What are some quotations that are eye-catching?

People who look forward and backward are the most confused because they don’t know what they want. People who look around are the most tired because they always feel that they have a harder time than others.

When I saw this sentence, I silently wrote it down in my notebook. Why I like this sentence, first of all, I see the epitome of contemporary people in this sentence. To be precise, this sentence exposes the psychological state of a large number of people in today's society. They always feel that they are very hard and have a hard time every day. There are so many troublesome things that bother them. You can't always get what you want; why others can accept things that are obviously wrong; some things that seem to be successful but are missed by just one move; in short, every day is full of negative energy in my heart. If you encounter a little bit of blow again, you will be even more stuck in the corner and can't get out. It starts with depression. If it is not relieved, it will slowly extend into anxiety. This is why the society is in urgent need of psychological counselors. Secondly, this sentence also points out the cause of the problem. The most important thing is that this type of people do not recognize themselves clearly and do not know what they really have, what they want, and what they can have.

That’s why we are in a state of life without goals and at a loss. Coupled with the temperament of always looking forward and backward when encountering things, thinking about things here and there, and having a lot of blind worries, I am unable to make an accurate analysis of my own situation, distinguish the priorities, and see the essence and source clearly; because I can't make a decision, I just think See what others are doing and find some advice for yourself. But if there are too many comparisons, you will be dazzled by things that don't matter. You will be attracted by some insignificant things and change your direction. You will go further and further away from the real goal. When you find something is wrong, you will think why it is so bad. There is no point in trying it again. Goals, meaningless fuss. Over and over again, it's bad to overdo it. Vicious cycle. How to change? This sentence also points out the direction. In fact, confusion is temporary and normal.

Everyone will feel confused to some extent when growing up. To get out of this situation, you need to set a goal for yourself based on your own abilities, social environment, and future needs. The goal can be anything, such as finding a job you like, or identifying a needed skill training. . Then set some stage goals. Of course, you should choose the ones that you can achieve in one jump. It can't be too lofty, as it will hurt your confidence. After it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved with hard work, so that you can reach the final goal step by step. Through this, I can make a little progress every day, accumulate experience in a down-to-earth manner, and achieve gains; then set a new stage goal, work harder, and gain again. Sticking to one goal after another is like climbing over mountains and seeing a different sky, which makes you feel happy.

Give it a try, start by setting a small goal for yourself, and achieve a new you.