Love is tolerant rather than indulgent love talk

Without whose city, it becomes a ruin; without whose oasis, it becomes a desert; without whose night, it becomes a lonely self? The weeping meteor slides across the long night, for whom does it disappear in an instant? The persistent match falls in love with cigarettes, so what if it disappears into ashes?

Remind yourself every day, don’t forget your ideals, don’t forget your goals; remind yourself every day, don’t forget to study, don’t forget to read; remind yourself every day, don’t forget tolerance, don’t forget kindness; remind yourself every day, don’t forget your body , don’t forget to exercise; remind yourself every day, don’t forget beauty, don’t forget happiness; remind yourself every day, don’t forget your parents, and don’t forget your relatives. .

Before being a lover, she should be a friend first. After she becomes your friend and appears in your life, she will be able to get to know you, understand you, know your strengths, and become fond of you, further develop feelings for you, and become a lover or object. The colors in the world are not just white and black. There is also a long gray area between black and white. As long as you get along with each other more, you will be able to discover the other person's strengths and develop a good impression. This is the natural process of developing relationships

Being with the wrong person is like wearing a pair of shoes that don't fit your feet. No matter how beautiful the shoes are, , the one who ends up hurting himself is himself.

Life often plays tricks on us. What you expect will be further away from you; whoever you cling to will be hurt the most. Therefore, you don’t have to expect too much when doing things, and you don’t have to be too persistent when persisting; you must learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations, and let go of fruitless attachments. Therefore, you should take everything lightly, be open-minded, and see through. Everything is lost and nothing can be retained, only the joy and happiness of the moment.

When you really fall in love with someone, you will have a very warm feeling. He makes you feel very comfortable, and you can trust him and rely on him. He is like a close family member, even closer than a family member. This is intimacy plus a warm feeling, a feeling of darling. In this kingdom of love, he will not pick on your flaws because he is willing to tolerate all your flaws.

The weather is getting colder and colder. Maybe you are enjoying the winter in the heated room, but there is a family without any heating equipment. The whole family spends the winter like this. There are three people in the family, and only one The father works and has chronic diseases such as stomach problems and high blood pressure. The girl has cerebral palsy and cannot take care of herself. She has been paralyzed in bed for a long time. The child is still in junior high school. The mother of the child died of liver cancer. I hope winter will pass soon and it won’t be too cold. Hold on, winter will be over

Don’t make too many promises to me. Promises that cannot be fulfilled will become lies. Lies cannot support a solid foundation of love. Don’t give me too much. When one day you find out that I If I can’t become your life background, you will be disappointed, lost and unbalanced; don’t hurt me too much, even if I am your passer-by after all, even if we become the most familiar strangers, because the memories that belong to two people are mine. People can't bear it.

When we work hard, pursue, and move forward hard in the journey of life, constantly losing after gaining, and gaining through losing, please remember to give yourself a strong voice, a confident smile, and be brave. Stand up and continue to move forward fearlessly, believing that the sun is always after the storm.

Fate, whether you believe it or not! In short, sometimes you have to obey its mercy. Maybe God has arranged the person who loves you and the person you love. Maybe you have pursued it passionately, but what can you do about the person who does not belong to you? It just adds some scarred memories.

When you encounter something, if you like it, then enjoy it; if you don’t like it, then avoid it; if you can’t avoid it, then change it; if you can’t change it, then accept it; if you can’t accept it, then deal with it. If it's too hard to handle, then let it go. In fact, the most difficult thing for people is to "let go". Let it go and feel relieved.

What I want to say is: As long as we truly love each other, even if it is only for one day or one hour, we should never have to break up again. Maybe you won't love me in the future, maybe you will leave me, but I will always be responsible for you, that is, all your suffering will always be mine. I feel that I have fallen in love with you. From now on, I can never be indifferent to you at any time.

When a person loves another person, he should fall in love with his characteristics, not because he meets certain standards.

Those who use a standard form to choose a partner are not people who really know how to love, or even how to live. Because they are too realistic and only see superficial conditions and ignore spiritual factors.

