Talk about profligacy

Life, there is no turning back; Feelings cannot be deleted and started over. You don't cherish what cares about you; I don't care about you. You always want something to happen. Sincerity is the most important thing in people's hearts, and reserve is the most important thing in feelings. Love should be sincere and interactive; Love should be cherished and accompanied by fate. Love is attracting, not chasing; Love is mutual, regardless of high or low.

People who love you always turn a blind eye and will eventually go far; People who don't love you are always eager to try, which inevitably makes people look down on you. Love, can't start again, cherish it; Destiny, you can't rewind, please seize it. Feelings and kindness can continue; Fate cares about the future. Hot tea when tired is touching; Companionship in depression is satisfaction.

Pains beyond words, smiles beyond words. Sometimes silence is a disappointment, and sometimes silence is a helplessness. Some words are forbearing to say again; There are some things to consider and I don't want to mention them again. The suffering in the world is involuntary; The difficulty in the world lies in turning back. Those who pay attention can't stay, and if they stay, they will have grievances; Unworthy feelings are hard to continue, and it will be embarrassing to continue. The scar on the body will not hurt for a long time; The scars in your heart often make you feel ups and downs.

When a person no longer speaks freely to a person, many times his heart is far away; When a person learns to bear silently, his heart is often cold. Love is needed and needed, and someone who loses his temper and makes trouble without reason is happiness; Love is when you cajole me, and there is someone who is reckless, free-wheeling and practical in front of you. Love is a sweet disturbance, just know it.

I really love you, but I'm not tired. May * * go to the fog and bump; True feelings are tireless, and the heart is the driving force. Love is the joy of two hearts, which can't help getting closer and closer; Love is also pleasing to Tsing Yi coarse cloth, and tea in a humble room is also reassuring. Loving a person is not a temporary wealth, but a lifetime wealth. Like is not love, but love must like it; True love has no reason, and the reason is true love.

What accompanies me all my life is a heart, a distress, an tolerance and an unswerving persistence. Love everything, miss everything, don't miss true love, find someone who really loves you, and you will have real happiness. Feelings will gradually understand; People's hearts, look carefully to understand. What is visible is flattery, and what is tangible is sincere good.

That kind of love is true when a person subconsciously protects a person. Love and affection are sincere and deeply cherished. Reluctant, will protect; Compromise if you can't let go. Pay, with heart; Never leave, by will. Willing will be involuntary; No regrets will be dead set.

Feelings are a kind of regret and disappointment; True love is a kind of love and a willingness. What do you want in this life, keep a feeling, from flower opening to curtain call; Win a person's heart, never leave. Things are broken, and maybe they can be repaired; How can a broken heart be as beautiful as ever? Feelings don't mean anything, they need real feelings inside; Apologizing doesn't mean nothing, just being hurt.

Don't hurt a person easily, everyone will have self-esteem; Don't lose a relationship, it's useless to stay when your heart is far away. No one will always say "nothing" without heart and lung; No one will let you trample on other people's dignity again and again.

Love and love need care; Heart and heart need respect. Love has no password, only heart; Love has no pattern, so it can only be cherished. Looking back three thousand years, there is a heart waiting outside the world of mortals; White-headed, pale face, old, and people. Life doesn't need too much, love is happiness; What do you want most in your life? Love is enough.

Sometimes forgiving someone is because you care too much, so you let go; Sometimes it's because I can't bear it, so I have to endure it again. Love is sweet, not as good as staying after the prosperity recedes; A temporary snuggling is not as brave as the ordinary life of daily necessities.

Love is the firmness that the left hand never leaves and the right hand never leaves; Love is full of hope, satisfaction and gratitude; Love is the warmth of watching you laugh and accompanying you to cry. Loving a person is not a temporary hand in hand, but a lifelong concern. Life with money is comfortable, but sentimental years are comfortable.

Emotion is not the whole of life, but it can affect people's life. The pain of running around, love is to ease; Tired of struggle, love is hope. No matter where you are, being concerned is happiness; No matter what kind of wind and rain, it is strength to have someone waiting.

