Why do we become the most annoying people when we are alive?

Why do we become the most annoying people when we are alive? It's not that you have become that kind of person, but the reality of society makes it impossible for us to be ourselves.

Workplace psychology: Why do we gradually become the kind of people we hate and deliberately pay attention to the formation of unconscious imitation, so some of our behaviors will gradually approach them?

It doesn't matter whether you become the kind of person you hate. Don't care what others think of you. If you care about what you think of yourself, you can consult a psychologist.

Why do we become ourselves or the bad guys we hate the most? Because you always remember those annoying people or bad people, remember more people you like, and good people will learn from them.

Have you become the kind of person you hate most now? Tell me your long story. Life is like this. Things or people I hated when I was a child were distorted by reality. Many people may think that you are not strong enough, but behind your strength, you are sad. How many people don't want to face the reality of themselves, just trying to avoid making excuses for themselves, but under the hypocritical face, they unconsciously become hypocritical. Maybe people will think you are fake. But when people are used and hurt by friends again and again, can't you cheat your friends like them and say that you are friends as always? I have been hurt many times, numb, and "strong" at the same time.

How did you become the kind of person you hated and grow up day by day?

Be forgotten year after year.

Step by step to become

Adults who can't understand when they are young.

Many people become walking dead when they are alive. If there is no other pursuit, just eating and dying, it is really similar to walking dead.

However, most people always have a hobby, that is, the hobby of supporting people to finish their lives. Or when you are dying, you still want to go.

Why do we become people we hate? Because we live in a huge social group, everyone has different ideas, and there is no individual independent of society. In order to integrate into society, we have to worry about other people's ideas, which inevitably leads to the deviation between our own ideas and reality. I think when the environment is not harmonious with my own needs, it may lead to the denial of my own value. Either find a team that suits you, and strive to be the person you want to be through constant positive feedback and correction; Either adjust yourself to the environment and learn to face and bear it.

I hope all of us will not become the kind of people we hate the most! This kind of thing is inevitable. For example, when you were a child, you hated your parents' nagging. If you have children, you will also nag them. Although it was for his own good, your parents didn't think so before. Time can change a lot.

I failed to live up to my original intention and became the kind of person I hated before. I am particularly worried about this novel. Now let you continue to worry: Liangsheng, can we not be sad 3- 1?

Liangsheng, how I wish we had never left Weijiaping. Then, a good life will always be a good life for Jiang Sheng, a good life for Jiang Sheng and Jiang Sheng. But time cannot go back, and we can't imprison each other selfishly. But Jiang Sheng is such a selfish and willful child. In the end, this selfishness and willfulness hurt a man named Cheng Tianyou, and it hurt so thoroughly. So, Liangsheng forgive me, the rest is not what you are waiting for. I can only wait for Cheng Tianyou, who is as proud and conceited as Apollo, but always says sorry to Jiang Sheng, waiting for his return and giving him a love that he regrets from beginning to end.

-Inscription Cheng Tianyou said: "Xiao Yushan's son is no matter how good it is, it is also a gift from grandpa, but it is the first bucket of gold I earned." So I changed my mind in Cheng Tianyou, and I want to go because it's yours.

This time, the moving mushroom didn't make me doubt my IQ as before, but followed me meekly. Does it also know that no man will feed it with a spatula this time? Does it also know that I am the only one left now, and I am the only one who dotes on it and continues to let it wander in the world? Where is someone who can spoil me? Who stood in front of the pig and blocked the butcher's knife for it?

I finally found the damn camera, but instead of destroying it humanely, I looked at it with tears in my eyes. I know that Cheng Tianyou was the last person to see Jiang Sheng cry. Jiang Sheng's tears always make Cheng Tianyou surrender again and again. What about this time? Cheng Tianyou, will you come to me in your cool sports car to dry my tears and put me to sleep?

