The greatest achievement in life: turning love into a career

In p>221, I met Mr. Hongdan and participated in the teacher's zero-based writing training camp, which inspired my deep love for writing, so I made an appointment for the annual membership of Hongdan Writing College in 222.

Mr. Hongdan turned his beloved writing into a career, which is the greatest success!

I am a person who is not good at expressing myself. Although, in a popular phrase, I may be a patient with "social arrogance", although people around me will think that I am gentle and considerate, and although I have many friends, in fact, I am really not good at expressing myself.

I have always used "Buddhism" to describe my way of doing things. I always thought it was a commendatory term, but recently I suddenly realized that it was more like a derogatory term. Because "Buddhism" means no pursuit, no goal, no matter what, I always accept passively, and choose to escape when I encounter difficulties ...

I also choose Buddhism in interpersonal relationships, but I don't know that interpersonal relationships are like flowers and plants, which need careful care. I always say that I am not good at growing flowers. It is conceivable that Buddhism's cultivation of flowers is probably full of luck! Fortunately, my friends have not "raised si" without me.

I met my college classmates in Yangzhou last week, but I haven't seen them much since graduation. Three mothers with different occupations and personalities talked endlessly together. When we talked about the matter of advertising in her circle of friends, she said that I was the only one who advertised in her circle of friends without being blocked.

I was curious. I asked them why they didn't block me. She said that she just thought that the content I sent was just what she needed sometimes, such as books recommended for children to read, such as some household necessities ... To sum up, I probably did help others, and I had my own life instead of dry advertisements, so I was left behind.

sometimes I always feel that I have a lot of things in my head, and sometimes I have a whim, but those thoughts that pass by are always lingering. I want to write them, but I always don't know where to start.

For example, on this trip to Hangzhou, if I came back that day to write a sentiment, I think I could at least code more than 1, words, but I didn't write it, and I didn't know where to start after the time.

In recent years, I always like to buy books, but I have little time to settle down and read. Although I spend my spare time listening to Fan Deng every day, I only listen to them briefly, and I haven't deeply immersed myself in learning.

Last year, I participated in teacher Hongdan's zero-based writing training camp, and I found that I could write. Here with teacher Hongdan, I realized that actually writing has little to do with Chinese achievement, materials can be accumulated, methods can be learned, and only action is the most important thing!

I especially like this sentence: What is missed is not important, and what is important will not be missed.

Since I joined the annual membership community on December 22nd, I have been infected step by step and moved to thank you step by step. What impressed me was not only the personal charm of teacher Hongdan, but also the learning atmosphere of the whole community and the rigorous and lively community operation mode.

I think this is what I like and what I need, because I don't want to miss it.

On the first day of New Year's Day holiday, the annual members started the camp, but in fact, we began to learn to punch in from the preparatory period of three courses. Let the students get ready first, physically and psychologically, determine the learning goals, and find the learning rhythm that suits them. The most frequently heard sentence in the community is: Take the initiative to learn, don't be transparent in the community, be yourself shining!

After finishing the preparatory course, we began to get up early and read by the community friends. Every day, excellent friends led us to read a chapter. The first book was Micro Habits.

From the excellent students who read the book, we not only learned the essence of the book, but also their own cases and feelings, which made us learn more about the contents of the book. I think the thinking questions in each class are a particularly good link, which can guide everyone to take the initiative to think and further internalize.

In addition to morning reading, the community also has a twittering session of excellent students every night, which also makes people feel a special sense of belonging. Every day, we can draw energy from a small theme.

Of course, that's not all. Teacher Hongdan practices with her own actions, and the harder she works, the luckier she gets. Since the opening of the camp on January 1st, the teacher has been infecting us with her own actions, punching in early, writing early, summing up and sharing in the evening, and broadcasting live in WeChat official account ... In such an atmosphere, it's hard not to study!

At the opening ceremony, I collected a lot of golden sentences to share with you:

Appear in other people's lives, be like a gift, and be extremely altruistic.

"What saved me, I will also use it to save others."

be a little friend who has dreams in his heart, light in his eyes and moves like the wind, and live a better life.

Action is the best way to solve anxiety.

if things are going to change, you have to change yourself first.

if we persist in being long-term, we will surely meet a better self.

There is no quick success in life, and there is no life that can reach the top directly. Only by continuous accumulation and quantitative change can qualitative change be caused.

every step you take counts, and every effort you make will not be in vain.

Life comes to an end, but words can travel through time and space.

If you want to submit a manuscript, then write it.

If you want to write well, then change it.

If you want to change it, then act

to make yourself better, which is the key to solving all problems.

when you feel difficult, you are going uphill. You must carry on and go to the next high point.

great dreams are not something you can wait and shout, but something you can spell and do!

I never let my dreams interfere with reality, but slowly accumulate capital to change reality.

Have a dream, keep on writing, have a passion, and have a promising future.

if you are beautiful, you deserve to be beautiful.

I like myself very much. I can be anything.

Enjoy yourself in your passionate field and grow into your best appearance!

Reading is the quickest shortcut to success;

writing is a life-changing weapon.

There is no failure in life. You either gain or learn.