It's hard to trust someone, and it's even harder to trust someone again. Don't treat others' goodness as weakness, it is a kind of generosity; Don't treat others' tolerance as cowardice, it is a kind of compassion. Just because a good-natured person is not easy to get angry doesn't mean he won't get angry; Just because a bad-tempered person is playing dumb doesn't mean there is no bottom line. Feelings cannot be perfunctory; The human heart can't be played with; Fate cannot be squandered. When you treat love as love, you have true feelings; Equality and mutual love are the true feelings of the people.

Beneficial cure: under no circumstances can you play with others, and those who play will be played by others.

1, dealing with selfish people, not hate her, not ignore her, but gradually away from her, from the bottom of my heart, and then pretend to know nothing. If she goes to find someone else, then you will find that many people are far away from her.

2. The essence of patience is to earn money if you want to make money cheaply. If you want to be shameless, be shameless, whatever. I will give you whatever I can; I can't give it. You have to invite someone else. As for whether others give it or not, that's your business.

Dealing with a hypocritical person is not to scold her or expose her, but to let her continue to feel sad and hypocritical, and then pretend that she doesn't know anything. Then slowly, many people will take the initiative to tell you how hypocritical she is.

There will never be someone you can't live without. Just because you can't leave now doesn't mean you can't leave forever. There is nothing you can't give up. If you don't give up, you may give up first.

Although it is difficult to live alone, you must learn to be alone and don't rely on others easily. This is to prevent you from doing well when everyone around you is leaving.

6. Pay attention to yourself when you are sick, and don't wait for others to pay attention to you. By that time, you will find that you are already very uncomfortable both physically and psychologically.

7. Except for parents, no one does not ask for anything in return. Lovers treat you well on the premise of love and harmony, while friends treat you well on the premise of common interests and eliminating loneliness. Not to mention others.

8. You can believe what others say to you, no matter what the original intention is, but you can't believe it all. However, when others say it, try to listen carefully and respond seriously. This is respect for people.

9. When a person is studying in a different place, he should learn to communicate with his parents and listen to his elders. Learn to be patient There is nothing you can't stand. No matter how outrageous others' mistakes are, there is no need to punish yourself with others' mistakes.

10, don't test your good friend easily, or you will either be disappointed or have the hat of "psycho+overthinking".

You can't miss yourself, you can't take care of yourself in pain, you can't take care of yourself in the result, you can't give yourself happiness.

1. After you left, you suddenly felt that the world was very noisy. I closed my eyes, covered my ears, and didn't listen. However, it broke my heart in the end, and the suffocating pain is still fresh in my memory.

I can't miss myself, I can't take care of myself, I can't take care of myself, I can't take care of myself, I can't give myself happiness.

3. Many times, we all flatter ourselves.

As long as it's the person you like, even if it's my enemy, I'll chase for you regardless, just because of you.

I'm not without temper, I'm just afraid of losing.

Although you don't love me anymore, I hope you can remember that I have been to your world.

7. Don't stay if you lose. What you left is not necessarily true.

I thought you belonged to me, but I found that I sent my heart to the wrong address. Now, please give it back to me!

9. Nobody likes loneliness, but they are tired of disappointment.

10. I know I am not strong, but I need to pretend, because you are not with me.

1 1. What is courage? Crying to ask you to love me, or smiling to see you leave.

12. I'm used to being uncomfortable, thinking of you, waiting for you, but I'm not used to not seeing you.

13. Some things are only understood when you are lonely, and you regret it after you lose them.

14. That is to say, I love you a thousand times, or I can end up with a farewell. This is love.

15. Time is not so fragile that it can't stand the disappointment of going back and forth.

16. You want me to hate you, and if I can, forget you. I also want to forget, but those pasts are stubborn and refuse to pass.

17. There is always a person who will make you forget all the good things of others, but you can't see your good things.

18. I hope you are happy, because that is my greatest wish; I am afraid that you will be happy, because then you will forget me.

19. The most beautiful thing in the world is a smile that breaks away from tears.

20. I've been waiting all my life, but I can't get your instant gaze.

Love cannot be like poetry.

