How to survive in society

Question 1: How to survive in society? Several big truths, please remember! !

1) If you have enough money, don't keep a mistress and secretly help some students in poor mountainous areas. Don't let people know who you are, or the meeting will be awkward. But you will feel comfortable in your heart, much better than * * *!

(2) If you meet a street stall at night, buy more if you can. Don't bargain. Nothing is expensive. Even if the family is better, who will set up a stall on a cold night?

(3) When students come out to work or work-study, especially middle school students and little girls. You can buy whatever she sells. It takes courage to go out to work if she is not in family difficulties. Encourage her!

(4) If you find your wallet, you will find the owner. If you are really short of money, you will leave cash. Call the owner and tell him you found it in the toilet. Give back your credit card, ID card and driver's license, and people won't care about money. Write down other people's addresses in your notebook. When you are rich, go find someone to apologize and return the money to others!

(5) When a lost person asks you for your address and you happen to know it, just let me know. Don't be embarrassed, no one laughs at you!

(6) If you meet lost children and old people, you can send them home. If you can't send them home, you can also send them to the car or the police station. If you have a phone, you can call the old man or the child and leave. Anyway, you are not short of those two phone bills!

(7) When it rains and snows, when it is cold at night or when it snows at night, people who sell vegetables, fruits and newspapers can't go home because there is not much left. You can buy them all, but you can't buy them all. Look at what you eat anyway. Buying it will make people go home early!

(8) When you get on the bus, don't make a fuss when you meet an old, weak, sick and disabled pregnant woman. Stand up and block others with your body, leave room for those in need, and then pretend to get off and walk away. There are too many people to walk far. Smile when people thank you!

If you have enough time, please transfer these words to several places. After all, we are comfortable with more good people!

Question 2: Teach you how to survive in society and how to succeed! We are in an era of change, but can you adapt and survive in this era? The following things will definitely help you. Let's take a look at how to better stand in this society! First, make friends. 1, the basic configuration of a mixed society. People can't be lonely for a hundred years, but they always have friends. To be a qualified civilian, as long as you obey the law and make friends with your temper. Let him go if he is willing to pay, and let him go if he is unwilling. But if you want to make a name for yourself in society, you have to make friends selectively and profitably. For the average person, there must be at least one doctor, a lawyer, a small official, a policeman, a teacher and a local ruffian in the circle of friends. Why do I say that? In fact, these friends are basically unnecessary. Most people's circle of friends are colleagues, classmates and neighbors, because this is the only circle of friends we usually deal with, friends who drink, sing and bathe together. Without a certain purpose, who would deliberately associate with lawyers or hooligans? Doctors, lawyers, policemen, teachers and friends who seem to be seldom used at ordinary times can save your urgency or difficulty at critical moments, and some can even save your life! Going to the hospital to see a doctor is lucky to have a doctor friend. It is a trivial matter to save the wronged slaughter fee. It is really indispensable to use the materials reasonably and contact a good doctor with excellent medical skills who knows clearly in his heart to help you see a doctor. Everyone should know the role of lawyers. When you are in trouble, he will give you strong help. Needless to say, pol.ice often hangs out in society, so how can he not get his shoes wet, his car is detained and people are investigated? Basically, if you have friends from the bureau to help you do these things, you won't have much pain. For friends who have children at home in the future, the role of teachers is undoubtedly great. Some people say that it is useless to know these general doctors and teachers pol.ice. For example, if you look at internal medicine, friends in ENT can't help you. You want to help your son learn English, but the Chinese teacher can't use it. People who ask these questions are doomed to get along at the bottom of society. Don't these people have their own circle of friends? A friend of ENT, can't he find a friend of internal medicine? No one in the school's Chinese teacher's colleague teaches English? When you associate with these friends, you actually meet people in his circle of friends. Wouldn't it be a better opportunity for you to know more about the quasi-middle class? Officials and hooligans I think everyone knows the benefits of having an official friend, even a grass-roots civil servant friend. On this basis, the bigger the official, the better, and correspondingly, the less chance of making friends. Many people don't understand why we should have a friend who is a gangster and a local ruffian. It's actually quite simple. Using these friends to solve many things in our daily life is much simpler and more effective, but they can't be used indefinitely, and the side effects are quite great. It is impossible to get it without spending money. Please calculate exactly how to consider the cost performance. As for the more luxurious configuration, it is still better. For example, there are rich people in the circle of friends, officials with more than seven products, bosses, second-generation ancestors and some big ones. For example, there are Bill Gates and Obama in the circle of friends. This is not a mixed society, but a social game. 2. How to make the friends you want to make? Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. Making friends can't make intimate friends at once, but if you design carefully, you can at least make ordinary fair-weather friends, and for utilitarian friends, you can reach the realm of "fair-weather friends". There are no secrets in making friends, only wine tables and hobbies. These two are shortcuts to making friends. After drinking a whole table of wine, at least your face is familiar. After drinking a few cups, you are not fake friends but also fake brothers. It is a good idea for others to follow his hobby. People can't live without hobbies. If you think a person has no hobbies, it means you haven't noticed. He likes to eat and drink with him; He likes singing and dancing, dancing and singing with him; He likes to pretend to be innocent and play with art, accompanying him with poems and songs. After a few times like this, I won't worry that he won't take you as a friend, at least he is a good friend. There are two details about making friends, willingness and listening. It would be better if we could observe words and deeds. To be willing is to be willing to give up money, to make useful friends, and to be extremely stingy, so we have to continue to struggle. One more thing is listening. This is actually very important. Why do leaders like meetings so much? Because it is so cool for many people to listen to themselves, why can psychologists make friends with almost every patient? Because they ... >>

