Wine depends on personality, and people who love to say a few words of "persuading wine" are not reliable at all and are not worth your heart-to-heart.

Throughout the ages, China people have always attached great importance to table manners. Through a table of rice and a glass of wine, we can see through human nature in detail and understand each other's personality habits. For us, wine is just a flavor enhancer in restaurants, which helps diners to get closer and get to know each other. Many people don't seem to understand this. They are addicted to alcohol, and they also take wine as the leading role in the wine bureau, drinking with others, and always look like a storm when they are not drunk.

What is also annoying is that this group of people just drink by themselves, always like to propose a toast and drag others to drink with him. He drove home regardless of whether the other person was unwell or not. It seems that the other party only needs to get drunk, which is a great face for him. This kind of wine-persuading culture is not worth advocating. People who persuade wine have low emotional intelligence and are generally not much better. People who participate in the wine game, see their character after drinking, and love to say these four "toasts" are not reliable at all, and it is not worth your deep friendship!

0 1 "I don't care whether I drink it or not, I drank it anyway."

If it looks like a hero, it is mixed with shallow threats, which makes people in a dilemma. It is also fate that we are together. Some people serve wine one by one in order to watch the excitement. Every time others don't wait for him to refuse, he directly raises his head and drinks the wine in the cup, and then throws out a sentence, "I don't care whether I drink it or not, I did it anyway." Everyone cheered for his boldness, and all eyes were focused on you. If you don't want to drink, drink, or you will be embarrassed if you don't drink.

Make do with drinking in exchange for a carefree compliment, two glasses of wine, a faint pout and irony. There will always be people behind my back who say that I am humiliated and disdainful of making this friend. The person who spoke of that toast had a bitter feeling. He just wants to be a hero himself, and he doesn't think about others at all. How good can he be?

02 "How is our relationship? Mainly depends on your cup. "

Since we can socialize at the same table, even if our relationship is not so harmonious, at least it is better than the average person. But everyone knows how good your relationship is. Say this sentence, how many innings have some flavor of language violence. Imagine how much layout a person can have in his heart and how much love he has for each other.

People who are really close are not easy to toast each other, and they will not put their feelings on such shallow things as wine glasses. And the kind of person who persuades wine with emotion for a long time seems to be loyal, but in the end it is childish. Whether the feelings are deep or not is definitely not something that can be expressed by a glass of wine. And the person who persuades alcohol like this doesn't treat you as a friend at all. To deal with such a person, you can take a sip and reply to him: that is all we have to each other.

03 "If you don't drink, I will lose face."

When people use this to persuade you to drink, it is no longer emotional intelligence, it is simply rude. When you use this kind of toast, people with good temper will feel uncomfortable, and people with bad temper will choke you: "I look down on you", which is really humiliating. Drinking this kind of thing always depends on the place and mood, and has nothing to do with face. From another angle, how much self-esteem can a person who can put his face in the glass have?

People who say this toast on the wine table can easily cause quarrels with friends, and drinking with leaders often makes them unhappy. If they talk to their elders, they may be thrown out of the door. You put your face in a glass for others, but let others see through your cultivation and character at a glance. Who wants to get along with you?

04 "If you don't even drink white wine, won't you be friends with everyone?"

It's really annoying to say such a forced toast on the wine table. Some people can't or can't drink alcohol because of physical reasons, and then people who love to persuade wine will say, "You don't even drink white wine, don't you make friends with everyone?" There is also this sentence, "Everyone is happy today, how can we not drink?" ?

However, in fact, it is clearly that you want others to drink. If you use everyone as an excuse, it will give people an uncomfortable feeling. You feel that you have no choice. If you don't drink, you will be humiliated. You have to bite your teeth and drink that glass of wine. Conclusion The person who advised the drinker was still very happy, but he just didn't know it. In fact, it will give people the impression that emotional intelligence is a little low, and it will offend people unconsciously.

Emotional message: when eating, wine is never the protagonist. Friends drink just to create an atmosphere and enhance feelings, but if you just fight for wine, then this wine game is meaningless. As the saying goes, "the key lies in success or failure." A person with good wine can be valued at dinner and in daily life. Therefore, no matter making friends or looking for a lover, people without good hobbies will definitely hurt you correctly in your later life. However, those who often persuade people to drink at the dinner table are mostly ignorant and annoying.