Jinling looked at me and said lightly, "Jiang Sheng, I once said that Cheng Tianyou is also a human being, not a god. When he is tired of love, he will choose to escape, even if it is not the best choice, but it is his only choice. He loves you so much, even if he is not around you, he can feel your heartache in the same city, but this heartache is not his, so how can he deal with it? " Jiang Sheng, Weiyang is right. If you can't let go of your good life, then don't pester Cheng Tianyou again. If you choose Cheng Tianyou, don't miss Liang Sheng again. Greedy children will not be happy. "

"A greedy child will not be happy."

"A greedy child will not be happy."

"A greedy child will not be happy."

I fell on Jin Ling's shoulder and murmured this sentence, asking her to take me to the car and take me away from this small fish mountain. Liangsheng, can we not feel sorry for 3-2?

Do you need me to accompany you? Jin Ling looked at me with worried eyes and said. I don't think it's necessary. I am not weak enough to need a weak Jinling. Jiang Sheng, you can continue your ruthlessness. Jin Ling dropped this sentence and eloped with the taxi driver. Looking at the tail gas of taxis, I feel that no matter how green the city is, it can't keep up with the growth rate of cars, just like Jinling. Even if you are my best friend, even if we are so close, you can't heal my injury. What's more, there is a Cheng Tianen among us. He is an angel in your heart, but in my opinion he is the reincarnation of Satan. Forgive me, Jinling.

Everything is so familiar when you open the door, but what's the difference? He changed the floor, changed the curtains, and changed everything I said casually. In fact, I just didn't want Cheng Tianyou to be too arrogant, just talking, but I forgot that Cheng Tianyou never joked.

The curtains in the bedroom are flying, because there is wind, because the window is open, because there is a pot of blooming ginger flowers. Cold ginger flowers are blooming on the bedside table. Cold ginger flowers that have never bloomed for so many years are actually blooming on the bedside table. What is this? What is this?

"Come on, I'm a pig, a pig, a pig …" Yes, Cheng Tianyou made it for me. He always calls me a pig, and I always, sometimes, doubt whether I am really a pig, because the little boy's IQ is indeed many times higher than mine.

Hold the door handle, close your eyes, take a breath, hope or expect, and open the door. The result was unexpected.

"Jiang Sheng", some similar tones, some similar looks, some similar eyes, once had the same expectations in my heart. But some things, some people seem to add up incomplete.

"Brother", Liangsheng, maybe I should call you that, but maybe I was happy before, but now I can't, because we all know what this means. Maybe I used to call you Liangsheng, but now I can only call you brother. We can't afford the price at the back. We are far from Weijiaping. ...

Jiang Sheng, have you eaten? It took Liangsheng a long time to jump out of his teeth with such a very uninspiring remark. I know. What he wants to say is, Jiang Sheng, are you okay? But he didn't dare to ask, he was afraid of touching the wound, and he was afraid that his Jiang Sheng would overflow uncontrollable thoughts in front of him.

In fact, Jiang Sheng is such a master of making bitches. He always longed for the happiness he once had, but it was never in his palm.

Stephen Chow's classic line is "There was a sincere love before me, and I didn't cherish it until I lost it. The most painful thing in the world is this. If God can give me another chance, I will say "I love you" to this girl. If I have to add a deadline to this love, I hope it is ... 10,000 years. " Liangsheng, can you not be sad 3-3

"I haven't eaten yet."

"What do you want to eat? I'll do it for you! "

The words "fried eggs" blurted out without thinking. Liangsheng looked at me with sad eyes. I forgot that my good students can only cook noodles. I forgot to cook noodles. It slipped my mind. At this moment, I suddenly felt so disabled. I kept thinking of Liang Sheng in front of Cheng Tianyou and Cheng Tianyou in front of Liang Sheng. It seems that everything is my insistence, and I will infinitely expand the sadness of three people.

"Ok, wait, I'll do it for you." The action of cold frying eggs is much more elegant than that of Cheng Tianyou. It seems that he is not frying eggs but tasting delicious red wine, and Cheng Tianyou is always in such a hurry that he thought the kitchen had experienced World War II afterwards.