When we are in happiness, people always feel that time flies by quickly, but if we are in painful emotions, we are like being abandoned by time and embarking on the revolving staircase that goes back in time.

Sometimes it’s not that I don’t understand, but I just don’t want to understand; sometimes it’s not that I don’t know, but I just don’t want to say it; sometimes it’s not that I don’t understand, but that I can’t do anything about it. Some words are suitable to be hidden in the heart; some pain is suitable to be forgotten silently; some memories are only suitable to be recalled occasionally. There are many things that you just have to know once you have experienced them; there are many changes that don’t need to be said, you just have to understand them yourself.

Love is tolerance, not indulgence. Love is care, not pampering. Love is mutual integration, not unrequited love. Love is a variety of flavors, not all sweetness. True love is free giving, willing help, and the induction of each other's hearts. .

Sometimes I still feel sad when I think of those lovers who have left. But if I think about it carefully, the reason for separation is always not because of the other party. Both parties are responsible, and both are playing the role of harm and harm. The injured character. Whether it is same-sex or opposite-sex love, the only thing that cannot pass in the end is one's own hurdle.

If you miss something, you will miss it forever. People will change. You can keep an unchanging promise, but you can't keep a fickle heart. Sometimes, persistence is a burden and giving up is a relief. No one is perfect, and no one is 100% happy. If you know that you don’t have the ability to have so much at once, why bother asking for so much.

Even if you are friendly, some people may say that you are selfish and have bad motives. However, you still have to be kind. What you have built over the years and someone destroys it overnight, you have to build it anyway. Even if you give your best to the world, it may never be enough. No matter what, you still have to give your best to the world.

Life is an experience and an experience; life is a feeling and an accumulation. Life has no answers, life does not need answers. When life is about to no longer belong to you, you will realize that life is just a process, and no matter how complicated the process is, the final outcome is the same. Life focuses on the process, not the ending. Tolerance + Care = Love

1. We know that if you like a rose, you must tolerate its thorns and not just get its beauty. If you love someone, you will tolerate her shortcomings and not only want her good things. Emotions are always closely related to forgiveness and care. How deep the love is, how many times there will be tolerance.

2. A person can forgive you, not because he is very generous, but because he is reluctant to let go; a person can accommodate your temper, not because he is too tolerant, but because he cares about you. . A person can tolerate your nonsense, not because he has no bottom line, but because he is willing to compromise with you.

3. Many times, a person chooses to be considerate and tolerant to the other person, not because his heart is too soft, nor because of his cowardly character, but because he does not want to lose the other person and cannot bear to see the other person sad. So learn to give in and forgive. Because he understands that conflicts must be resolved by someone first.

4. Don’t give in when you love someone, but you will give in when you fall in love with someone. It's easy to forgive once, but it's hard to forgive all your life.

5. When you truly love someone, you want to hold them no matter how hot they are, hold them no matter how hard they are, protect them no matter how bad they are, and remember them no matter how much you quarrel. Even if there is a bottom line, it will be revised again and again. Even if he makes you sad, you will make excuses for him and let him go again and again. The reason is simple: you love, you love, and you cherish.

6. There is only one human heart, so don’t cut it with indifference; happiness is in short supply, so please don’t squander it wantonly. There are really not many people who cherish the people in front of you and treat you sincerely. There is only one person who can accompany you until the end! Worrying talk about love, tolerance + caring = love

1. You are the person I love most. No matter how you think of me, you are the person I will never forget in my life. Beloved.

2. Tolerance may not be all-inclusive, caring may not be heart-to-heart, and love may not lead to a long life together, so this formula may not be established.

3. To be a husband and wife, you must tolerate each other. Care about each other and have the same language. This will last long.

4. If you love someone, she will be forgiven no matter how big her mistakes are.

5. I feel so painful in my heart. No one is happy with me. I miss him in my heart and in my mind. This is my pain.

6. Don’t envy others, live your own life, and avoid envy and hatred.

7. In this life, there are too many things that a person cannot control. Some things and some people are hard to come by, right?

