. They said they were afraid that I would be proud, and there were so many people at the wedding that they didn't give me any face. I used to be sweet and careless towards my husband and mother-in-law, but my mother's words shocked me so much that I didn't know how to face my husband's family in the future. After learning the doll theory, I deeply realized the importance of speaking skills and emotional intelligence. I later reflected on the fact that I had indeed ignored my mother-in-law’s emotions when I was in a relationship and preparing for marriage. Now I regret the lack of communication with my natal family before marriage, not providing her with enough emotional value, and ignoring the mother's disappointment in marrying her daughter. If I had communicated well with my mother before the marriage and didn't directly ask for emotional value from my son-in-law without overstepping my boundaries, I would have been a little closer to her than before the marriage and would have been sweet to her along with me, so there wouldn't have been such an embarrassing situation at the wedding.

High pu mantra for your partner

# weekend discussion # Talking about high pu, I immediately thought of a female friend who said when she was quarreling with her husband, you just make money for me and my children. machine!

#weekenddiscussion# I have a roommate, and my boyfriend is a little different. We video chat every night, asking questions such as "Can you do it? You're not as good as my xx" and "You don't understand this?" Do you have any brains? I can’t communicate with you anymore (she is a graduate student and her boyfriend is a junior college student). “Is it more important, the game or me?”, “You have so many acne on your face, don’t I dislike you?”, “ Do you have the right to call me naughty (this girl is indeed very naughty)", "I have a higher IQ than you, you are right," etc. Every time I hear this, I feel like laughing for my boyfriend. When she was with us, no matter when we were discussing skin care products, clothes, hairstyles, etc., she always said that hers were better than ours and ours were worse. Even with a mole on her face, she felt that hers was better than ours. Those who are better are more blessed. She went shopping with her boyfriend over the weekend and bought three pieces of clothing (from a Ma store). When she came back, she showed off that they were on sale. It would have cost more than a thousand yuan without the discount. In fact, the extra dollar cost less than two hundred yuan. They had been dating for half a year, and the gift that her boyfriend invested the most in her was Chinese Valentine's Day flowers (around 200, and her boyfriend was already working, with a salary of 7,000 to 8,000 per month). They were introduced by classmates, chatted on WeChat for two days, and decided to meet in person. relationship, and then within a week she went out to live with her boyfriend. At that time, she had not broken up with her ex-boyfriend whom she was pursuing... Although she also likes to act coquettishly and speak softly, her boyfriend has little investment in him and has no desire to protect her. She usually pretends to be pure and gentle, but looks silly, but is actually very smart, so we hardly like her that much.

# Weekend Discussion# There is a girl next to me who doesn’t care about other people’s feelings when she speaks, and she does whatever she wants. She always likes to say that her husband is not generous enough to her, how other men are willing to spend money on her wife, and how stingy her husband is. She also uses this topic to criticize her husband in front of everyone when friends gather for dinner or playing cards, and she says He curses a lot and likes to say, "Mom, what a dick."

In addition to being angry with her husband, I will not describe the incidents such as being angry with others one by one. Therefore, her husband became more and more unwilling to be generous to her, and her resentment became more and more serious. Every time I see her busting her pussy, I am secretly glad that I have learned doll theory, thank you doll!

#weekenddiscussion# I often hear the mantra of high-end students, girls ask their boyfriends to help repair computers or do other things. If the boys can’t do it well, the girls will be disgusted and say, “Then why do we need you? "Some girls like to compare and say to their boyfriends, "That xxx's boyfriend/husband gave her a new iPhone/LV bag blablabla"... I have also seen some girls say to stimulate their boyfriends to make progress, "What if I Let’s get to know that xxx first, and now it’s your turn to marry me. Look at how successful she is in her career.”… The mother of one of my best friends likes to say, “I’ve suffered a lifetime of hardship since I followed your dad, even expensive clothes and bags.” I don’t dare to buy it. I live frugally all for the sake of this family.” “Your dad doesn’t care about the house every day. He only plays computer games when he comes home. He never feels sorry for me. You are also a white-eyed wolf...” My best friend is alone now. She lives outside and doesn’t want to see her mother at all

#weekenddiscussion# 1. A man like you doesn’t deserve a girlfriend 2. How can I be with someone like you? How could I marry you in the first place? 3. After someone says something, you can always see the bad side. "Wow, it's so beautiful here" "It's no different from xx, just like that" 4. Add a lot of exclamation points after your words. For example: What are you doing! 5. Talking all day long is annoying to death. 6. No matter what you say, the answer is no, and then you explain it yourself and it is the same thing as you said. 7. Asking with nice words, what is it? Others reply, "How do I know?"

