Why do some people like chatting?

A few days ago, my friend told me that her husband was chatting with a woman who played mahjong recently. The most irritating thing is that her husband gave the woman a red envelope, and the woman shamelessly basked in the circle of friends and said thank you. My friend was furious when he saw it and slapped her husband.

I told my friend that sometimes you have to forgive your husband for simply chatting. Maybe everyone is just teasing each other and joking. If you magnify things, it won't be good for you and your husband, and it won't hurt that woman anyway. The correct way is to enrich yourself, change your quality and dress, spend more time with your husband when you have time, and don't give him time to play mahjong.

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So, what kind of woman is a woman who often chats?

I think a woman who often chats is definitely unwilling to be lonely, or a woman who just broke up with a man or husband. This kind of women often deal with married men, and chatting is just a means for them to hook up with these men. Maybe these women won't have any purpose for you in the end, but just like to play like this. The more they can play with their feelings, the happier they will be.

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First, loneliness.

When people feel lonely, they will talk to someone. Some time ago, I was unemployed for half a year. To be exact, I was abandoned by life for half a year. At first, I broke up and didn't want to work. Later, because the company laid off employees, it did not perform well some time ago and was laid off. At first, I was a little decadent. I watched American TV series day and night in the rented room, because I still had some savings, so I didn't look for a job immediately. At that time, WeChat didn't exist, and qq was the most widely used one, often searching for heterosexual chats in the city where ex-girlfriends lived.

One day, a girl joined me. Looking at her qq, she seems to be worried about her job. I taught her how to find a job. In fact, she didn't know I was unemployed and thought I was free. In this way, we chatted every day, and she began to complain about the trouble of finding a job. Later, I slowly talked about her family, her school and so on. In the process of guiding her to find a job, I also began to submit resumes. After I have a new job, I have less time to chat during the day. I didn't notice it at first until one day she asked me if I was disgusted with her. I just noticed that we talked for about three months. She told me that in her world, every day besides looking for a job, she just chats with me. Later, when she got a job, we talked less during the day and had plenty of time to chat at night. At first, she asked me if I had a date, and I said no, and she said she didn't either. She asked me many questions about my past experiences, and I answered them all. None of us broke the last layer. We met after she got her first month's salary. She said that she wanted to thank me for helping her. I came to the familiar city again. We are holding hands in the street like lovers. After coming back, she began to let go of the size of chatting with me. We will talk about sex and all kinds of explicit topics. Nobody's embarrassed. Will make a phone call and hear each other's gasps. She will seduce me and cooperate with me. We met again at the hotel. For the first time, she said she was a little scared. She helped me solve it in her own way. Later, we began to appear in the circle as boyfriend and girlfriend. I met my parents according to local etiquette. We talked together for about half a year. Later, because of some unexpected resistance, they broke up peacefully.

Secondly, loneliness, psychological loneliness. I often have a girlfriend, a wife or choose to flirt with the opposite sex or even have sex.

Finally, it is stimulating psychology, which can also be said to be the nature of some people. This is good. Whether talking about friends or getting married, flirting with the opposite sex is not helpful to feelings, and something will happen sooner or later.

In fact, there are many topics about chatting.

Chatting is actually nothing. This is a bad thing, but I don't know what people advocate.

If you want to chat, you must grasp several key points. 1. There is a time period. 2. Separate occasions. 3. What kind of people do you chat with? You should work hard to master your degree. 5. The purpose of chatting. 6. Views and suggestions on your sexual behavior. 7. What do you want? What does it bring to our life? 8. Why are some people good at doodling and some people hate chatting? 9. You should give people a feeling. 10. Control the risk of burns.

Many people in life are not very disgusted with flirting. Many people chat among acquaintances. Others are malicious for chatting, and even try their best to attack others. Or maliciously to obtain some personal desire.

There is a man named Li Erzhuang in our unit, and everyone likes to call him steel gun. Because a lot of things from his mouth are astringent and strange, and even make women laugh and cry, maybe it's a bit embarrassing.

Generally, he is more practical in the morning. Don't talk to women casually. After this lunch, he often brings out its advantages. Xiao Yang, why are the two points on your chest high and low? Lao Jia, I saw your face, you recently. . . Tell me you missed a man's nutrition. Tengteng, how many bullets did your husband think you donated yesterday?

Hey, my wife has been complaining about back pain recently. But that garbage just won't let me sleep at night, which really makes my back ache. Often make these old ladies laugh. He will also take a leisurely step, swallow it slowly and go out.

This man named Steel Gun is also an old hand who takes part in accidental amusement. He often talks to everyone he meets. What to say when. He often finds a little humor in you. I'll make what you say painless. Always make others laugh. He won't stare at others. He often talks nonsense. Sometimes I say things about other people. Ah, things, and then bring your own. This seems to hold the balance of speech. Makes people feel more acceptable.

By his own admission, he is a person who likes chatting. But if he is often not with us, many people will see him right away. Because he will be good at seizing opportunities without losing his wit, sometimes he will take some of his own experiences, sometimes he will reveal some things that happened around him, and with rich imagination, he will have a little color on his hand, just right, and some so-called yellow jokes that people want to say but dare not say in life will pass through his glib mouth.

