What is the biggest difference between a woman and a man after marriage? Listen to five married women.

Marriage is like a romantic and warm trip, and the scenery along the way, whether good or bad, is the most precious memory.

If marriage is a reckless battle, then whether it is pain or happiness in the process, it is the most precious experience in life.

Marriage is not a game, let alone a fight. It should be beef on spicy noodles, and a handful of sugar is sprinkled in milk tea to make love happy and life more fulfilling and brilliant.

Some men are like invincible warriors in marriage, always fighting high spirits and blocking all violations for their families.

The woman is the warmest guardian behind her, washing her hands and making soup, watching day and night. This should be the best appearance of marriage!

Many people will wonder, what is the biggest difference between men and women in marriage? We interviewed hundreds of readers, so let's talk about the feelings of several men and women.

@ slim, 28 years old, married for 2 years.

I have been married for two years. I was pregnant for three months when I got married, and now my child is over one year old.

After I got married, I quit my job and waited for delivery at home. After giving birth, I didn't continue to work, and basically took care of my children and my husband's daily life at home.

My husband works in a foreign company, and his salary is not bad in all aspects. He will be promoted in the near future. So I don't need to go out.

Although I am still a little reluctant to live a housewife's life at home all day, I can only choose to accept that children need to be taken care of and families need to be maintained.

If we weigh the present situation of my husband and me, I am the only one at home.

Xia Mo replied: Most families in marriage will tacitly follow the marriage mode of "the woman is the master outside and the man is the master inside". After marriage, women's world becomes smaller and men's world becomes bigger.

Men are used to conquering the world, and women gradually regard family as their own world.

In this process, it is even more necessary to understand each other and tacitly understand and respect each other's efforts. This is the best way to maintain marriage.

@ Tianya Wandering Cloud, 32 years old, married for 5 years

When I am in love, my husband is very considerate to me. When I go shopping, I always take my hand out to eat and help me with my favorite dishes. Pick me up at the company when it rains, and buy tickets to take me to see the good movies as soon as they are released.

However, after I got married, I found that things were gradually different. Go home from work and don't want to go out. It's always tiring to let him go shopping with me. Watching movies is too much trouble for him, so he can watch them at home.

When he goes out to eat, he always likes to sit next to his male friends, where he can chat and drink, instead of sitting next to me, and he won't look at me again after the whole game.

Sometimes I even wonder if he doesn't love me anymore and why he has changed so much since he got married. He said that we are a family and we don't need to care so much about details. But I think love is reflected in every detail of life.

Xia Mo replied: When a woman enters the marriage hall, she will pay more attention to her husband and family. When a man enters a marriage, he will be wrapped in satisfaction and become more and more relaxed.

However, marriage needs management as much as love, just like a new flower. If you don't take care of it, it may wither before flowering.

Men should be vigilant. Women in marriage don't want much. A little care is enough to warm their lives.

@ Meet me sometime, 38 years old, married 10 years.

My child is 8 years old and goes to primary school. In these eight years, I feel that my life has always revolved around children. From daily life to study and education, I have been running around at home and school all day, exhausted.

But my husband doesn't want to send every time he connects. He always said: can't you go to school by yourself at the age of eight? Can't we have lunch in the school cafeteria at noon? Why take it back? If you like basketball, play it yourself. Why do you want to go to a training class? Achievement is not everything. Reading should go with the flow ... and so on.

I don't think the child knows which direction the classroom door opens.

But the pressure is so great, since we can do it, why not give our child the best we can, at least let him face more skills and possibilities in his later life!

Summer answer: children are like a bond, pulling their parents at the same time. He married two unrelated people from now on.

In marriage, men and women will have different educational ideas and views on their children, which will lead to differences. Men feel that children need to be kept free-range, while women pay more attention to the process of growth.

@ Jin 'er, 25 years old, married 1 year.

I think my husband is just a child. He hasn't changed a bit since he was married for a year.

I want to invite friends to play ball and drink after work, and I always lie on the sofa and play with my mobile phone when I get home. I especially like playing mobile games. Every time I play games, I tell him to stop.

Now both families are urging to have children as soon as possible. I want to buy a house first, but he's just talking about it. The daily expenses are not saved at all. Eating with friends is hundreds of thousands every time. We are both ordinary office workers, and now there is basically no surplus every month. He also clamored for a car all day.

I always think that after marriage, two people can work together to make life better, but I always feel that he doesn't think about the future at all, just like a child who hasn't grown up and is very comfortable in front of him.

Xia Mo replied: Women's delicacy and relative maturity enable them to enter the role quickly after marriage, while men's growth is often a long process.

A man is like a brand-new sponge. After being thrown into the water, they need to absorb water slowly. They need more time to understand their responsibilities and responsibilities.

@ Jingjing Jingjing, 30 years old, married for 3 years.

My relationship with my mother-in-law is not very good. My mother-in-law is a typical rural woman, who has been around her husband and children all her life.

When I first got married, she came to live with us for a while. When I come home from work, it is usually after seven o'clock. My husband and I eat takeout every day until the weekend. My mother-in-law thinks I have neglected my family.

I usually go to work because I work far and get up early, so I want to sleep more on weekends. My mother-in-law thinks I am lazy. After having a baby, I don't want other children to dress the baby in old clothes. After all, they are strangers, and my mother-in-law thinks I am a waste.

Occasionally, when I am unhappy, my husband will only be two-faced, and after the puncture, it will be a bigger contradiction.

In fact, many times it is just a trivial matter, but because the mother-in-law is not a mother after all, many things are not easy to say directly, which leads to intensified contradictions. Sometimes I think that if my husband can adjust from it, the problem can actually be solved quickly.

Xia Mo replied: The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage is like a rice bag mixed with sand. Even if it can't be cleaned thoroughly, it can still be cleaned up. And the husband is often the most critical sieve.

The prevarication and perfunctory of inaction will only be the fuse of the intensification of contradictions, and men should learn to face the inevitable problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage.

@ 个个个个, 40 years old, married 15 years.

I used to be a spendthrift. I like to buy some cosmetics, clothes and so on. I also like to go shopping and eat with my girlfriend. I haven't saved much money. I always thought it was more important to live in the present.

However, after marriage, I suddenly found that the family expenses are really large, and many conveniences still need to be saved.

I haven't been shopping for a long time. You can wear enough clothes every season. I don't like entertainment very much. When I am free, I prefer to stay at home and watch movies or something.

Married 15, my husband has been working hard. Now that we have a car, a house and a deposit, our daily life is very easy, but I am still conservative.

I find it difficult for my husband to make money. I think we should save more so that my husband can go to bed early in the future.

Xia Mo replied: Economic ability is the cornerstone of marriage, which determines the quality of marriage.

After marriage, men will work harder because of family pressure, while women will be more considerate because of their efforts to love men. The maintenance of marriage sometimes requires the understanding and consideration of both parties.

Marriage is like Lego for children, and each part has its own functions and strengths.

Because of understanding and understanding, all efforts and efforts will be properly placed. Because of respect and understanding, all tolerance and protection will not be forgotten.

Men go forward and expand their territory. Women stick to the rear and rectify the rules.

In marriage, both husband and wife need to know each other, know what they need to do and how to do it. This is the most important thing.

The best appearance of love is just to be integrated and stay together for a lifetime. The best appearance of marriage is probably that love never leaves.