What happens when women don't do housework?

Some people say, "Marriage is the grave of love." Because love is romantic, and marriage is daily necessities, once two people get married, they need to face many aspects of life. For the family, it will inevitably involve some housework.

So, do you think housework must be done by women? If it were you, would you accept that your wife doesn't do housework? The answers of these five people were unexpected.

@ Mr. Cheng, 26 years old, married 1 year.

I can accept that my wife doesn't do housework at home at ordinary times, but she must be able to do it and try to help when necessary. My wife and I have been married for more than a year, and she hardly does housework at home. But if my mother comes home, I will still let her do it so as not to make my mother feel bad.

I think as a man, you should spoil your wife more. I won't let her do housework at ordinary times, because she is busy at work and can't bear to make her work too hard. I'll try my best to make her feel comfortable when I get home. After all, I finally married her, and I felt a little sorry for not spoiling her.

@ Mr. Huang, 3 1 year old, married for 5 years.

I think we should share the housework together! If I'm allowed to do it alone, she won't do it at all, and I shouldn't accept it. Housework is the responsibility of husband and wife, and our family has always been adhering to this style. I'm covering this month and she's covering the second half of the month, so we seldom quarrel about housework.

Our children have been in their hometown, with my mother taking care of them. Usually when we are tired from work, we can understand each other, so we do housework separately. Unless there are special circumstances, it is fair.

@ Mr. Wu, 36 years old, married 1 1 year.

I can't stand my wife not doing housework. It's a tradition in China that "men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside"! Women will be particularly lazy if they don't do housework. Even if I can accept it, I don't think my family can accept it. Because in our family, my father basically doesn't touch housework, and my mother basically contracts all the big and small jobs at home.

I think it is natural for women to do housework and take care of their children because they have no job. Only in this way can men earn money at ease, and the division of labor between men and women is different. This family always needs the joint efforts of husband and wife.

Mr. Liao, 4 1 year old, married 18 years.

It is definitely unacceptable for a wife not to do housework. Women don't do housework and men don't go to work. If she is too lazy to do housework, then why marry her back? It is necessary for a woman to look like a woman and do housework. Think about what it's like for a man to see his home in a mess after work when he is very tired. So if you want to be a good woman, you must first learn to do housework.

Women are the solid backing of men. I don't need my wife to go to work after marriage, but she must take care of things at home so that I can work outside with peace of mind. I don't think this is too much.

Mr. Fan, 50, has been married for 28 years.

That depends on the living conditions of two people! Of course, in our time, housework is basically dominated by women, and men are sideline businesses. But for young people nowadays, if both husband and wife are working after marriage, housework should be shared by two people!

It is not a good thing for women not to do housework. When you first get married, you don't have to learn, but you must learn. Nowadays, many young women are too lazy to know how to do housework. I think a woman must be able to do housework, but she can still hire a nanny if she can, but only if she can do it herself.

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