Why do some people not regret it after doing something immoral?

Why do some people not regret doing immoral things? Even confident!

In our real life, we don’t feel regretful if we do immoral things, and we don’t feel guilty if we do evil things! Such people also exist, endangering society and various family areas and harming personal interests.

Because most of these people have developed the habit of being self-centered, arrogant, self-righteous, arrogant, selfish, in a bad mood, self-centered, domineering, domineering, and incomprehensible to basic human feelings. rule. Talking and doing things regardless of the balance between left and right, relying only on one's own thoughts, speaking without restraint, without thinking, let alone taking into account other people's feelings and causal relationships, which invisibly creates many unfavorable factors and artificial psychological conflicts. As the saying goes, no one cares about the hurt in person, but the shadow caused by the invisible hurt in the heart will be remembered forever.

Many things are reflected in expressions and words. Some people do evil things that actually change their appearance without knowing it or regretting it. Because the price he or she paid was small, the injury and pain were caused by others, and he did not experience it himself, and he did not know the cause and effect before it happened to him, so he did not regret it. On the contrary, they still think they are capable, useful, smart and complacent!

Precisely because there are these immoral people doing immoral things in life, people are on guard and guard against crime in their interactions, and they no longer trust anyone completely from the bottom of their hearts!

The so-called immoral things include many things, including things that are harmful to nature, things that harm others and benefit oneself, things that create disharmony and disunity, stir up trouble, deceive others, and destroy other people’s families. Disunity, making trouble over nothing, making fun of others, adding insult to injury, crossing rivers and breaking bridges, causing mischief in secret, and even some people saying too much and doing too much, etc., are all immoral things. If you do too many bad things, you will be punished sooner or later. The ancients said: Evil will be rewarded with evil, and good will be rewarded with good. It is not that there will be no reward, the time has not yet come. Laugh in front of others, fall behind others, and fall behind yourself. There is a time for everything, and when the time comes, it will be fulfilled.

An ancient saying goes like this: A house that accumulates good deeds will be blessed, and a house that accumulates bad deeds will be left with disaster. Thousand virtues can carry all things, and the children and grandchildren of a virtuous family will be prosperous, and all of them will be useful. If you don't believe it, just look at it. Most of the children of those who lack kindness will have many twists and turns, everything will not go smoothly, and disasters will emerge one after another. That is to say: in dealing with others throughout your life, you should do less immoral things, do less excessive things, talk less, laugh less at people, respect people more in everything, and accumulate virtue and do good deeds.

The words summed up by the ancients seem to be vivid and vivid, and there must be some truth to them. But now some people tend to get lucky with their words and deeds. Some people look smart but are actually stupid; some people look capable but are actually stupid; some people look nice but are actually full of bad ideas. These are all related to the social atmosphere, as well as one's own social knowledge and common sense, one's own qualities, upbringing, and family tradition. It belongs to the bottom of the character and has a bad character, which is closely related to the lack of good family education and family education.

Let me tell you something about me. My ex was a shameless person. He never came home on time after get off work. There were many women there. I couldn’t move my legs when I saw a woman, especially in If there are two women at the mahjong table, they will say all kinds of dirty things. Since I have been married to him for more than 30 years, the women have changed one after another. If I want to say that he is wrong, he will say that they are seducing him, no. He found someone else. Don’t blame him. You said how shameless such a person is. Once we had a fight and he said that I was a good person when I lifted my pants. You have no evidence. The last time was when I came back from the girl’s house and was at home. We met, and he strangled me and threatened to kill me in order to let the mistress escape. This time I had evidence, and we filed for divorce, and he left the house. This is a shameless man. Shameless people make no mistakes.