8. When you are sick or lonely, I give you warmth. Looking back, you have survived it all by yourself. You will understand that only loving yourself is the best sense of security!

9. We separated today and I cried because I really love you and I really can’t let you go. However, I don’t want to embarrass you or force you anymore. I know there will be no result between us. , I choose to be sad alone.

10. My dear, please remember that you will always have a place in my heart, and there will always be a place for you in my home. Remember, you must eat well and sleep well when I am not around. Don’t let me worry about you too much, you said You feel sorry for me and you cry, but I want to tell you that I don't blame you, nor do I hate you. I am willing to do anything for you. I am willing to love you.

11. I will definitely find you in my next life, stay with you for the rest of my life, and never separate from you again

12. In fact, it’s not a big deal to live alone. Enthusiasm is only exchanged for ruthlessness. If we really can't be together, then why should I wrong my heart? Just forget about him.

13. The person I loved the most finally gave up on me without looking back. Today, I mustered up the courage to face it, decided not to wrong myself anymore, and find someone to live with who loves me more

14. I can only wait in those places where she may appear, it has already passed It was the time when she got home from get off work, but I still waited and waited. If it weren't for some reasons at work, I would have waited again. I was willing to wait without any grievances.

15. Don’t wrong yourself. It’s not that you don’t love anymore, but that you don’t want to compromise for anything anymore, because life is too long. I don’t want to waste the rest of my life. The remaining time is just for you. To those who care and love you!

16. Don’t wrong yourself. It’s not that you don’t love anymore, but that you don’t want to compromise for anything anymore, because life is too long. I don’t want to waste the rest of my life. The remaining time is just for you. To those who care and love you!

17. What is love? It can be romantic, but marriage needs to be repeated for years in oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, pots and pans.

18. Time did not give her good feelings, but they gradually went further and further away! I wish that those who love hard would also love hard. And in the days to come, take your children towards happiness together!

19. I am more and more afraid of this late night loneliness, and I am relieved! Please be gentle in the future.

20. The fate of fate, the struggle of years, there are too many things in life that you cannot help yourself. When many helplessness are placed in front of you, you can only lower your head and pick up the cigarette in your hand. , pick up the dull bitter wine, swallow the most hurtful pain in life, and welcome tomorrow's sunrise and sunset. Love story: In love, what I want is to be important, not to be needed

1. Those who fly alone will have the strongest wings.

2. Don’t be afraid of the endless truth, but you will be happy every inch you advance.

3. You are in the arms of a beauty, and I am in my bed. This is the difference.

4. Even if life is a tragedy, we must act out the tragedy vividly and not lose the magnificence and comfort of the tragedy; even if life is a dream, we must live this dream with flavor and not Lost the passion and fun of dreams.

5. In love, what I want is to be important, not to be needed.

6. If you want to lose weight, go to lose weight, if you want to gain muscle, go to bodybuilding, if you want to get into Peking University and Tsinghua University, study hard, and if you want her, go after her.

Fat will not fly away by itself and muscles will not grow in vain, knowledge will not be transmitted to your brain via Bluetooth, and the person you like will not fall in love with you for no reason. Spending time not in reality but in fantasy is equivalent to sitting still and waiting for death.

7. I like moderate loneliness. I am always reluctant to share the most spiritually free moment with others. In fact, it is difficult to share this absolute personal treasure. Even Jose voluntarily stayed at home. Watching TV, I feel a little bit happy in my heart. The breeze and the bright moon should be a one-person affair, but eating is more delicious when there are more people.

8. It turns out that children who are involved with words are never happy. Their happiness is like playful children, wandering to the sky, wandering to the sky but refusing to come back

9. Some memories, when remembered, are warm; some beautiful things, when seen, are like scenery; some pains, when let go, are relieved; some tangles, if you think about it, you can feel comfortable; some things, if you devote yourself to them, are complete; some Forgiveness for mistakes means being open-minded; for some troubles, if you look down on them, there will be no sadness; for some rights and wrongs, if you don't care about them, they will not be burdened on your heart; for some trivial matters, relief will mean you are relaxed!