Question 3: How do people live and survive in society? A gentleman replied like this: eating depends on skill! He put it this way: How many people in our society have "skills"? According to the statistics of Yale University for 30 years, only 3% people in the world have "clear" goals, and the rest are mediocre people. Therefore, it is normal that there are few capable people. At the same time, he designed a road to success for himself: study-work-struggle-be a capitalist himself! Finally, I got rich and made some contributions to society. At first glance, this seems to make sense. If a fair and just society depends on skills, there should be no problem, but his later explanation just denied this. What he is talking about is actually a society that only cares about 3% people. At the same time, what he said about eating a meal is not simple. You can eat it, and beggars can eat it. Obviously, he doesn't mean that beggars have skills. By skills, he means that the 3% people with great skills in society can become capitalists or be reused, and they can get stable income and even huge profits. They should have that skill, be reused, and have that income and way of eating. So under such a premise, this statement is very problematic. This is mainly manifested in the following aspects: (1) The kind of society he said only pays attention to how the 3% people who have the ability to survive and enjoy live. What should we do for those 97% people who can only make shit a day? When he said "God knows how to live", his meaning was clear: love to live but not to live. This is obviously immoral. First, according to the principle of resources, all resources in society belong to everyone, and everyone should * * * own and * * * enjoy the benefits brought by resources and their utilization; According to his logic, most people's rights are completely ignored, and as a result, almost all rights are occupied by those 3% people. Second, in a civilized society, every worker has the right to earn a living through labor, and everyone should have the right to eat, dress and live; His point of view does not admit this. Third, in a civilized society, the relationship between people should be: equal coexistence, mutual care, mutual love, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, mutual support and mutual help, and his views are the opposite; Therefore, his views are obviously unacceptable to a civilized society, and are not allowed by the development of this civilization in today's world, and are resolutely opposed by the vast majority of people in this world. (B) the limitations of personal skills. The society he said is actually a society where the strong can survive. He emphasized the rationality of the survival and enjoyment of the strong and advocated the jungle law of the jungle. In other words, the strong should enjoy and the weak should starve. If so, the strong will always be the strong and the weak will always be the weak? No. Because you are strong now, you may not be strong in the future, on the one hand, you may not be strong on the other; In that case, in the process of striving for profits without moral and fairness and justice rules, all people will be hurt by others, and all people will be victims. Can civilized and kind people hope that such a society exists? Can such a society exist? (3) The ability of mildew and fission in practice. When the ownership of most people's resources is occupied by a few people, when most people's right to make a living is deprived, a few people have no conscience. Many of them are not satisfied with their vested interests. In order to gain greater benefits, they are still taking despicable measures. The crime of tainted milk powder in Sanlu Group is typical, the monopolistic behavior of monopoly groups is typical, and the crazy embezzlement of state-owned assets is typical, and so on. What about more than 90% people? In order to survive, they have to make the following choices: either hungry or cold, or exchange hard and dangerous labor for meager income, or simply manufacture and sell fake and shoddy goods to harm their companions, or become robbers to steal, rob and sell dangerous drugs, or become prostitutes without shame, and so on. It is also the root cause of the crime outbreak. They have no power and economic potential, and are forced by life, and they have developed many such skills. Few of them broke out of the tight encirclement and lived a better life than the evil old society, but they still lived a hard life. Even the top among them (ordinary civil servants) are worried about housing and children's employment. Compared with those landlords, capitalists and corrupt officials, it is a world of difference! (4) There are essential differences between civilized competition and barbaric competition. The competition of civilization is >>