Because these people have already lost their morals and are broken and broken. What morals can you talk to them about? Does he still know what shame and regret are? Such people still exist in this society, and maybe they can still enjoy themselves! He formed gangs to achieve ulterior motives! He who can do anything is what people often call a villain! You take it to cook! You really have no choice. He still has an umbrella over his head. Who are you going to complain to? Therefore, whether it is between countries or between societies and individuals, if this social phenomenon is not eliminated, this society will still be difficult to calm down! Why is it said to be difficult to do? Many things require connections and relationships. Without money, you won’t have access! Therefore, scum and villains are born! Hey...society is really a big dyeing vat!

Where does regret come from?

This kind of people have no sense of morality or shame at all, and they never feel that they are wrong.

The things these people do are often attributed to external causes and are justified and taken for granted. Even if someone points it out, they usually do so plausibly and even if they don't make sense, they can also make excuses. It is all caused by other people's inappropriate words and deeds, and you have to do it as a last resort.

This kind of people are often selfish, disowning their relatives, and seeking only profit. There are too many in life, and there are always a few among relatives and friends. Maybe every family has difficult-to-recite sutras because there are people like this. They have no reason to explain and no feelings to recite. But such people often live a good life themselves and don't care what outsiders think and think. They are all self-centered, even if it means hurting others.

We have an old lady here who is just like this. She only cares about herself her whole life. She tells lies with her eyes open and never blushes. She never tells the truth. When she was fifty years old, her husband was so sick that she could not even hope to die. At a glance, she left several children who had not had time to start a family and start a career. Her husband hanged himself at night and waited for his last breath before calling his children. On the third day after his burial, he was busy looking for the old man. The relationship between the several children was also messed up by her. Which child was better off? Wherever she goes, it doesn’t matter what her children think or how she lives. Anyway, as long as she is good, she only needs money, so that all her children look down on her and no one wants to live with her. But she doesn’t care what the children think and lives a contented life. . People often lament that they have been hated by their own children all their lives. They are so strong and invincible inside. How shameless and ignorant do they have to be to do this?

Good and evil will be rewarded in the end. It’s not that they are not repaid because the time has not yet come.

A house that accumulates good deeds will always be blessed, and a house that accumulates bad deeds will always be in trouble.

The sky net is vast, sparse but not lost.

The wise sayings of our ancestors have long been vividly stated. Those who do immoral things will definitely have retribution in the end. He does immoral things because he does not know the cause and effect, and thinks that as long as he is good to himself, it will be fine.

In fact, everyone has good nature and evil nature. Some people understand the goodness of goodness, so they take it to the extreme. Those bad people who are heinous and evil also have good nature, but they do not understand the goodness of goodness. They They have brought the evil in their nature to the extreme. Although they have gained some benefits, these people are ignorant! Because what he did has already deeply laid the root of the disaster!

So I say that being ugly, poor, and old are not scary. What is scary is people with blood debts...

This generation only wants to live up to their conscience and have peace of mind. !

There are people like that in the world who hurt others and still say they have no regrets. It’s really hateful. But that kind of person is still happy because he has not been punished for harming others. Such people only have themselves in mind and never consider the pain of others. He does whatever he wants. I just want to feel what I want. No matter whether others live or die. In the eyes of others, he is a hateful and hateful person. In the heart of a bad person, he thinks he has the ability to hurt others. It's his clever trick. He would feel no regrets then. kill without spilling blood. A smile hides a knife. They are all manifestations of evil people. He can use sweet words to deceive people. That kind of person. There will also be consequences one day. Who will God let go! Who can live a thousand years? Even if you live a long life, there will still be times of pain. Everyone has their own destiny, so don’t be clingy to the bad guys! Everyone lives their own life! A person without conscience will not be moral and will not harm others. He only wants to suffer it! Does he still feel no regrets? If he was a conscientious person, he would not hurt or harm others, which is shameful!

If they knew they regretted it, why would they do bad things? It shows that they are completely justified! No one will think that they are a bad person, because they all feel that they were forced to do this by others. If they want to blame, they can only blame others, and they are innocent.