But the general point of them is that they dare not compliment what they fried, and now my mind is full of it. I wonder if Cheng Tianyou will appear if I don't want to cook noodles anymore? You once said that you take pains to cook for you, just thinking that one day, everything I do can replace the bowl of boiled noodles that you have been reluctant to forget. Although I didn't forget to cook noodles, I remembered your fried eggs.

I deliberately ignored the injury in Liang Sheng's eyes. Since it is doomed to be impossible, don't try again. There may be an opportunity now, but this opportunity will hurt more. What's more, I have to catch a Cheng Tianyou. I have no courage. Yes, Jiang Sheng is a coward and a coward, but Jiang Sheng can no longer be willful. Liangsheng, why are we like this? I'd rather never know the truth, and I'd rather you were my brother forever, so all the pain will only make me.

"You have been weak recently, so you should take more supplements." Liangsheng magically conjured up a bowl of chicken soup. Where did he take it out? Why didn't he notice when he walked in the door just now? Great question! This is the first time Liangsheng has cooked chicken soup! Did he spend the whole afternoon worrying about the bad chicken soup? But Cheng Tianyou, as an experienced elder, why haven't you sent yours yet? Liangsheng is here. Why don't you come? Didn't you say you wanted to protect that little pig? If a butcher raised a knife at it, would you always stand in front of it? Cheng Tianyou, you can't be a mean person who breaks his word. Remember that you are a businessman and I don't need to tell you how important your reputation is! If you don't appear in front of me again, I'll sue you, sue you for breaking your promise and ruin your reputation. I, Jiang Sheng, keep my word, hum!

Liangsheng, can you not be sad 3-4

"Brother, when will you go back to France?" Liang Sheng was cold. Maybe he didn't even think about it now. Maybe he didn't expect his Jiang Sheng to mention it. Maybe he did, but he didn't expect it to be so soon. His Jiang Sheng!

"Jiang Sheng, do you know why ginger flowers never bloom?" I have thought about this issue with Liang Sheng before, perhaps because I, my morality, don't allow or even despise Jiang Hua's idea, so it won't blossom because it doesn't want to face people like me. But now, why did Jiang Hua bloom on Cheng Tianyou for so long? Why? I also want to know.

"Plants need sunshine, people also need sunshine, but Jiang Sheng, you know, my ginger flowers are always under the bed, while those in Cheng Tianyou are always bathed in sunshine, so they bloom. I have been thinking about whether there will be a day when ginger flowers will bloom without sunshine, but I failed. " We are like ginger flowers without sunshine, always looking forward to blooming. Unfortunately, Jiang Hua can't resist the laws of nature, and we can't cross moral boundaries.

"Brother, I'm a little tired and want to have a rest." I don't want to continue. I'm afraid I'll be unwilling I am always so reluctant to part with it, unwilling to part with Liangsheng. Liangsheng is a festival in my life, a festival I don't want to open. Let this festival continue!

"Then rest, and I'll come to see you another day."

A person feels a little lonely in an empty room, so he begins to remember and miss. Facing the cold life makes me miss it more.

Don't you want to? ...

I continued to lose sleep, get up, call the computer and continue my crossing plan. However, even if I know the man's mind, I still can't stand it face to face and burst into tears.

Cheng Tianyou, I didn't know my sleeping face could be so bad. I think you must have smiled at it for a long time.

"Pigs should sleep like this! ! ! ! ! "

But Cheng Tianyou, don't sigh so much, sigh, it's very tiring. You are already so tired for me, so don't be tired any more. Too many words, you will run away, even though you have already run away.

I've been thinking a lot recently. If Jiang Sheng was a cat related to Liang Sheng in his last life, what's your relationship with that cat, Cheng Tianyou? Is it the cat next door, or the grass that keeps looking at the cat?

So, Cheng Tianyou, how should I treat you? Jiang Sheng, who was a fool in his last life, gave up his chic life because of a piece of braised pork. Why did Jiang Sheng give up this life? What is Cheng Tianyou to Jiang Sheng in this life?