Question 4: How can we survive better in society? Hello, my friend! Let me answer for you: First of all, let's discuss how to better mix the society. Personally, I think that if you want to mix well in society in the future, there are nothing more than a few points, such as being talented, rich and discerning. Hemp is international relations. In a society like China, there is ―― sometimes it is better than money. So I think it is very important to expand my pulse network anytime and anywhere; Talent, in short, is your comprehensive strength, including knowledge certificate, specialty, interest and so on. Anything that can be used for yourself, even if it is small, may shine brilliantly, so some people say that they have no strength, and I don't agree. As long as you exist, you have the meaning and power of existence. For the importance of strength, I want to borrow a sentence from the novel: in the face of absolute strength, any skill is useless. As for money, it is an objective factor of their families. Vision, vision is often associated with opportunities. The premise of vision is to have courage and dare to fight. Now the opportunity to make money depends on how you cut into the problem. If you dare to fight, it is possible that even a stitch of innovation and a new idea may make you rich. Don't be afraid to be remembered for a long time. If you set the goal as "keep fighting for one" (counting down), the opportunity is in front of you. There is not much point in living. Living is nothing more than not dying, that is, not dying or living for yourself. As long as you firmly believe that there will always be a turning point, as long as you still have life, don't be afraid to fight, then your life will be very good.

Moreover, to survive in the world, we must pursue something. What is the pursuit? Many people will ask this question, whether it is material enjoyment or spiritual sublimation. Actually, they are all, and they are not. They are born different, think different, do different things, and pursue different things. Victims in the desert just want to drink. Can you say this is not a pursuit? Isn't this pursuit meaningless? The so-called pursuit is actually very similar to the ideal, but more realistic. Pursuit is a kind of proof, and it is a kind of meaning to exist in the world. We ask what we want to live in this world. As explained earlier, we want to live forever, but what is the fulcrum of our survival in the world? That's the pursuit. Many people feel that they have nothing to pursue. In fact, it's not that they don't have a clear idea. We call this pursuit the subconscious. Think about why we eat. Why study? Why do you work? Why do you want to do what you like? This series of trivial things is actually our pursuit. If you satisfy the low-level pursuit, you must start your own greed. Do what you have to do, and what you can't eat can be moved home and digested slowly. I have always disliked the frugality that society has always advocated. I think greed is our driving force. A person who is not greedy often lacks motivation, often can't find the meaning of his existence, and often lives entirely for him. This is sad.

