As a sister, how can I help my brother buy a car?

As the eldest daughter of my family, if my parents ask me to pay the first salary to buy a car for my younger brother, I will make a final decision in combination with my own actual situation when facing this problem.

First of all, I can understand my parents' feelings. After all, my younger brother is younger, and my parents may have to rely on him for providing for the elderly in the future. Therefore, my parents will naturally be partial to my younger brother, which is human nature. However, I must make a decision based on my actual economic conditions. If my own economic conditions are not very good and I am facing great pressure in my life, let me pay for myself in this case.

On the other hand, if my financial conditions are relatively good and I have the ability and conditions, it is acceptable to consider buying a car for my younger brother out of brother and sister's affection, but there is also a key premise that my younger brother is a young man who knows how to make progress. If my younger brother is greedy for ease and enjoyment, he always likes to get something for nothing. In this case, even if my parents ask me to pay for a car for my younger brother, I will refuse.

I don't think it's necessary to think too much about whether to buy a car, because:

First, relatives should not care too much, but I still don't think we can do it for my brother. Since we don't have this condition at home, we should not take the lead. Now that transportation is so developed, it can really be slow. I think if we want to buy a car, we can subsidize it a little, but we can't put all the pressure on ourselves. After all, we can do it ourselves.

second, if my brother has just graduated, my mother has been talking about buying him a house or something, but I am also married, saying that I have no money, but I will definitely have to give some money to help him. My husband and I have reached an understanding, and my mother also said that we will definitely pay back the money. I think this is all right, not for us to buy him a house, but for a small part. I think it is ok.

Third, if my brother's requirements are not high, I think I can buy a cheaper car, and I can discuss it with my family. If the economic conditions permit, I can buy a slightly better one. Besides, my brother can still get nothing. If so, you can give him some money and let him find a way for the rest. Such a brother is too backward. If your financial conditions do not allow, just tell your parents directly, and parents will certainly understand.

Buying a car depends on your own conditions. Now, basically every family has a car, but this vanity also needs to be supported by certain economic conditions. My brother's idea is very good. He is like finding a job and saving money before buying a house, and then buying a car when he has plenty of money. I think this is very good. There is no need to be too tired to buy a car, and there is no need to get attached to it.