Hey, Cheng Tianyou, you know, since you left, Jiang Sheng has become less and less intelligent. Maybe Jiang Sheng thought too little before, and everything was sheltered by you, so I found how lonely I was when Jiang Sheng was alone. Cheng Tianyou, do you trust Jiang Sheng to live alone?

Cheng Tianyou: I know you don't want to be someone else's body, body double, and I don't want Jiang Sheng to accept you because of guilt or sympathy, but Cheng Tianyou forgave Jiang Sheng. Although I can't fall in love with you wholeheartedly now, I will try, so please don't let Jiang Sheng, who is trying now, love you so much. Please don't be willful like her, because you are Cheng Tianyou and Cheng Tianyou who loves Jiang Sheng.

Liangsheng, can we not be sad 3-5?

No matter how sad and depressed you are, the world is still turning, the sun is still rising, and people are still so small. Therefore, Jiang Sheng's mother will continue to look after her flower shop, while Mushroom will continue to choose a concubine. I knew it was a heartless cat. I didn't expect it to say anything to me. I didn't expect it. But I hate its contemptuous eyes, as if laughing at my lack of treasure. But do you know mushrooms? When you like someone for more than ten years, live alone with him and have been friends since childhood, will you give up long-term love because of a similar eyebrow eye? Don't give up even if you can't, because you love it too much!

But I forgot that mushrooms can only like cats, which is common sense and cannot be violated!

I know that God will not let Jiang Sheng be so carefree, which is also common sense.

Watching Cheng Tianen come into my life as usual, I'm not afraid this time. Anyway, what should come will come, and what should not? What is there to be afraid of?

"Ah, poor Jiang Sheng, you regret it now. You regret not catching him. I think you hate me the most. Without me, you and my brother won't get it. At least it's possible to keep it! But I tell you, everything is what you are looking for. I just catalyzed your relationship. I really can't stand my brother being with you. You can't do anything. Even if you are perfunctory, it will only hurt his heart. Why do you think he is still suffering from your yearning and your * *? Even if you treat him like this, maybe he will feel worse. Even if I want this result, Jiang Sheng, I don't want you to punish my brother like this. I will punish him myself! "

"Today is to tell you that you'd better go and see Liu. His father is back. What do you think he will be like? I don't know what will happen to Liangsheng? It's exciting to think about it. As the father of your last child, do you have an obligation to see the father's situation? Jiang Sheng, tell you more. I have more important things to do. I'm still writing about your fate. Goodbye Jiang Sheng, I hope you will be so energetic next time! "

I hate Cheng Tianen, no, not hate, but hate, extreme hate. He can always pick up everything I intentionally forget, nothing left, nothing left!

My Liangsheng, my child and the last person, Liu, actually I don't hate Lu very much. I only hate him for hurting Liangsheng and Cheng Tianyou, not himself. He also felt sorry for the innocent child, but I didn't really want a child. I just saw Cheng Tianyou's happy expression and thought it would be nice to have a child. Cheng Tianyou will be a good father. Unfortunately, fate fooled me deeply at the same time. Sorry, my fault implicates two people.

The return of Lu's father means nothing to me, but what about Liang Sheng? Will he recognize the man? I don't doubt that Liu's father will be with Liang Sheng. He loves Cheng Tianyou's aunt so much that he will love their children even more. That's her last trace. No one can resist the mood he wants. When an important person leaves you, he always wants to find someone closest to her to replace him. Suddenly, Liang Sheng left me for Weiyang, and Cheng Tianyou became a substitute. Similar faces and eyebrows and eyes make me seem to find comfort. But who would have thought that such a little boy would be infatuated with the malnourished Jiang Sheng? Who would have thought?