Knowing oneself is the foundation of existence. Many people often say that I don't know anything about myself. Listen to this sentence, I feel very funny. Let's think about it. Do you often think or say, why did I do that? It is a wonderful existence and an extremely complex creature, so complicated that even if you don't know yourself, it is not sad or shameful. I dare say that no one in the world knows himself completely, otherwise there is no potential. What we have to do is to record our own bits and pieces, and discover new ourselves from them, which is another meaning of our existence. Our life is also to know our own life. We don't have to know ourselves, but if we don't even know ourselves, it would be sad. I think the theory of good and evil is sheer nonsense. I like a sentence very much. I wasn't decided by heaven. If God stops me, I will be punished! In fact, everyone has different ideas and different understandings. Besides, there is no right or wrong in the world. Good and bad have their own theories, but most of the ideas are the same, so there are good and bad points. There are no rules in the world, because the rules of the winning side have come into being. Although we can't change the big rules of the world, we can indulge ourselves, entertain ourselves and sometimes live for ourselves in the circle of rules, which doesn't mean that we came to this world.

Finally, I want to send a word to all my friends. If you can't get rid of it, then fall into the world of mortals. I hope my answer will satisfy you! (This answer is personal, please don't copy it. )

Question 5: How do people survive in society? Enter the society, remember to work hard, and don't be eliminated by society! Pay more attention to everything Communicate more in the workplace! Do your job! Here's how to handle relationships. 1. Put yourself in the other person's shoes, take care of others, and communicate with enthusiasm, respect and understanding.

2. Understand communication barriers and try to break through them.

3. Have the willingness to communicate with others, listen with an open mind, and never make a value judgment immediately, but it is best to imagine from the other party's position and viewpoint.

Be a good listener and listen to each other's thoughts and feelings with your heart, not just literally. Then tell each other frankly, what did we hear? What are your feelings and thoughts?

Understanding, we don't have to agree with other people's different opinions, but if we can understand others, we will be very happy ourselves.

6. Strengthening your understanding of yourself and knowing what you will say is also one of the skills to maintain good interpersonal relationships with others.

7. Be good at dealing with your emotions, and don't let bad emotions affect your relationship with the people around you. I think if you can do the above, interpersonal relationship can't be bad! Finally, I wish you better and better work!

Question 6: How to survive in China society? China society operates according to hidden rules. People who mix well know this set of hidden rules better than others. It's just that their bottom line is different Adjust yourself.

Question 7: How should we survive in society in the future? Society is indeed complicated, so we say that students are simple, probably because they have not officially entered the society and have not been infected with the bad habits of society. So we still trust that student, and once we know that he or she is a social person, we almost set up a thick barrier in our minds like a conditioned reflex. "People's hearts are sinister and hard to prevent." This can be seen from the simplest example-surfing the Internet.

How should a person survive in society? I'm afraid we won't know until we survive-this is probably our greatest sorrow. It's like at first I didn't want to think that the answer was that I wouldn't know it until my whole life. Now I have to think so, because this is reality, and reality can't be changed-I can't change it either. So I have to obey the reality-whether it's called "submission" or "a man who knows the times is a hero" Natural selection, survival of the fittest!

Question 8: How to survive in society should be down to earth!

Do your job honestly!

Question 9: How to survive in this society? Today, I chatted with a very close friend and found that we are no longer children. We should learn to grow up. This friend told me that during this time, I have met many people, both seniors in society and many married people, but the problem is that these married people are always very kind to her and don't say anything when they pick her up. Every time they invite her to dinner, it costs 200 yuan, the mobile phone costs 200 yuan, and the fruit is a box when they buy it ... This makes my friends now, these married men don't want to take the bus when they go out ...! ! ! ! My friend said that she knew what these people were thinking and didn't want to betray herself, but the power of money attracted her. I'm sorry about that. Yes, she has always been a money worshipper. In this environment, I am really worried that she will "degenerate" because of the temptation of money one day! I can't help thinking, what do women rely on to survive in this society? Yourself? Men? In fact, I don't despise women who make a career by men's strength, because there are either men or women in this world. If you want to achieve something, you have to get something from others. If the person sitting in the position that can help you is not a woman, then you want a man. How many women are there in the official position? So if you want to do business, most of you still contact men. It's just, in my opinion, it's shameful for a woman to get help from a man by her body. But if not, it is normal to use interest exchange and interest exchange. I am deeply touched by this topic today, and I want to say a little more. But I just talked to my mother, and now I'm not so excited, so I can't write any more. Hehe, that's it, one day I will be inspired to write!