High PU mantras for friends

# Weekend Discussion # I have a roommate who is a nice person, but he has a sharp mouth and a bad temper. After chatting together for a while, when it was about to end, she said, "Okay, shut up." "Don't talk anymore, and I will kill you." When others made fun of her, she said, "There must be something wrong with your brain." In the dormitory, she said, "Oh, I'm so annoying." In short, I just watched her yelling at people every day until she was in a coma...

# Weekend Discussion# I have a classmate who especially likes to say, "I'm doing this all for your own good." Why don’t you ever think about me..."

#weekenddiscussion# I have heard my friends’ high-level words: words that insult others’ personality and despise others. For example, why are you so stupid? You are so stupid. Nothing can be done well like this, plus the attitude of disgust is as high as the sky, and the Holy Mother's heart, what have I done for you, blah blah, a lot of asking for emotional value, and some words that make people feel uncomfortable when they hear them< /p>

#weekenddiscussion# I think I have the right to speak on this topic, because I just broke up with a best friend whose PU exploded into the sky. I am located in Australia and originally wanted to invite her to attend my wedding registration ceremony on the 10th of next month. I have known my foreign boyfriend for a year and have a strong relationship with him. He pays me my salary, he talks sweetly and praises me, and he also provides a lot of emotional value. Choose one out of three and get full marks out of five questions. It’s really rare to be a foreigner. My bestie doesn’t know why she’s always so prejudiced. I am an employer sponsor, which requires a lot of money and a lot of time. But this has nothing to do with my marriage. But she felt that my time with him was too short, and I got married just to save money and apply for an identity card. She kept saying that it was all for my own good, that I was ungrateful, and that everything she said was unfaithful. They say that I am old and have no brains, so I can’t tell a man. But marriage is my business, and she shouldn't make sarcastic remarks even if you give her blessing.

#weekenddiscussion# I am a Ph.D. sister who is an absolute model of high PU. Mantra 1: So skimpy, so low. For example, on Girls' Day, the Graduate Student Union prepared a small bag of snacks and a rose for every girl in the school. We all felt very happy, but she complained: The snacks are so delicious and the flowers are so small. Mantra 2: Can you do it? For example, when her senior brother helped her draw a picture, she would yell, "Can you do it?" This color scheme is so ugly! The senior brother could only respond: Then do it yourself. Then the senior sister became deflated. Mantra 3: I’m so chilled! For example, after she lost her temper unreasonably and people started to ignore her, she started to find people to complain about and avoid the important things: I was very good to her, didn't I just say a few words, and she was like this, which really made me feel bad. Then the whole laboratory gave her a chill. By the way, she has a male ticket. In my opinion, the male's appearance is 2 points. So, wish her happiness.

#weekenddiscussion# I once envied the female scissor. I felt that she was indeed good at providing emotional value to others. However, she was not a baby fan, so I found more and more that she only had words and was not interested in her pursuers. , so most of the time she gets short-term choices, although she herself feels that she enjoys short-term choices... For example, she often complains to me: "Since I am looking for him just to let him accompany me, why should I accommodate his time? ?” “Why do I need him if I don’t want anything?” “Who has I ever tolerated in my life?”... I will use the doll’s theory to her. Said: You want everything, so what will you exchange for it? She said: I have always been like this. I said: Then you can't enter Changze... She said: Why can't I get married? I feel that she is emotionally superior to everyone. This kind of deep-seated dislike cannot be concealed by a few sweet words. No one is stupid. If she treats others as providers, will others not know? So, once again compare the wisdom of the heart doll! Take your time and lower your PU, because there are never shortcuts!

#weekenddiscussion# When I was in college (I was not lucky enough to meet my sister yet), the girls in the same class and dormitory often said in front of us, "Oh, why are you people like this?" Anyway, it was at that time I don’t know why, but it sounds very uncomfortable. Now I know it’s high PU.