The more a person looks down on you, the more he will have these three behaviors

In life, we always meet all kinds of people. In order to leave a good impression on others, we are accustomed to being enthusiastic towards everyone, expecting to be rewarded with frankness and sincerity with sincerity.

But the fact is that for some people, no matter how good you are, no matter how nice you are to them, they will either pretend not to see you, or they will find fault with others and act like they are superior to others.

In fact, such a person is not necessarily more capable than you, nor does he have a cold personality. I just look down on you from the bottom of my heart. In interpersonal communication, if the other person has these words and deeds towards you, it will clearly show his disdain for you.

At this time, you don’t have to blame yourself, and you don’t have to think of ways to please the other person. The best response to someone who looks down on you from the bottom of your heart is to ignore it, and then keep silent. To overtake the other side and live out your own wonderful life.

01

People who look down on you will make things difficult for you everywhere.

My colleague Xiaofang is very strict in her work and has outstanding achievements. She should have been reused, but she was repeatedly delayed because she was looked down upon by her boss and faced difficulties in every aspect.

Xiaofang’s boss is very jealous, but his professional ability is very poor. He relies on his beauty to get to the position of department head. Over the years, with the changes in senior management, the assessment of employees has also undergone great changes.

Just being coquettish and cute has become a thing of the past. What the company needs is people who are down-to-earth and capable of doing things.

Xiaofang’s down-to-earth attitude and hard work are in sharp contrast to her boss’s push and pull. The more Xiaofang was praised by everyone, the more Xiaofang's boss felt it was a slap in the face.

Therefore, embarrassing Xiaofang at every turn has become a way for her to increase her sense of presence.

The reason why she looks down on Xiaofang is because Xiaofang never shows flattery. Even if Xiaofang, as a single mother, often works overtime and cannot take care of her family, she will not use this as an excuse. And delay work. Xiaofang did everything to perfection, leaving her boss with no reason to "kill the chicken to scare the monkey".

Therefore, all the work was done by Xiaofang, and all the credit and hard work were received by Xiaofang’s boss.

Xiaofang knew this well, but she acted calmly. Over the years, she has become a business expert under the strict supervision of her boss. She is also working with several companies. Larger companies stay in touch and prepare to jump ship.

02

People who look down on you are warm to everyone but treat you coldly.

I believe many people have had this experience. When they saw other colleagues gathered together and chatting enthusiastically about something, they rushed over without thinking and asked innocently: "What are you talking about?" As a result, everyone immediately put away their smiling faces and dispersed.

Maybe you will feel that you are a very disappointing person.

Not really. Because the situation you stirred up was most likely initiated by someone who looked down on you from the bottom of his heart. If you know in advance who is leading a nonsense conversation, you will definitely not risk being a "spoiler".

For example, among people who work in the same place, some people greet everyone warmly, but as soon as they see you, they immediately put on a cold face and pretend not to notice. Even if you take the initiative to say hello and the other person responds lukewarmly, it is obvious that he looks down on you.

There is no need for a special reason to look down on someone. It seems that they just don’t like you.

In fact, people who look down on you are often not on the same level as you. Your erudition and knowledge reflect his ignorance; your elegance and calmness reflect his vulgarity; your high moral integrity reflect his retribution. Your existence is his most vivid reference point. Your superiority and inferiority are self-evident.

Whenever a person is extremely cold to you, but remains polite and enthusiastic to everyone except you, you should remind yourself not to become like the other person.

03

People who look down on you will not hesitate to make you look embarrassed in public.

It is obvious that you are reporting to your boss, but in the eyes of someone who looks down on you, he can push in the door and forcefully interrupt your conversation with your boss, and you have to listen to his report first.

I know clearly that you are the worst drinker, but at the dinner party, I deliberately made trouble so that you had to pick up the glass and drink it all in one gulp, just to make excuses for your cowardice.

You are obviously very successful in a certain business, but you deliberately take all the credit and regard it as his credit, and keep calling you by name and making all kinds of malicious jokes. Even abusive.

People who look down on you will really treat you as a "thorn in their side" and compete with you everywhere.

In the final analysis, on the one hand it is jealousy, on the other hand it is shame. But in order to look good, even if you are quick to talk, you still feel that you are one step ahead.

Vicious words and naked disgust may not be completely expressed in front of others, but behind others, they wish they could exclude the other party with words and eyes.

When facing those who look down upon you, you must not try to make them look down upon you.

Even if you reach new levels one after another, their prejudices have already penetrated deep into your bones.

Instead of spending time and energy competing with it, it is better to find ways to constantly surpass your past self. When you become successful, maybe you will thank them for looking down on them in the past, so that you can become such a powerful person now.

Author: As light as the wind and as light as the clouds.

Your happiness is my blessing.

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