Do you have any experience of hiding private money?

I'm a woman. After I got married, I really didn't save any money. I used all the money I earned before to decorate the wedding room, and then my monthly salary was used to help pay off the loan. Later, after I had a baby, I resigned and took care of the children at home. Without income, I had no money. After so many years, now that my children are older, I have my own time. I can write articles online to earn pocket money.

at the beginning, I spent all the money I earned, and the expenses at home were basically spent on me. Later, my husband thought he had spare money, so he took the money to deposit online loans or buy stocks, and then most of the money was lost. So I'm very angry. I worked hard to get a job at home, but you're wasting it. When I lose my income, I'm not drinking northwest wind. It made me feel that I had to save my own money. Once, I asked my husband for money to buy food, but he whined about why I asked him for money. Later, he asked him for money several times, but he was reluctant. Then I realized that I was so stupid that I didn't even have the confidence to speak when I had no money, so now I won't take out all my income and stick it to my family. I will save half of it for my private savings.

Tell the story around me

1. My sister has always been in the habit of saving private money, because her husband spends a lot of money, and even spends the money in his credit card. My sister earns more than 6, yuan a month, so she saves 2, yuan in my mother's place, which is her private money. Then for so many years, she has saved some private money and asked my mother to help her manage her finances.

2. My husband also hid private money when he was young. Originally, we didn't know it. Recently, my husband was short of money. When he learned it, he offered to lend him money, saying that he had saved private money for so many years, but his wife didn't know it. Let my husband borrow it at ease and don't worry about paying it back. But I don't agree with my husband to borrow money. Although we are short of money, we won't borrow money from others' private rooms, and even the best girlfriends in the past are still small. Once money is involved, there will definitely be minor contradictions.

My friend lent her personal money to her best friend, and people decided that it was personal money, so they didn't want to pay it back. After borrowing thousands of dollars for two years, they never paid back a penny, feeling that the money was a gift to her. Now the relationship between the two people is slowly fading, and it is not as good as before.

3. My fellow villager and her husband live in AA system, so there is no need to save private money specially. Her salary is quite high. Now she has bought a house for rent, and her life is better than that of many full-time mothers.

So, as a woman, I think I'd better save some money, at least when men can't rely on it in the future.