"Empty nesters" caused a heated discussion. Why do more and more young people choose to live alone?

Why did you choose to live alone? First of all, I don't think this is something that needs a reason.

It's strange that everything has to have a reason.

Since I asked, let's talk about my subjective feelings!

First, people who have jobs and mortgage pressures have no energy at all.

Yes, in order to let everyone participate in social construction, the society has to raise housing prices and prices, and then let people participate in social construction through loans and debt collection, so that you can make more efforts for the society. I have paid my mortgage for ten years, but I haven't paid it back for fifteen years now.

The same is true of workers. The boss tries his best to squeeze your strength, and then comes home from work without energy and doesn't want to talk to anyone. It's especially good to be alone quietly for a while.

Second, parents don't understand, and there are always endless questions.

Parents have good intentions, but the direction always deviates. For example, sometimes, children want to have a quiet rest, but parents always ask if their work is not smooth! Did you have a fight with someone? Actually, I'm just tired. I can't smile like a fool every day.

But if you don't smile when you go home, your parents will think you have something outside and ask endlessly. And parents will be curious, you have no wife and children to raise, where is the pressure? How can they understand invisible pressure, a pressure enough to murder an adult?

Third, thinking needs to be alone, and we just need to be alone.

Yes, that's who I am. I understand my parents very well. I think they always ask questions around me, all for my own good. But some things are not well-intentioned, so tolerate me pointing in the wrong direction, but parents will never understand why a person likes to be alone and it is not good to chat with his family!

However, the pressure faced by contemporary young people is beyond parents' understanding. In their eyes, what pressure can there be with food and clothing? In fact, it is very simple, just like the older generation of parents never feel embarrassed about their children's psychological construction, because they simply don't know what kind of psychological construction their children need.

As it is now, I need to be alone, but my parents will be curious. Why do you need to be alone? Not only is he curious, but he always asks.