Why can't I attend the wedding of my relatives and friends when I am pregnant?

"Being pregnant can't go to the wedding" is just like "Being pregnant can't go to the funeral". It's just a statement without scientific basis. It's just that the old man said that he was afraid that pregnant women attending the wedding would collide with XiShen, which would be bad for the couple, and then he thought it was such a thing. For example, some people don't even know that they are pregnant, and it doesn't matter if they go to the wedding.

Pregnant people are not recommended to attend the wedding, mainly because there are many noisy people at the wedding scene, and it is easy to bump into a couple when they are noisy. If you accidentally bump into a pregnant woman, you will be fine. If something goes wrong, it will hurt the pregnant woman and the baby in her belly, and it will also add to the couple's troubles. A good happy event will be hit by someone, and anyone else will feel unlucky. And there must be a lot of people smoking at the scene. The air is bad and stuffy, pregnant women will feel uncomfortable and affect others' emotions.

Of course, whether you can attend the wedding of the couple when you are pregnant depends mainly on whether the couple themselves or their families care. If others really care, don't bother. Send your blessing. You can invite friends to dinner after the wedding. If the newlyweds don't care, go to the wedding happily, give your sincere wishes to the newlyweds, then take care of yourself at the wedding, don't go to crowded places to pee, and pay attention to what pregnant women can't eat when eating. In short, pregnant women should attend the wedding of the couple without affecting their own health and disturbing others. Remember that the new talent is the protagonist of the wedding, so don't give the couple any trouble, and don't make trouble for yourself.

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We can participate here. Maybe local customs are different.

We really don't have this custom here. I think the places where pregnant women can't attend the wedding of relatives and friends may mainly consider the following aspects:

1. Some old people think that pregnant women will be overjoyed when they attend the wedding.

Pregnancy is a happy event for pregnant women, and so is marriage. Two happy events are easy to bump into each other. Of course, this is just a superstition. I have attended many weddings and met more than one pregnant woman. For families who are particularly concerned about these feudal superstitions, pregnant women and friends should know clearly so as not to violate other people's taboos.

The wedding scene is crowded and chaotic, which is not good for pregnant women and fetuses.

First of all, weddings are generally lively, and some children will bump into them everywhere and may accidentally bump into pregnant women. Secondly, there are many people at the wedding scene, and the air is not circulating. If someone smokes, pregnant women passively smoke second-hand smoke, which is not conducive to fetal development. If it is a pregnant woman in the early pregnancy, it may also cause vomiting. Finally, the sound of the wedding scene is high in decibels, and the fetus will be unbearable, especially in the late pregnancy, the fetal movement will increase significantly.

The food at the wedding banquet may not suit the taste of pregnant women.

Pregnant women should not eat some food during pregnancy, such as turtles and crabs. Some pregnant women usually pay more attention to the addition of spices in their diet, so they can't follow their usual eating habits at the wedding banquet, which affects the normal eating of pregnant women.

Therefore, considering the taboo of folk customs, uncontrollable factors at the wedding site, pregnant women's diet and other factors, pregnant women are not recommended to attend the weddings of relatives and friends in some places. Mother Fish believes that pregnant women need to do what they can to protect themselves and the fetus if they go to the wedding.

What other taboos do you know about pregnant women? Thanks for sharing.

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Maybe it's a custom in some places. Personally, I think it is really inappropriate to go to such a crowded gathering place. This concept has nothing to do with customs, but from the perspective of pregnant women and fetuses, because there will be all kinds of people at the wedding, which is too noisy. Needless to say, tobacco, alcohol and firecrackers in the air are not good for pregnant women and fetuses. Many people will inevitably encounter the source of infection that is catching a cold or other incubation periods, and there are too many people who greet each other or eat together. It is inevitable to eat some foods that you have to eat, or some foods are eaten too much, or too salty and greasy, too tired, which is not conducive to a reasonable diet. All these make pregnant women should go to such occasions as little as possible or not.

Customs vary from place to place, and it is said that people are afraid of rushing. In addition, there are many people, many smokers and noisy environment in wedding occasions, which will have a certain impact on the physical and mental health of pregnant women and the healthy development of their babies. So this statement is also a beautiful lie for pregnant women!

Hello, I'm Ma Bao Nian, and I'm glad to answer your questions. There is a saying in many places: pregnant women can't attend weddings, can't sit on couples' beds, etc. There are many taboos anyway. In fact, this is all superstition, but I also think pregnant women still have to attend the wedding, especially when they are old. Let me share my experience with you:

Not now. Weddings are mostly held in hotels, and relatives will not go to new houses. Later, I was pregnant for about five months, went to the wedding, and went out before I started. Everyone who has attended the wedding knows that the lighting and acoustics are beautiful now, the environment is quite noisy, there are many smokers, and the children in their bellies are still moving. I couldn't sit down at all and had to leave.

Conclusion I am studying in Ma Bao. Welcome to pay attention to @ Danianbao and exchange parenting experiences. I think on the contrary, you can attend the wedding of relatives and friends if you are pregnant.

If you are pregnant, you can't attend the wedding of relatives and friends. Most people may think that the happiness of newlyweds will conflict with the pregnancy of pregnant women, or for other reasons. In short, the appearance of pregnant women will seriously affect the wedding of the couple.

In fact, these statements have not been scientifically confirmed and are not credible. The biggest obstacle to pregnancy attending a wedding may lie in the following two points.

First, if you are pregnant, all aspects of your body will be slower than usual, and there are many people at the wedding, so the personal safety of pregnant women cannot be guaranteed.

Second, if you are pregnant, there will be many taboos. Such as diet, environment and so on. At the wedding scene, these conditions cannot be met. Everything, all kinds of firecrackers, musical instruments and so on. Inexperienced pregnant women are likely to be recruited

I'm from the south, and I have "some superstitious statements that are not credible, but in the face of a crowded wedding scene, pregnant women still have to depend on the situation."

Ancient customs have many requirements for pregnant women. Some say that pregnancy cannot be made public for three months, some say that pregnant women can't go to temples, and some say that pregnant women can't go to weddings.

Newcomers will bump into pregnant women! Old people usually tell you that people are their own western gods and their own fetal gods, and their family members do not collide with their family members; And your fetal god is different from other people's western gods. Of course there was a collision. So taboo, I wonder if partners in other places also pay attention to this aspect.

Where is this custom?

Local customs are different! In some places, when you are pregnant, there are many taboos. You are not allowed to do this or move like that. Anyway, you worry too much.

Many people are busy at the wedding. I'm afraid that if you don't pay attention, you will be hit or knocked down by the crowds coming and going. I accidentally hurt myself and hurt the baby in my belly. No one can afford this.

If something happens at someone else's wedding, the original happy event, because of you, will make someone else's wedding go wrong, which is also an unwanted result.

At the wedding banquet, all kinds of dishes are taboo for pregnant women, and pregnant women must not eat them. What should I do if I feel uncomfortable after eating? It will have an impact on the baby's health.

But then again, my husband is married to a colleague. I was pregnant for more than three months and went. I pay great attention to the food at the wedding banquet, and my husband always cares. So I feel nothing!

Whatever it is, customs or something. For pregnant women, everyone must pay attention. After all, when a baby comes, it's life.

Some banquets can be avoided, so try to avoid them. Go to crowded places less, so that you and your baby are in a safe range.