The mother-in-law suspects that her daughter-in-law will go back to her mother's house to buy food and meat. She was speechless with a word from others.

The relationship between China's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often tense. One of the important reasons is that China has long been a feudal society. In feudal society, men are superior to women. When a woman grew up, she married her husband's family, so she alienated family of origin and devoted her energy and feelings to her husband's family.

Now, although the law stipulates that men and women are equal and women enjoy the same status as men, in many places, especially in rural areas, the situation that men are superior to women has not changed much, which is embodied in family life. Women and men work together, but they have no due rights, especially in filial piety to their parents, and they are often teased and ridiculed by their husbands' families.

Some mother-in-law accused her face to face, and some mother-in-law spoke ill of her daughter-in-law, which led to some tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This has caused some bad effects on the harmony of family relations. Xiaolan's mother-in-law is like this.

Xiaolan Xiaojiang He got married on a blind date, and both of them are rural people. After Xiaolan got married, she went to work in the south with her husband Xiaojiang for economic reasons. She stayed there for four or five years. In order to save money, she only comes back occasionally to visit her parents on holidays and Chinese New Year.

Now that I think about my age, my mother-in-law has been urging Xiaolan to have a baby, and the two have just returned from the south. After preparing to have children, they will wait until the children are older before going to work.

It was the solstice winter, and Xiaolan Xiaojiang He had just returned from the south for three days. Xiaolan saw that it was sunny today and was going back to her parents' home to visit them. It is often said that her son has traveled thousands of miles and her mother is worried. Xiaolan is not at home these years, and Xiaolan's mother is considerate and looking forward to her daughter's return. The family can see each other often and feel at ease.

Xiaolan prepared breakfast for the family. After eating, Xiao Jiang went to buy some meat, vegetables and other things. Then she went back to her room and put on a new dress. She divided the meat and vegetables in half and took them home.

When Xiaolan left, her mother-in-law saw what Xiaolan was holding and her face darkened. Just, see son also help xiaolan holding, and see two people come back a few days, just keep silent. When the two went out, the mother-in-law chatted with the villagers.

Speaking of Xiaolan taking half the meat and vegetables, her mother-in-law gnashed her teeth and turned blue. She scolded Xiaolan for "losing his family" and "eating inside and picking outside". "Dogs know how to look after the house and marry a daughter-in-law to take it out." On the edge of his house, who is her junior, it is not good to directly blame him, but only to gently persuade him that men and women are equal now, and it is not worth a few dollars for her family to raise a daughter to get some meat and vegetables. Xiaolan's mother-in-law became more and more annoyed, and the other party was silent.

At this time, a family member of the same age as Xiaolan's mother-in-law came over and said to Xiaolan's mother-in-law, "You only saw her daughter-in-law take meat and vegetables. Did you see anyone else take money? " Some meat and vegetables make you so angry. Did your son earn this money by himself? Your son has been working for four or five years. Does your daughter sleep at home every day? Do you eat for free every day Like your son, he worked for four or five years and earned tens of thousands of dollars a year. After four or five years, they earned a hundred or two hundred thousand. What is it to buy some meat and vegetables? In my opinion, people have to get tens of thousands of dollars for their parents, and there are too few meat dishes. What can you do to them? A group of in-laws just talk nonsense, pampering their sons and trampling on their daughters-in-law. This kind of life is too smooth. Don't you know that home is everything? "

When he was young, his family worked as an accountant in the countryside. His sister and daughter both went to college and worked in the provincial capital, but they really treated their children equally. This sentence made Xiaolan's mother-in-law have nothing to say for a long time, but made a big blush. From then on, I learned my lesson and my life was smooth sailing.

A mother-in-law like this should be educated to understand that her son is not the only one who works hard in this world. It is wrong to take the daughter-in-law's work for granted and interfere with it, which is not conducive to family harmony. Fortunately, she can understand in time, and later, it is also a good thing that a bowl of water is flat.