10. Every time you risk everything and choose to believe in someone, you are actually betting on your own trust. If you really lose the bet, you will actually feel the most uncomfortable. The reason why you feel that you will die badly is actually because of your kind heart.

11. There are already many people and things in this world that will disappoint you, and the last thing you should do is to disappoint yourself.

12. Time is the best remedy. No matter what kind of memory you have, time will dry up the tears in your memories.

13. The more gorgeous something is, the easier it is to be destroyed and disappear.

14. I would rather be alone than go against my will. I would rather have regrets than give in. Whoever can enter my heart, I treat as a king. I don’t bother to deal with people who don’t like me. No matter how tempting life may be, I am determined like this.

15. Think of a person, a voice. Just waiting for the next life to express my love.

16. The process of polishing oneself is painful, but in the end it can create a better self.

17. We are very intentional about helping others, but in fact, our thoughts have already interfered with others. If you are kind to others, they will be under a lot of pressure.

18. Learn to maintain a certain degree of loneliness in the crowd, and don’t tell others immediately if you have any ideas. Also, never take what others say too seriously. You can't expect too much from others, either morally or ideologically. You should develop an attitude of indifference and indifference to other people's opinions, because this is the most practical means of cultivating praiseworthy tolerance.

19. The most beautiful promise is not that I love you, but that I will always love you.

20. You yourself think that this thing is done with great success and without any desire, but in the eyes of the other party, it is just an unreasonable storm, and they are looking forward to it speeding up. past.

21. Depending on what kind of person you are, you will determine what kind of songs you hear, what kind of articles you read, what kind of words you write, and what kind of people you meet.

22. When people are in contact with each other, what they can tell is only a partial story and one or two human feelings. What can be said is not the deepest loneliness.

23. What is easy to get will never be cherished by you. It is too easy for you to obey a person's words, and you try your best to do everything he wants, then you will not be a challenge in his eyes, and he will naturally not cherish you. Sometimes your worth is determined by yourself. A man will always prefer the one that is more difficult for him to get between two women of equal quality. It takes no effort to get it, and this applies equally to love.

24. There are many roads to choose in life. If you choose one and go down, you will meet the people and scenery on this road; if you choose another road, you will encounter completely different scenery and people. Some people may walk with you, while others may stay where they are; those who walk together may also separate from you at the next intersection. There is nothing to lament. This is the inevitable outcome of life. Cherish the people around you who watch the scenery with you, and wave your hands freely and vigorously at the next intersection.

25. Ability determines what you can do. Motivation determines what you do.

Attitude determines what you will do.

26. If you have great talent, pursue big dreams; if you feel that your abilities are limited and your talent is not enough to support your ambition, then calm down and plunge into small failures and setbacks If you can't become a leopard, it would be good to become a beautiful and noble sika deer, at least everyone will love you.

27. You cannot ask for a storm-free ocean of life, because pain and suffering are part of life. An ocean without storms is not a sea, it is a muddy pond.

28. It is better to get hurt for love than to make do with memories.

29. I’m really surprised. When I signed my signature, I didn’t use any curse words and I wasn’t cynical. How can you say that I violated the rules? I broke the rules?

30. Human life is neither as good nor as bad as imagined. Behind everyone there will be bitterness and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone will have their own tears to wipe away and their own path to walk. As long as you remember, add a coat to yourself when you are cold; buy yourself a piece of bread when you are hungry; give yourself a strength when you are in pain; give yourself a goal when you fail, get up in pain when you fall, and give yourself a tolerant smile to continue. Move forward and be your truest self.

31. All hypocrisy in the world is like passing clouds, and only truth is the basis for dealing with things in the world. The darkness of hypocrisy will be destroyed by the light of truth.

32. Forgiving others’ mistakes is not necessarily a virtue. Ignoring one's own mistakes is the most irresponsible release. Excessive self-interest is selfishness. To abandon yourself completely is to abuse yourself as a living being.