1. Combined with the chapter "Xia Wenxiao", tell me why Confucius didn't ask me to be slaughtered for three years. 2. Why did Confucius severely accuse me of being heartless?

The butcher asked me, "Three years of mourning is a long time. If a gentleman is not polite for three years, the courtesy will be bad; If you don't have fun for three years, have fun. The old valley has gone, the new valley is rising, and the time has passed. " Confucius said, "Are you rich in food and clothes?" Say, "Ann." "Ruan for it. Husband and wife are in mourning and don't want to eat, listen to music and live, so they don't do it. Now that you are safe, do it. " When he slaughtered me, Confucius said, "It is unkind to do it. The child was born for three years, and then he was separated from his parents. To lose a husband for three years is to lose the whole world. Have you loved your parents for three years? "

This is very clear. Confucius suggested that the mourning period should be three years, and Zai Yu retorted, "Three years is already a long time. If a gentleman is not polite for three years, the courtesy will be bad; If you are not happy for three years, you will be happy. " (The Analects of Confucius, Yang Huo) Zaiyu used the spear of the son to attack the shield of the son, pointing out that "three years of mourning" was enough to make "ceremony" and "music" collapse. Confucius couldn't find a proper reason, and said bitterly, "It's unkind to do it."