This steel gun can also be said to be a master of mixed jokes. Because there are still many men and women working here, some of them can talk, and even they are unattainable to each other, but many people are still defeated.

Some people are too explicit, others are too vulgar and dirty. Some people just have a swearing mouth.

Why in our lives? There will be a lot of gossip. Because he is sometimes the spice of life. That is, it is just a manifestation of ordinary people's pleasure in suffering. And everyone will encounter a lot in life, unhappy, unhappy or a lot of complaints. Then we tend to grasp some of the most real things in human nature. Ingeniously exposed in the form of color. Let people accept the common sense of these people. This brings a little interest to our depressed life.

Chatting during work is mostly between colleagues or acquaintances, and there is no conflict of interest or conflict between superiors and subordinates. People often talk and chat with people who really know how to chat, and he will know how to put it away freely. Don't poke people where it hurts to say anything. It is the most shameful and immoral to have fun by hurting others' self-esteem.

Generally speaking, a coquettish person, his inspiration and eloquence, as well as his thinking and insight, are generally superior to ordinary people.

In fact, what you want to spread is a family humor that ordinary people entertain themselves. It's like peeing, but we have to pee. It's important.

Liao Sao said that often more people are not surprised. Just like the duet in Northeast China, some people say that he is a sketch and some people say that he is a joke. Others are good at chatting and shaking hands. Fool like a sketch, and then make people laugh and laugh.

Talking is definitely not a good thing. Actually, it's no big deal if you want to sprinkle it. Yesterday's people are chatting, today's people are chatting, and tomorrow's people will continue chatting.

What kind of situation do you want to brush? The answer is different in everyone's heart. I hope so. We don't take chatting seriously. Maybe you have met it occasionally, but at least you have heard of it. Listen if you like, and avoid if you don't want to. No big deal. Life goes on forever, and it's beautiful. What did you say?/Sorry?

Because I want to solve it, but I dare not go to the appointment, I can only chat online to tease my sister. I used to play and shake on the drift bottle, but now that the drift bottle is closed, I can only shake it. Why not play with people nearby? It's embarrassing because I'm afraid of meeting acquaintances.

First of all, let me talk about what kind of thought "Sister Liao" is, mainly inner loneliness, and then go to find another lonely woman. They don't meet, but enjoy it through video, voice and pictures. This feeling is cool, so some people gradually get used to this feeling and fall in love with Liao Sao.

Secondly, because we all know that many people have to go out to work because of the pressure of life, leaving women to look after their children at home. You know, everyone has secular desires, and sometimes they can't help it, so it is easy to have such a thing as "derailment". The reason is that they are empty and lonely, lacking care and comfort. On the one hand, chatting can be enjoyed, on the other hand, it will make her loved, which is a good help for women.

Finally, I just want to say, don't deliberately do such a thing, or you will really be unable to extricate yourself and harm others and yourself!

thank you

Chatting is when people talk empty talk together in their spare time. Since it is a chat, it is inevitable to talk about men and women. The matter of men and women is an eternal topic, from the emperor down to the people are interested in sex appeal.

Chatting can eliminate people's loneliness, drive away fatigue, cheer up the nerves, relax the spirit and activate the atmosphere. Sometimes people laugh when it comes to wonderful things. Laughter is the best way to relax your nerves.

Chatting is casual and has a wide range of topics. Although you can't quench your thirst, you can also take this opportunity to vent your emotions.

Some people say that people who like to chat are empty, but I don't think so. If people talk seriously about serious work in their spare time, how many serious things can be said and who likes to listen. As long as it is not out of line, chatting is also a way of leisure.

Chatting can actually be understood as flirting between familiar men and women other than lovers and lovers! Chatting basically has preconditions. Stranger men and women basically don't chat, because they are unfamiliar with each other and don't understand each other, so they dare not indulge themselves. Only when they are familiar with each other and know each other, they have a lot of time and opportunities to get along, but they are not couples and lovers. Generally, adult men and women who are more cheerful say that they are trying to kill time or seek strange excitement. In short, one or more men and women talk to each other about some teasing and sensitive gender topics in order to please each other. To put it bluntly, it is the rational flirting between the opposite sex that everyone is familiar with! Why is it called rational flirting? Therefore, no matter how light the topic is, no matter how big the joke is, there must be follow-up actions, otherwise it will be out of line. Of course, chatting in coquettish is also extremely dangerous. After all, men and women are not husband and wife but talk about topics that only husband and wife can talk about, and they are acquaintances. Once you can't grasp the scale, you can't control your inner impulse. It's not impossible to hit the earth with Mars in the fire! Therefore, chatting is ok, but it is also limited to chatting. Don't go too far!

Why do most men nowadays keep chatting and flirting with all kinds of women despite their serious appearance? Is it because of nature or mental disorder?

Sister Liao, to put it another way, she just likes to play ambiguous. This ambiguity is neither shallow nor deep. They maintain a seemingly romantic relationship, but they will not further develop their relationship. I don't think this psychological process is unique to everyone and men. Their appearance also has certain individual psychological characteristics. Of course, this kind of psychology can't reach the level of psychological barrier.