Text/so close so far

Things should start with an App a few days ago.

A few days ago, an App announced the answers of a couple. Why don't you want to watch Korean dramas with me? Even watch it with me for a while?

My boyfriend's answer is very interesting. He told the story of an ex-husband. After the current ex-husband sent a farewell message similar to the dialogue in Korean dramas, the man was surprised and thought, why not watch Korean dramas together? Because I want to live a real life with you. You watch one movie after another, step by step like the devil's pace?

The boy finally wrote: There are many ways to love someone, and love each other in a comfortable way. I would rather take the initiative in our life than be moved by other people's stories.

The next day, in my circle of friends, many people commented with various ideas and golden sentences. Some people say that this is what girls do. When watching a TV series, we must put ourselves into reality. If they don't watch it, they will not watch it. Some people say that men are completely animals with lower body thinking, and using them to market some romantic scenes is casting pearls before swine.

Coincidentally, after arriving at the company that day, a female colleague had a red eye. I asked what was going on. She said with a sigh that she had a big fight yesterday because she showed her boyfriend a question about that. Her boyfriend grabbed the door and left, and she hasn't answered yet.

I tentatively asked, where is your quarrel? The girl said, just that he should know something about romance. Girls don't like reality very much. They still have a fairy tale in their minds, hoping for a better love. Even if you get married and have children, you have to be romantic, right? Otherwise, can it be called love? He scolded me for watching Korean dramas every day and not doing housework, but isn't he busy playing games himself?

I smiled. You two pot calling the kettle black, don't say anything.

I once asked my female friends around me why they like watching idol dramas or Korean dramas so much. The answer is similar. Gao Fushuai and the rich second generation, dressed in well-tailored big-name clothes, fell in love with a diaosi woman or a poor girl through various coincidences. At first, the two sides misunderstood and didn't like it. Later, several couples joined or mixed together. They fell in love and switched back and forth in front of Oba and Agassi. Then great changes took place and the two broke up again. Finally, the male and female partners joined or stirred up again, and finally made a positive result, blackening the wolf.

Even my mother knows this theory. My mother is a typical Korean drama lover. She used to be influenced by men who watched and washed the bathroom owners' homes. She thought that Korean dramas often had hundreds of episodes, and then she was distracted. It turns out that there are so many stories of handsome men and beautiful women and crying on the video website, so she is moved to tears with my ipad every day.

I once asked my mother curiously, how can you watch this kind of idol drama for girls when you are in your fifties? My mother glared at me. Do you blame any woman who doesn't understand love? Who says only girls are pregnant?

I walked away holding my forehead. I really think my mother can be a writer. I had a rest. ...

Come to think of it, women are more emotional when facing emotions. They will avoid many unsatisfactory realities of relying on film and television dramas. My mother often scolds my father for not liking to travel through the characters in a movie. The romantic gene in women's bones determines that they should establish the most romantic expectation, and this kind of romance is not allowed to touch the vague beauty of reality.

Compared with girls, boys' romantic genes are the product of another attribute. Physiologically, girls' sensory stimulation comes from the subcutaneous brain and acts on the cranial nerves, and the right brain is more sensitive. The sensory organs of boys are directly stimulated by adrenal glands and act on male Coleman.

This is why women's romance is to accompany you to watch movies, eat western food and visit parks, while boys' ultimate romance is to push you down. Of course, now many women also say that I want to give birth to a monkey for you. This ... is beyond my scope. Cough.

On the other hand, boys and girls have different attitudes towards love in reality. For example, in an App, the boy told the story of his predecessor playing an umbrella. The girl hopes that the boy can put his coat on the girl like in the TV series and wait for sunny days and rainbows with a smile, while the boy hopes to pull her to find a shelter from the rain.

Who do you think is wrong? According to what I said earlier, they are all right. Girls are more adaptable, so they are in a weak position in their feelings and are used to bearing and waiting when unexpected situations come. Most boys are strong, possessive and protective, hoping to conflict and resist in the most direct way when an emergency comes.

