When you reach middle age and live happily, you are very good and I am not bad either!

Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, people reach middle age. Looking back on the road we have traveled, the past events that have settled deep in our memory, whether they are right or wrong, there are always some that we recall by chance but cannot let go of for a long time. Maybe, deep in love, people are lonely. Perhaps, only when you love deeply can you be unforgettable.

Even so, so what? Life is real, it is there whether you see it or not; people are fickle, and you can’t guess people’s hearts even if you want to. As for life, being happy is just one day, and being unhappy is just one day, so why not be happy every day. Even if life is unsatisfactory, you still have to go on; even if there are many troubles, don't be unhappy. Because life is like this, if you take it too seriously and get sulky, then you are wrong.

It can be said that there is always a reason to be sulky. As it is said in Buddhism, the environment changes with the mind, and the appearance arises from the mind. For example, in life, some people have a quiet personality and do not like to be gregarious. They are calm and have casual acquaintances with many of the people they interact with. Of course, they still have a few close friends. However, they seem to be slow to respond. Sometimes they don't realize it after being ridiculed by others, and they are still talking and laughing at the time. But afterwards, I felt bullied. The more I thought about it, the more sulky and uncomfortable I became. Some even secretly wiped away tears.

As the old saying goes, too much anger can harm the body. This makes sense. Because after sulking, the body is full of negative energy, becomes emotional, doesn't want to talk, or even wants to eat, which affects physical and mental health. Therefore, if a person wants to be in good health, he should try to be sulky as little as possible. In fact, instead of swallowing one's anger, a person might as well choose healthy ways to regulate bad emotions. For example, listen to pure pure music, do appropriate exercises, read your favorite books, etc., to reduce the adverse effects of external factors on the human body.

It is said in "A Dream of Red Mansions" that I will appear on stage after you sing. In fact, life is like a play, everyone plays a different role. If you want to live a good life, spend less time with people who make you angry, less time with people who are ungrateful, less time with people with negative energy, and let everything happen as you wish. Sometimes people are like this. They would rather drink porridge at home than eat a sumptuous meal without looking at other people's faces. This is a kind of mood.

Yes, when people reach middle age, what they fear most is not growing old, but getting sulky. In fact, mentality is particularly important to a person. Because mentality determines attitude, attitude determines behavior, and behavior determines life. It is undeniable that there are too many obstacles and helplessness in the road of life, but no matter what, when you reach middle age, you must have a good attitude as a person, be with your family forever, and live your life how you want to be happy. . In this way, you are good and I am not bad either. Life is so busy nowadays, I just hope you can have light in your eyes and live the way you like.