What is the hidden truth of being a man in the old saying that "the mother's family is fragrant and the husband's family is long"?

There is an old saying? The fragrance of mother's family meal is longer than that of husband's family meal? Although this sentence is only 10, it contains a woman's psychological changes before and after marriage and her life. But a philosophical sentence may be difficult for unmarried girls to understand. For those married girls, I can deeply understand the meaning of this sentence.

First, the family's Taoxiang For every girl, she grew up in the family, but eventually she died in her husband's family. When I was at my mother's house, I could ask my family whether they were talking or eating according to my personality and personal preference.

Every time I go back to my mother's house for dinner after marriage, I feel very warm. This is not to say that I am unhappy in my husband's family, but to make myself more free at home. After returning to my mother's house, my mother will cook according to my favorite taste and often buy my favorite food exclusively.

In addition to this, it is also because after marriage, there will be less time to eat at home, which will make the meal at home warm and sweet.

Second, the husband's family's meter is long. After we get married, we need to face not only our husband, but also his family and relatives. And as a daughter-in-law, she is no longer a big lady who has to live beyond her means. Many times, she still needs to take care of her husband and family. ?

Therefore, the husband-in-law's rice head not only talked about the length of his life in the husband-in-law's family, but also implicitly talked about the situation after marriage. If you want to eat delicious food, you may need to do it yourself, and when cooking, you need to fully consider the tastes of your family like your mother's.

Therefore, from the above description, the fragrance of rice in our parents' family means that we have returned to a living state in our parents' family, and we can put down the bondage and be the spoiled girl again. The husband's family's long meal means that we will change our identity and role, from a girl to a mistress of a family.