Parents always say "suffering is a blessing". Do you agree with this view?

I agree with this point of view, suffering is a blessing, and only by eating suffering can you be a master.

As the saying goes, "read and farm, get up early and go to bed late." He also said: "books should be studious, and fields should be studious." That's good. Studying hard, farming hard and working hard also require a spirit of hard work.

First of all, we must be "willing to suffer." I call it "asking for trouble". I talked to my daughter on the phone about the reason why I "asked for trouble". My daughter said, Lao Tzu said, "The road is bumpy, but the people have a good road", and suffering is the "road". Suffering means studying hard, working hard, not taking shortcuts, and not being "smart." In fact, everyone understands this truth. Only by giving can you get a reward. However, some people just refuse to suffer this hardship and suffer this fatigue. They play games and chess online all day, and some even spend their working hours brushing frequency, chasing dramas and "lying down". What's more, they are opportunistic, trying to convince right and wrong by any means, trying to trample on others to show their "beauty in the forest", and at the same time expecting fruitful results in work, study and scientific research, always thinking of getting something for nothing. How is that possible? My daughter also told me one of her favorite English words, pain and commitment. Suffering is pain and suffering, taking is harvesting and harvesting, and the whole calligraphy and painting means suffering. In other words, success is bought with pain, which is equivalent to what we often say, "Difficulties and hardships make you successful." Indeed, success requires hard and unremitting efforts. People who are afraid of hardship have suffered all their lives because of the word "fear". Therefore, the difficulty of suffering lies in the word "Ken", just as "history books say that it is difficult to know and difficult to do; It is difficult to do it, and it is difficult at the end. " And those who "ask for it" are consciously looking for the road to success, or at least embarking on a good climbing road.

The second is "will suffer." I call it "taking pains". I used to work in Beijing Daily for a while. When I go to the typesetting workshop at ten o'clock every morning, I can see the editor-in-chief of Beijing Evening News sitting in front of the computer, making headlines for the evening paper one by one, every day. As an editor-in-chief, going to the workshop to make headlines every day is not a "pleasure in suffering"? I think so, too. Look behind him, there is a big circle of editorial reporters, carrying all kinds of suggestions. He sat there, "choose the good and follow it", and the boss mingled with the editors and reporters, enjoying it warmly. Later, I worked as the director of several departments in a newspaper and the deputy editor-in-chief of a sub-newspaper. I often go to the typesetting room to revise the version with the editor. I also know that in my personal eyes, this is a "chore" of "taking over" and "asking for trouble", but I can personally experience the satisfaction and happiness of the boss of Beijing Evening News. Of course, the purpose of suffering hardships is not to suffer hardships, but to realize one's goals and ideals. First, suffering is for long-term skills. As the saying goes, "Art is one foot high, and Tao is one foot high." He also said: "If you want someone to say a good word, you will always suffer." You want to be excellent, you want to be strong, you want to be better than others, you have to bear more pain, pay more and bear more blows and pressures than others. When chatting with colleagues in the editorial department, I said that "soft power" and "hard power" are often used in international relations, and later I put forward "smart power". In fact, the so-called "clever strength" is "stupid kung fu". No matter writing an article or making a layout, it is impossible to do it well without "stupid kung fu". The Doctrine of the Mean is in place: "If a person can do it, he will do it; People can do it in ten ways and thousands of ways. If you can do this, you will know if you are stupid, but if you are soft, you will be strong. " Second, suffering is the quality of tempering will. As the saying goes, "strength is great, courage is great." I have all these personal experiences. Born in the countryside, he began to carry water and water flowers when he was eleven or twelve years old. The transition period from carrying half a bucket of water, half a bucket of water to the whole bucket of water will not take a year or two. The so-called "infinite strength". When I was a teenager, I used my holiday to mow grass and firewood, and I wandered home on rainy nights, and the leaves of crops in the field rustled, which was creepy; When a "naked corpse monster" (owl) makes a strange cry in the cold wind, or some wild animals howl, you will really be scared out of your wits! But gradually you will get used to it, and you can face it calmly. It's called "awesome courage" Mencius said: "Heaven will be a great task to the people of Sri Lanka, and they must first suffer from their minds, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and skin, and mess with their actions. Therefore, patience has benefited them a lot. " The so-called "perseverance" means that no matter what kind of suffering your heart suffers, you must eat it, swallow it into your stomach and engrave it in your heart; The so-called "Ceng Yi can't do it", that is, even suffering can be eaten, so there is nothing to stand! In other words, people who have been suffering have great energy. It is often said that there are many fine crafts. Suffering is the best lesson and training for life, and suffering is the highest teacher in life. When I say "will endure hardships", I mean that people with ideals and ambitions will inevitably suffer hardships when they advance along their planned directions and goals. However, they all know in their hearts that they like to do things, and they don't feel bitter or tired. The ancients said, "Never tire of hearing it." As the saying goes, "Happiness in suffering is true happiness." Isn't it "fun" for a person to eat whatever he wants?