In the community, be a proactive person, don't dive into transparency, think that community activities have nothing to do with you, and think that I just need to learn writing silently. Believe that no matter what you do or participate in, you will either gain experience or learn knowledge.

the biggest failure in life is not to participate and give up

those who achieve great things, devoting themselves to the game and willing to do small things. What you think has nothing to do with you may be of great value to you one day. Don't give up easily, to be a diligent and determined person, the mission will be achieved.

It's not only when you are strong that you start, but when you start.

Master Hongdan said: Action is an advantage. A man with fierce action is almost invincible.

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These are just part of the opening ceremony, and I extracted my key words for 222 from them, that is: focus and extreme altruism! Focus is what I lack most at present, and altruism is what I have been doing. These two are the key words of everything I do in 222.

The word micro-habit is new to us. Can I describe my feelings with an epiphany? It's like being locked up in a dark room for a long time, and then someone opens a window for you. That feeling is really super nice!

According to the method in this book, I have made a micro-habit plan for myself:

1. Exercise plan: skipping rope for 1 minute every day

I am a woman who doesn't like shopping. I feel sleepy when I go shopping. I am more inclined to decide what to buy and then go shopping. However, I like outdoor activities very much, like hiking and mountain climbing, but I feel trapped in the education industry in recent years.

I'm trapped not only in my body, but also in my heart. I've always wanted to exercise, but I can't put it into action. There are too many obstacles preventing me from carrying it out. I don't have time, I don't want to move, I don't know what exercise to do, and I feel bad after trying some exercises ...

I didn't know until I read this book that it's not that I can't change my habits, but that the method is wrong. Micro-habit is to start something from childhood to insignificance. The author started with a push-up and persisted in fitness for decades, because a simple step is easier to be ignored by the brain.

I don't have to think about whether I can jump rope for 1 minute, because I know I can definitely do it, and it's much easier to skip the thinking in my brain.

2. Reading plan: read two pages of books every day, and share the reading notes of the day. There is no limit to the number of words, just share.

I have been reading the book "Cereal Brain" recently, because I think it is helpful to the health of my family and myself. The book about attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, and the diet plan of depression are all ignored by us.

But because of too many obstacles, I can't stand it. Now I plan to share my reading notes for two pages a day, regardless of the number of words. Finally, this "not counting the number of words" made my brain relax, and my attention was focused on reading and sharing, ignoring the content, which immediately became much easier.

3. There is no limit to the number of words to write to children. As long as I insist on writing to children, I just started in December. Before I started, I actually had all kinds of worries. If I write every day, where can there be so many things to write? So I set myself the goal of writing, even if it is just a "good night", I can convey my love and my determination to persist in doing one thing to my children.

4. Writing plan: updated every day (unlimited words)

Originally, I ordered 1 words a day, but I found that I didn't finish it in two days. Today, I changed it to "unlimited words", but I talked endlessly! Isn't it amazing? This is a simple small step!

5. Tidy up the house: I have always been bad at collecting and tidying up a small corner every day. I like to leave things lying around, which often leads to I can't find them, and sometimes I can't bear to throw them away, which leads to more and more things. In the past two days, I have seen a small partner make a habit of doing a housework every day, such as cleaning the table. This suddenly inspired me.

these five micro-habits are carried out at the same time, and I don't feel pressure, which is also the advantage of micro-habits. We often say to cultivate one good habit at a time, because too much will distract attention and energy, but it is not easy to do it.

But micro-habits can cultivate several at the same time, because those actions are so trivial that they can be easily done.

so how do micro-habits help us form good habits? We all know that the brain can be divided into left brain and right brain, but there are actually conscious brain and subconscious brain.

The conscious brain likes to think, but it consumes energy and is not easy to persist, while the subconscious brain likes to repeat without thinking, just like eating and sleeping.

We need these two brains to cooperate with each other to help us form good habits. First of all, we should make the subconscious brain fall in love with the instructions of the conscious brain, change it from a small step, and turn the instructions of the conscious brain into repeated actions of the subconscious brain, so that a new habit can be formed!

Now I have started reading the second book, Lifelong Growth. I read and heard this book in Fan Deng a long time ago, but I didn't read it in depth. I learned a lot by reading it with you this time.

I am especially grateful for today's reading "Clare welcomes us". Today, we are taught the third chapter of Lifelong Growth. This book mainly talks about two kinds of thinking: fixed thinking and growth thinking.

Today, "Clare Yuelai" shared how she practices growth-oriented thinking, which reminds me of my cousin, who is also in Suzhou Park.

I think she graduated from an ordinary junior college and worked hard in Suzhou. There is no English level, and there is no TEM-4 and TEM-8.

At the end of the year when recruitment was difficult, she had an opportunity to enter Honeywell. She started as the most ordinary clerk and got a salary of 8 yuan for half a year, because the company was just in urgent need of people and didn't think highly of her.

Her position needs people with good professional English, but she has stayed by her own diligence and hard work, and through continuous efforts, she can now have a video teleconference with foreigners directly.

In 29, when people were laid off in the economic crisis, she stayed, and successfully recommended her husband to join the production department of the company. In recent years, the company has been laying off employees, and both of them have been recognized by the company by their own efforts. Today, I am particularly touched. I think she is also a good practitioner of growth thinking!

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