So in love, girls are mostly poetic, and boys are generally like this.

Is there always romance in love? I think romance is the word we think of when we pursue it. After marriage, it may be more appropriate to change to emotional appeal.

My uncle and aunt are both ordinary people. My uncle is a middle school teacher and my aunt is a bank clerk. She is also a fan of idol dramas. They have been living on daily necessities for 20 years, and both of them are people who can create an atmosphere. More specifically, my uncle is weak in this respect. Compared with my aunt, his personality may be more about expectation and cooperation than creation.

However, my aunt is lively by nature and is as keen on new things as a girl in her forties. For example, she has been to the world of two people on some anniversaries and had dinner in a nice western restaurant. Menstruation will make these things into small surprises, waiting for his uncle's sigh, but although he can't figure out the form, he will still prepare a bunch of flowers or small gifts in advance to please menstruation.

Shopping is the most annoying thing for men, and so is my uncle, but he doesn't mind praising her for shopping when she comes back from shopping. Moreover, my uncle will use a lot of care to please my aunt, such as the recliner he made, keep the ticket stubs of the cinemas, parks and trips they have been to together, make soup for my aunt with his heart, take my aunt to the supermarket after work, take the initiative to wash dishes and undertake housework. He will create the joy of life under his limited conditions.

I once secretly asked my aunt that you love watching Korean dramas so much. Those men in Korean dramas are all money owners, and my uncle's career is not successful. Won't you blame him? My aunt giggled. You are stupid. Can those people in Korean dramas compare with your uncle? Your uncle is still alive.

I talked to her on purpose, but the people in the Korean drama didn't die, did they? My aunt knocked me on the head. No matter how good the idol drama is, it can't be true and it's not yours. Only the people around you are real. If he is not good, you should make him good. If he is good, you are not cheap. People around you have to live a lifetime.

I rubbed my aunt's head and it hurt. In a trance, I think menstruation is also a writer. ...

For the gorgeous story of idol drama, girls are more likely to be moved by their boyfriends who take care of themselves in reality. However, when you meet an indifferent boy, you have to put those vulgar plots on yourself.

For a boy who likes to create an emotional atmosphere in his life, his behavior will make his girlfriend feel more romantic than those idol scenes. But unfortunately, there are not many such boys, and some of them are not straight. Therefore, the poetry in love is still the same, which requires communication and adjustment between men and women. Don't let your temperament come.

In fact, the contradiction between Korean dramas and real life is the running-in problem of puppy love between men and women. Years of love experience, life will erode the initial feeling of love. At that time, the companionship and responsibility of family members will become a daily theme, and there is no need to speculate on each other's wishes or deliberately be romantic. They will pass on their love to their relatives and the next generation, so that long-term love is lasting.

I want to say to the girls, sister, your other half can't satisfy you as you wish at a certain moment, but if you choose him as your partner, you must tolerate his shortcomings. He can't fully understand your inner thoughts. You can tell him and try to understand and communicate instead of blaming and complaining. You should understand that holding hands in love is the distance between hearts. You should be close to the distance, not distant. If you have something to say, crying twice and hanging up three times won't solve the problem.

One more word to boys, man, take the initiative. Women are always romantic. If you try your best to chase the woman you love, you should take care of her. After all, your wife is used for pain. The sky is falling, you are holding it, but she is cleaning your backyard and giving birth to your baby. How about watching Korean dramas with her? When you watched the World Cup, didn't she just follow you with a beer? Look at your heart, it seems that you have wronged yourself, but you grew up in love, family and everything, and finally you succeeded.

Love can't be poetic, because imaginary love will destroy those real ordinary trivial things, and love will become ethereal and lose its foundation and sense of security. But love cannot be the same. Rigid dogma is always just a frame written in the raiders. The adjustment of life is a necessary catalyst to keep love fresh. With the adjustment, we can better understand each other and help each other.

You have your inner romance, and I have my way of caring, intangible and tangible. This is a woman and a man, and this is your seemingly different love, but they are heading for the same goal.