What is the biggest influence left by your predecessor?

The biggest influence of my predecessor is to let me know that sometimes what attracts you most may be what you need to stay away from most.

As a girl who grew up under the traditional education in China, my first sex teacher was my ex-boyfriend (first love). I was puzzled by some physiological reactions of close contact in communication, and then, as always, I played a domineering role in learning and began to catch up on my knowledge. I have re-recognized my body from a sexual point of view, learned about the use of condoms, the basic knowledge of several contraceptives, the use of pregnancy test sticks, and the operation and harm of several abortions. But my knowledge only stayed at the theoretical level, and we broke up before putting it into practice. I can't get over the reality, but I know what I have learned in love will benefit me for life.

The first thing I learned: I found that I also deserve to be loved. It turns out that someone can love me to this extent. As the green child in Norwegian Wood said, "A love that can make me feel full until I say' Thank you for your hospitality'."

The second thing I learned: It turns out that love alone is not enough.

However, I really feel that I have been loved once in my life and will be free in the future. I've got what I've been longing for, I'll never regret it again, and I can really start looking for what suits me. Thank him very much.