It is worth noting that these men are not always particularly sweet. They mainly rely on chatting for a long time and brushing out the sense of existence to get the attention of girls. When the Woods are big, there will be all kinds of birds, and there will always be a few girls who can rely on him.

What is the psychology of a man who likes coquettish? First of all, he must be bored. If a man is busy with work and family, there is no time for coquetry. This kind of man dare not say that he is obscene, but he must not be a good man. A good man will not keep an affair with you, let alone tease you. They will only keep a proper distance from you.

So is this a nature? Men love women, of course, is a kind of nature, many men are influenced by androgen secretion in the body, and naturally have the impulse and hobby to seek sexual partners. From the animal level, men win the favor of more women and can show their infinite charm, which is also the common feature of the animal kingdom. Therefore, although most men are serious in appearance, they are always looking for all kinds of women to chat and flirt.

Lack of self-identity is not only a simple lack of self-confidence, but also means that psychological needs such as emotion, self-satisfaction and sense of accomplishment will be affected to varying degrees. It can be said that they are in a state of chaos and don't know their own positioning and needs, so they will continue to seek this process.

Women who have a bad relationship and quarrel with their boyfriends are their most willing targets, because they can provide what these women urgently need but can't get: warm comfort and unconditional praise.

Don't ask if there is true love in chatting. True love only happens in love. Chatting is nonsense, never from the heart! Chatting in coquettish is not attracted by love. Women should never feel that their vanity has been satisfied and that someone cares about you because a man chats with you. He doesn't care about you, but it happens to be you, because only you accepted his chat. You are just one of countless spare tires. Who told you to start at once? !

In fact, there are many people in real life who are serious and have a turbulent heart hidden in their hearts. First of all, people who like "chatting" between men and women are mostly cheerful. Looks approachable and easy to get along with. Wide circle of communication and many friends of the opposite sex. These people are happy every day. Why do these people sometimes like to be accosted by the opposite sex? Are you really not afraid of being misunderstood by others or your family? There are several reasons. Let's try to analyze them.

1, cheerful and lively with a little "color". These people, whether male or female, have one thing in common, that is, they seem to be born with good temper. I am also good at finding topics to chat with, and I can always easily find * * * to talk about my favorite topics. At the same time, it is particularly easy to "get acquainted" in the process of interacting with people. Unconsciously, I am closer to you. After a long time, the opposite sex will become familiar. Then, in some chats, it is easy to unconsciously talk about some topics that are not suitable for children. As long as the two sides have a good proper limit in the process of chatting, they will not cause some discomfort to each other. On the contrary, you will feel more excited when you speak.

2. Decompress yourself. Due to the pressure of life and work. Sometimes I feel irritable. Both men and women need a relaxed topic to ease their feelings. At this time, we will talk about some more "emotional" topics, which will make us feel much more relaxed and happy. At least everyone can speak freely in this respect, without psychological burden.

We say that work is tiring and life is bitter. While working hard for three meals a day, try to find something interesting to do and reduce stress. Make yourself happy.

My egoism: "Chatting means that the opposite sex sometimes informally chats some lemon jokes." In fact, chatting is not necessarily a bad style, nor is it suitable for a person. According to the situation:

Both sides know that they are married, and there is no ulterior motive. Just because we are familiar with each other, and then we are cheerful and love to joke, so we don't have so much scruples about communicating with each other. In fact, this is not difficult to understand. All married people. You know everything you need to know. Why do you pretend to be a serious big-tailed wolf?

Chatting is putting everything you know on the table. Forget it. Who will take it seriously? For example, I am a creator in the emotional field, and sometimes I talk to creators in the same field about some writers with bold writing techniques. They look coquettish, but in fact they are open-minded. In my opinion, it's normal.

Divided into two situations. One is single, has no object in reality, and is too depressed in reality because of relative hunger and thirst, so he/she seeks prey on the internet where no one knows him and releases his depressed psychology.

Another situation is that you are married, but you are not nourished by love after marriage, especially his/her special needs are not met, which leads to emptiness, desolation and hunger. So he/she just wants to talk to someone, but in fact he/she won't go far. It's just a way to get rid of loneliness. Saying and doing are actually two different things.

There is also a kind of chat, which is similar to getting together with "people nearby" He/she flirts because he/she is tempted! He/she concentrates your attention, keeps your appetite, and then achieves his/her indescribable purpose.

Chatting is normal, and chatting is not scum. It's good to have a thief's heart and no thief's guts. Don't hit me with bamboo! hahaha ......

No one deliberately talks about this topic! Unless he has no women or rarely sees women, in fact, everyone has secular desires, and his character has two sides. The so-called man is a bad person, and it cannot be said that the man is a bad person. The need for reconciliation between men and women is the same as that of yin and yang. Otherwise, how can there be a saying that men and women are not tired of cooperation? People not only have physical needs, but also psychological needs. Only some people can't control themselves, so some people commit crimes. Actually, chatting is not chatting. To put it mildly, it is called finding a confidante.