But Cheng Tianyou, you just took a fancy to it, and you loved it so firmly that you left no room for yourself. Since this fool Cheng Tianyou loves you so much, why don't you insist? Why not wait for Jiang Sheng, a fool, to fall in love with you? I know you are tired, but Jiang Sheng is stupid, so you should stick to it in Cheng Tianyou. It turned out to be your fault. This is all your fault. Jiang Sheng is just a little stupid. You know, Jiang Sheng is right, Cheng Tianyou! Liangsheng, can you not be sad 3-6

People often say that when people are unlucky, they even plug their teeth with water, but I don't think it's bad luck. If they are really unlucky, you may even be out of breath.

Just like now, I just sent away the demon Cheng Tianen, and it's over. Even if it is not as terrible as Cheng Tianen, it is not a good Lord. TNNDGOD didn't even take a breath. He didn't bring it with him.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with Weiyang being my sister-in-law. At least she is a pair of dichromatic pictures with Liangsheng. If you want to change someone else, you may not have the quality of unfinished business. Forgive my anthomaniac behavior, my resistance to beautiful things is useless. Although it may be poppy, some people are addicted to it.

Watch Weiyang Dill come in, then gracefully open her handbag, take out a cigarette and spit out a beautiful smoke ring. I was in a trance, and suddenly I saw Ningxin sitting there, shaking. Why is it strange that they are sisters? I just didn't expect Weiyang to smoke, but after so many years, everything may change. Weiyang is no longer that beautiful doll, and neither am I.

Surprised? Maybe it's because I'm a little slow, Weiyang asked lightly. But Jiang Sheng, you don't have to be so surprised. Thanks to you to some extent. I saw Liang Sheng sad and haggard for you, but he never looked at me. Even standing in front of him, some of them are just the shadows of your Jiang Sheng. Do you know how I feel? I can't tell Liang Sheng. I'm afraid I don't even have a chance to stand in front of him, so I learned to smoke, hiding in the toilet alone and crying silently in the smoke. I thought about drinking to drown my sorrows, but even so, I'm afraid that Liangsheng will show that dissatisfied look after smelling the wine, you know, you know? Weiyang said a little hysterical, but I understand that this is a woman's love, a woman's deep love.

In fact, I have never resented Weiyang. She is just a woman who is deeply in love. Everything she does is just defending her love, but she is better and kinder than me. She always only hurts herself and her rival in love. Unlike me, she always passes the pain on to people who care about and love herself, such as Cheng Tianyou, and God who doesn't care much about me.

Yes, she is kinder and happier than me, but God obviously doesn't care much about her. But good people will still be rewarded, I believe.

People often say that it is quiet before a storm, which is also obtained through a lot of experiments, so it makes sense. Recently, the flame spread to China without incident. When all the people were immersed in the atmosphere, the 5. 12 Wenchuan earthquake appeared in such a gorgeous way.

My heart began to tremble a little. Are you scared? I feel horrible. I'm afraid my youngest son happened to be there. I am afraid I happened to see his angry face on TV. I'm afraid he tripped. I'm afraid I'll lose him. Although he is gone, I am still afraid of losing him.

I admit that I am selfish. At this moment, all I can think about is Cheng Tianyou. I have no feelings of patriotism and love for the people, but I am a little girl. All I can think about is the people I love and love me. I have so much love that I can't give them all.

God, forgive me!

"I heard that you are going to Sichuan." It's been a long time for Liangsheng. How long has it been? It seems like a week. Then why do I feel like a year has passed? What is wrong is not my memory, but Liangsheng. Why are you so thin? Although you used to be thin, I think it was you. Why don't I feel that this person is my good life now?

"Well, Jin Ling is going there for an interview, and I will accompany her." This is a fact. Jinling really went there for an interview. The fact is that the interview is just a foil. The important thing is, I'll go and see if Xiao Gong Zi is there. I choose to tell you some minor things, but I know you understand what the main thing is, but your Jiang Sheng can't say it, and you don't want to listen.

So that's it, so that's it!

"Then let's go to Jiang Sheng. I applied to be a volunteer and it has been approved! " A faint tone, as if to say, Jiang Sheng, let's go for an outing!

It turns out that we are all stupid, so we are stuck in this quagmire.