My child is at the bottom of the key class, and I am accompanying the parents on their journey.

The high school entrance examination has ended, and my son has been admitted to a third-rate key high school. (There are only three major high schools in our local area)

After three years of unremitting efforts in junior high school, we have finally achieved good results.

The past three years have not been easy at all. I even feel that this is a history of blood and tears.

My son’s academic qualifications are very average, and his grades in elementary school have always been above average in the class. When I was promoted to junior high school, with good luck, I was admitted to a key class in a private junior high school. At that time, I learned that there were 6 children of teachers from our school in the class, so I expected that this was the strongest class in the school, and the teaching staff must be top-notch. Facts have proved that these teachers are indeed the most serious and responsible teachers I have ever seen. Their dedicated attitude often impresses parents.

While I was secretly thankful for all this, a feeling of worry also came into my heart. My son got into the exam by luck, and his performance ranking must be at the bottom of the class. As expected, I saw that my son's student number was No. 45, and there were a total of 55 students in the class. The teacher said that the student ID number is the grade ranking at the time of admission. Let's just say 45th. It's not that bad anyway. It's pretty good for him to be able to maintain this ranking in the key class.

When my son was in the first grade of junior high school, all the subjects were relatively simple. With the teaching of high-quality teachers, his grades were still around 45th in the class, and I didn’t worry too much about his grades. If each subject is calculated according to the percentage system, there will be more than 90 points.

The nightmare days began in the second grade of junior high school, and my son’s math scores dropped sharply. In the midterm exam of the first semester of my second year of junior high school, I only scored 37 points in mathematics. This time, let alone being ranked last, he seriously lowered the class average by his own efforts. When asked why, he said that he had insufficient understanding and spatial imagination of geometric figures, and often did not know where to start to solve problems. Because he often couldn't understand the math teacher's lectures in class, he felt confused and wanted to sleep. Since then, his class teacher often called me to complain. My son had to sleep in class, and I was often troubled by this. It gave me a headache.

What’s worse is that at this time, the son’s youthful rebellious period has come. His grades are getting worse and worse, and his temper is getting worse and worse. If I reprimanded him a little harsher, he would throw a stool at me, fly books, and even slam the door. I was often anxious to the point of insomnia. At that time, I sent my son to a tutoring institution for tutoring on weekends, but his grades showed no improvement.

If this situation continues, my son will definitely not be able to attend high school. So, after discussing with my son's father, I made a major decision, quit my job, devoted myself to being my son's support, and started living as a school boy. My son, who used to live in school, has since changed to live in the same school. I bought a copy of "Junior High School Mathematics Master's Notes" from the Internet, and also bought some video courseware. Since then, I have been reading Xueba’s notes and videos during the day to study junior high school mathematics on my own, and I have used software such as Xiaoyuan Question Search and Homework Helper to study mathematics problems. I am learning now and selling it now. In the evening, when my son comes home from his late self-study get out of class, I will lecture him on the topic.

Hard work pays off. After two months of hard work, I finally improved my son’s math scores. If based on a hundred-point system, he would have scored over 80 points. At this time, a friend recommended me a very good math tutor who taught me one-on-one. I quickly relieved myself of the heavy responsibility and gave my son to him for tutoring. In fact, deep down in my heart, I was worried that my level was limited and I would not be able to teach my son the difficult questions. Although the tutoring fee is very expensive, I think it is worth spending money to save worry.

My son’s math scores are improving, which is a happy thing. But in the second semester of the second grade of junior high school, I found that my son's English and science scores were suddenly declining. Later, I analyzed it carefully and found that the root cause is that my son is not motivated enough to study and does not know how to arrange his study time reasonably.

Despite my best efforts, I also found him a one-on-one tutor. Throughout the entire second year of junior high school and the first semester of junior high school, my son's total score was always third from the bottom in the class. The grade ranking has dropped from the top 100 in the first grade to over 260 in the third grade.

My son's class teacher worriedly said many times that there was little hope of getting into a key high school. I often had moments of despair, but I was unwilling to do so. After all, I spent so much tuition in private schools and tuition fees from outside, and I also put in a lot of energy.

In the first two months of the last semester of the third year of junior high school, due to the epidemic, classes were intermittent and often suspended, so I could only study at home. My son's unconscious personality has emerged again, and his study efficiency at home is very poor. After returning to school, my grades dropped again. This time I was completely desperate. It was only two and a half months before the high school entrance examination, and my results were appalling. I convinced myself several times that it would be good to accept my child's mediocrity and get a general high school entrance examination. After getting too desperate, I stopped clinging to the exam. I started to feel less anxious. With a Buddhist mentality, I just let everything take its course.

However, what I didn’t expect was that in the last two and a half months, my son suddenly woke up and saw him take the initiative to learn for the first time. I go to school at 6:15 every morning to memorize English and Chinese. After class at 10:00 in the evening, I use WeChat video on my mobile phone to ask the tutor for help.

However, the results of Model 2, Model 3, and Model 4 before the high school entrance examination are still not ideal. However, I have done a comprehensive analysis with my children. In fact, the scores in every other subject are rising, only science is very bad. , he could only get a score of 110 or so every time (the total score of science is 160)

This time his son was very calm. He said that the second model question in science was too difficult, and the whole class did not score high. In the third model of science, the number of questions is too large and too difficult. There is no time to complete some of the questions that can be solved in 20 points. The reason I didn't do well in the 4th Model Science test was that I didn't sleep well the night before the test, and I was dizzy. I made many scientific calculation questions carelessly and incorrectly.

An ordinary mother would definitely not believe these seemingly excuses at this time. But this time I trust him very much, because he usually scores 130 or 40 points in science in quizzes, and I believe that the papers in the high school entrance examination will be easier.

A few nights before the high school entrance examination, my son also practiced a few pages of English words carefully. He said he was afraid that the English composition for the high school entrance examination would be deducted too many points because the words were not good-looking. My son, who had always been careless, began to pay attention to details. Seeing him preparing for the high school entrance examination makes me extremely happy.

God favored us. Finally, our son performed exceptionally well in the high school entrance examination and was admitted to the high school of his choice.

The day before yesterday, several parents accompanying students were praised by the class teacher. There is one mother Zhou who I admire the most. She has graded a lot of homework for her daughter in the past three years and memorized a lot of books. She has also had several gray hairs because she was worried about her daughter's studies. It can be said that she is the most serious parent in the class and devotes the most to her children. Her daughter is also very successful and ranked among the top 100 in the city in the high school entrance examination.

As for me, the praise I received was that my son’s head teacher said that I truly “waited for the flowers to bloom” in raising my children. However, only I knew that there were countless times of despair in the process. of.