I often see in "Gold Medal Mediation" among the brothers and sisters who are fighting for real estate, the domineering and unreasonable son or daughter will be eloquent and self-satisfied as soon as they appear on the stage. They always think that as soon as their opinions are expressed, the observer The teachers will support him or her and think that they should monopolize or take more shares. As everyone knows, in the battle for property, you win the property but lose the family relationship... There are also some people who clearly did something that was against morality - cheating in marriage, but they blamed it on being forced by the other party. , this is so funny! You and your spouse have irreconcilable conflicts! You can get divorced! After the divorce, you can find as many as ten or eight as you like, but don't forget that you are still married! No matter what the reason is, it is wrong for you to have an affair in your marriage!

It is obviously not appropriate to use morality to measure whatever you do. Our Chinese nation has thousands of years of history and civilization. At the same time, our country has a vast territory, but the land is very barren, the population is large, and resources are scarce. For thousands of years, the ruling class has fought for resources for many years, and the people have always been in a very difficult situation. In farming life, most people do not have the opportunity to learn. They have not received education since childhood. Since they have not received the education of poems, books, rituals and music, problems will arise if they are passed down from generation to generation. In addition, historically our country has been a patriarchal country, suffering from the ideological persecution of men being superior to women. After liberation, women's rights and interests have been greatly improved, and women are promoted to be half of the sky. However, for most families, there is still a preference for sons over women. Bad ideological habits, which caused many women to suffer various injuries in childhood. Without care and compassion, they have less compassion. In addition, they are not influenced by traditional culture, which leads to many people in our society having no sense of shame. , this is a problem that the entire nation has to face, and it is also a problem of national development. In the past, there was also the issue of the invasion and blockade of China by capitalist countries. From this point of view, it is urgent to popularize excellent traditional cultural education for all people. This is also advocated by the Party Central Committee. Excellent traditional culture must be used to educate the people and let everyone They all understand the values ??of filial piety, loyalty, trust, propriety, justice, integrity and shame. Of course, in society, people also have hierarchies. For example, there are hundreds of thousands of corrupt officials currently serving their sentences in prisons. This shows that it will take a long time to popularize and educate our country’s excellent traditional culture. It is conceivable that there are so many highly educated people. They all violated national laws and went to jail. They deserved it and would not be sympathetic. However, these highly educated people will make mistakes. It is normal for ordinary people to do things that go against their conscience and morality. Therefore, as everyone in society, especially those at the teacher level, we must step up our efforts to learn traditional culture, spread it, and use traditional culture to influence families, workplaces, people around us, and society as a whole. Only in this way can our nation become stronger.

It should be clear when we use equivalence and measurement standards to understand this issue. People have a subconscious sense of equality, and values ??are actually the measurement standards. If people with different values ????are together, for example, a person who thinks that meeting It is reasonable for one person to have a share, and it is reasonable for the other person to think that the seer deserves it. If these two people each insist that their own values ????are correct and the others are wrong, and the one who sees the seer gets what he deserves, the seer has Is there any need to talk about this kind of thing if we want to share the request? There is no need to talk about it. As for the person who has a share, he did not get the share he deserved, so others owed him what he did. What he did to others was revenge and reciprocity, so there was no psychological burden or responsibility. Guilt. As for the seer who deserves it, he only got his deserved share, and as a result suffered unreasonable disasters. He also wanted to take revenge. He did things that were wrong to others in reciprocity, so there was no psychological burden or guilt. , this is the role of values ??in society, so any society has values. As the saying goes, bandits have their own ways, and officials have their own rules. This makes sense.

My child’s father cheated on me many times during their marriage.

The first time I cheated, I took the initiative to confess. The next two times, I refused to admit it! In order to be with San, he started a cold war with me. All kinds of provocations. Trying to force me to file for divorce. Finally, they decided to divorce. He got together with San, who was more than 20 years younger than him. The three of them are all idiots! They are all my brothers’ wives again! Chang took San back to his family of origin and refused to admit to anyone that he had anything to do with Na San!

I never feel like there is anything wrong with me!